FabSwingers.com forum: Sending potential meets running

By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

What do you do that sends the people who were chatting to you running for the hills?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a face pic

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

My apparent sin is insisting on a social meet somewhere public such as a coffeeshop or pub.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I only meet at weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, hopefully they can tell me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say Hello lol

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Completely ignore “sex” talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s usually the face pic.

That’s fine with me, I’m not ego enough to think that everyone I send it to will fancy some of this candy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told having body hair and tattoos

. I have minimal body hair, im not a bear but I'm not a seal haha.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I only meet at weekends "

Oh, this too.

Some Saturdays for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I say hello.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my pics send everyone running lol

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"My apparent sin is insisting on a social meet somewhere public such as a coffeeshop or pub."

That’s very sensible thing to do.

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Send a face pic

I can't believe your would scare people off that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticking to my boundaries seems to do it

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"I only meet at weekends "

I am guessing that causes problens for the meeting behind their partners back crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indulge in conversations that don’t revolve around sex

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Not sure, hopefully they can tell me.

Heaven knows, clearly some strange people out there (but then I usually include myself in the strange peiple grouping, its very well populated).

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"Indulge in conversations that don’t revolve around sex

Well that just wierd, how dