FabSwingers.com forum: Playing bareback

By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

Is it just me ,when poeple see the words bareback they run. I think if you ask you will find that poeple who do it are on prep a drug on NHS from Nov 2020 after tests the only thing I got to say to all who married when was you last tested do you know the signs

I hate it when. Poeple message me tell me that I'm dirty not like they are cheating and not tested as us who understand it test have a good day rant over

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I'm guessing it could be a trust issue. Would I trust a random stranger is taking the claimed medication or correctly ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly that. Trust. Not saying someone hasn't tested before, but I'd always rather be safe then sorry.

Wouldn't play bb with anyone unless I knew them extremely well.

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

Personally I think it's up to the individual,I prefer it but it's not for everyone.

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

Yes it is a trust issue but if you tested you know the signs after you played so you go get the antibiotics to help no sex two week but if people test even married and there no issues it stops it all they going to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is a trust issue but if you tested you know the signs after you played so you go get the antibiotics to help no sex two week but if people test even married and there no issues it stops it all they going to do that"

So what happens if you play before showing signs? Not all STIs show clear signs immediately. Some don't show at all. It's just easier not to do it.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

But I still wouldn't take a chance with a random stranger, but I appreciate many people are compliant

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think it is best not to worry about what others are doing and why. Some people don't want to use protection, some dont want to have bareback sex.

Those who don't do sex how you want to do sex just aren't for you. Whether married or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally wouldn’t trust anyone to go bare back and would seriously put us off if they asked.

Would never risk either of our heath.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Personally bareback being offered would make me run to as others have said its not worth the risk

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

Taking PrEp help prevent contracting HIV but it does prevent the various hepatitis strains. There are vaccines for a couple of strains but not all and obviously we are all super aware now that vaccines aren’t 100%. Bareback is a huge risk, even with PrEp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s up to the person I like bareback

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Trust, is a big one, trust them to have taken a sexual health test. For me it would have to be "exclusive" so trust they were also being exclusive.

My partner and I were told during a 3sum that the other person can't cum using a condom.. we politely said safe sex only..

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

Everyone has their preferences, we play bare, the issue often comes when people aren’t honest particularly men playing with men in secret where sadly the risks are higher as not all prepared to take the precautions putting both themselves and others at risk

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

"Everyone has their preferences, we play bare, the issue often comes when people aren’t honest particularly men playing with men in secret where sadly the risks are higher as not all prepared to take the precautions putting both themselves and others at risk "

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

That's the point poeple talk about not doing it how many go get tested simple even when tested you have a choice get tested. Be sure you clean

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"That's the point poeple talk about not doing it how many go get tested simple even when tested you have a choice get tested. Be sure you clean "

Testing is important whether you have sex with or without a condom. So many people forget that.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

If I see someone advertising bb I move on as it’s a definite no from me

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Is it just me ,when poeple see the words bareback they run. I think if you ask you will find that poeple who do it are on prep a drug on NHS from Nov 2020 after tests the only thing I got to say to all who married when was you last tested do you know the signs

I hate it when. Poeple message me tell me that I'm dirty not like they are cheating and not tested as us who understand it test have a good day rant over"

Why would you even remotely care what some fucktard randoms on a casual sex site like this think of you ? ..... they are not compatible with you or just trolling.. so nothing lost .. ..

Focus on the people that are into same things as you not everyone can have same likes/dislikes. levels of safety etc

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I hate it when. Poeple message me tell me that I'm dirty not like they are cheating and not tested as us who understand it test have a good day rant over

Why would you even remotely care what some fucktard randoms on a casual sex site like this think of you ? ..... they are not compatible with you or just trolling.. so nothing lost .. ..

Focus on the people that are into same things as you not everyone can have same likes/dislikes. levels of safety etc "

Agreed

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

Simple think is go get tested even if you married aids and STDs and COVID not gone away look after number 1 which is you yes you think it all bull shit you thought the same about aids and covid and a man porsate and a woman get tested simple

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Simple think is go get tested even if you married aids and STDs and COVID not gone away look after number 1 which is you yes you think it all bull shit you thought the same about aids and covid and a man porsate and a woman get tested simple

Who has said it's all bullshit? I haven't seen that

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"I think it is best not to worry about what others are doing and why. Some people don't want to use protection, some dont want to have bareback sex.

Those who don't do sex how you want to do sex just aren't for you. Whether married or not."

Very eloquently said

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Honestly what you prefer is just that personally we prefer protected we have played with somebody unprotected but that was after months of playing and even then we got tested before playing with anybody else for us being clean and looking after your self is a big thing and yeah prep is cool and all but it doesn't stop it.. But keep doing what your doing and you shouldn't care what others think..

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Put the kettle on, Jesus.

Play safe. Always. Or take a risk. End of.

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

Hope it green tea pmsl

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

"Hope it green tea pmsl"

The ginger and lemon one.

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By *acktopervMan
over a year ago

Stourport-On-Severn

I do and have always had the same view on this matter, other people can do what they like but where it comes to sexual health i look after myself first and foremost.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

If a new partner just wants to rush into it - I would be wary.

Any partner I went bareback with would be one where it was within a relationship. And we were both open and honest about our sexual activity testing etc.

It is a trust thing ultimately and I wouldn't be happy if a partner was breached the boundaries we had established.

Outside of that it's not my business.

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

So you take the time to test all should do it even if it not bareback get tested

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By *winging freyrMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

There’s definitely some education needed around prep.

Is it 100% protection?

Could you carry the virus, not get infected but still pass it on?

And then there is, as already said, is the trust thing.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"There’s definitely some education needed around prep.

Is it 100% protection?

Could you carry the virus, not get infected but still pass it on?

And then there is, as already said, is the trust thing. "

Prep is absolutely effective on par if not higher than condom for preventing HIV when used correctly, much like a condom ..

What it doesnt do is help with the lower STI like C/G/S ...its just to stop HIV ..

Prep has been the single biggest reason for the monstrous decreases in HIV over last 5 years in Gay/Trans/Bi community (LGBT are more likely to be testing than non LGBT, there is more advertising for sexual health towards the community than the straight community)

if people want to know more they should look at Terrence Higgins trust/ Dean street / various NHS resources all about sexual health and HIV/preventive / management etc

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

All I can say get tested straight bi just go as we all run after COVID in on number 8 booster that's the new 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s definitely some education needed around prep.

Is it 100% protection?

Could you carry the virus, not get infected but still pass it on?

And then there is, as already said, is the trust thing.

Prep is absolutely effective on par if not higher than condom for preventing HIV when used correctly, much like a condom ..

What it doesnt do is help with the lower STI like C/G/S ...its just to stop HIV ..

if people want to know more they should look at Terrence Higgins trust/ Dean street / various NHS resources all about sexual health and HIV/preventive / management etc "

Great response - well said

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

It's the truth look at the figures prep was a trail drug they found out a lot more look it up it there to read or just get tested simple you never have go do it

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By *lison tv OP TV/TS
over a year ago

near Pontefract

A least we talking so maybe one go es get tested it's a help for been safe or bareback jus get test check only takes the time to wait

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By *heswingerMan
over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

Me an my pal host in Sheffield for this type of fun in a clean relaxed home an he loves to eat the creampie, please message me if this tickles your fanny

Thanks rr

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By *winging freyrMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

"There’s definitely some education needed around prep.

Is it 100% protection?

Could you carry the virus, not get infected but still pass it on?

And then there is, as already said, is the trust thing.

Prep is absolutely effective on par if not higher than condom for preventing HIV when used correctly, much like a condom ..

What it doesnt do is help with the lower STI like C/G/S ...its just to stop HIV ..

if people want to know more they should look at Terrence Higgins trust/ Dean street / various NHS resources all about sexual health and HIV/preventive / management etc "

We’ll put!

For me there needs more open conversation about it but as stated above, the information is out there

And, of course, it needs to be used properly

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Exeter

If someone asks for BB when I have safe sex in my profile it tells me all I need to know about them......

It's a good filter

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Bareback with strangers is a big no from me. I prefer bare for sure but I'm not wiling to put the people I care about at additional risk beyond what we've already discussed

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

I don't have any form of medical contraceptive is wrapped or no play for me thankfully innocent has had the snip

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"That's the point poeple talk about not doing it how many go get tested simple even when tested you have a choice get tested. Be sure you clean "

It doesn't mean someone is clean just because they are tested.... I'd not play bare with anyone but a trusted partner.... and I take prep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone asks for BB when I have safe sex in my profile it tells me all I need to know about them......

It's a good filter

Indeed; it seems to be too much trouble for a lot of people to even look at profiles.

It would be great if we lived in an STI free world but unfortunately we don't, and much as I would like to have unprotected sex of all sorts it isn't worth the risk.

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By *heswingerMan
over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

Reading all the posts on this thread an what about those that have safe only on their profile then go totally opposite an let you bb them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I tend to avoid people who openly prefer bareback.

Everyone is entitled to whatever choices they want to make in regards to their own sexual health, but I don't want to expose myself or the people I care about to a level of risk I consider unacceptable to me or have to adjust the practices with my partners for the sake of a random fuck.

I wouldn't play bare with a stranger regardless. But if I knew they were regularly active with multiple partners and not taking what I consider basic and reasonable precautions then I wouldn't want any amount of skin on skin contact.

Not because I think they're dirty, we just have very concepts of what constitutes safety and respect in that area and it's a massive incompatibility

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I tend to avoid people who openly prefer bareback.

Not because I think they're dirty, we just have very concepts of what constitutes safety and respect in that area and it's a massive incompatibility

I have a very similar view.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

I think a lot of people think safe sex means wewring condoms. I was talking to a young lady the other day who was against testing completely and thinks condoms are enough protection.

Bareback sex can only work if both partners are on the same wavelength re standards and test regularly which is a hard thing to do and requires a lot of trust. Everyone should make a reasonable judgment re this issue but the important thing here is to avoid risky practice and test regularly.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Is this a new Board game?

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By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I prefer bareback sex. It’s natural, feels better, I have a breeding kink, and it’s just damn well naughtier for Hubby and I.

That being said, aside from the occasional slip up when getting carried away, I only do it with people I kind of trust, even though there are absolutely no guarantees. It’s a calculated risk.

I’m yet to meet a guy that ‘only plays safe’ who isn’t willing to put it in without protection when offered, and I’ve heard many, many stories of ‘holier than though’ couples who bend their own rules in private when it suits them. And anyone who regularly partakes in unprotected oral sex is taking a similar amount of risk.

What I absolutely can’t stand is duplicity, double-standards and lying. I am an advocate of being honest and open about what I do, so that anyone who’s interested in meeting me has all the facts and agency over their own decisions. That’s the only obligation as far as I’m concerned.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I prefer bareback sex. It’s natural, feels better, I have a breeding kink, and it’s just damn well naughtier for Hubby and I.

That being said, aside from the occasional slip up when getting carried away, I only do it with people I kind of trust, even though there are absolutely no guarantees. It’s a calculated risk.

Totally agree just be honest that what we say. We are open that we are a bareback couple at least that way it’s out there and people can decide if they want to chat and maybe play with us

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By *elboy1978Man
31 weeks ago

Jarrow

Like bareback

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By *ansoffateMan
31 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Like bareback "

Thanks I'll try.

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By *eliWoman
31 weeks ago

"Like bareback "

Do you by any chance like bareback? I've logged on and there are all these threads about breeding and bareback... good bumping there.

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By *elboy1978Man
31 weeks ago

Jarrow

I like bareback having the feeling of a pussy round my cock and filling her up with cum

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We love bareback with a trusted person

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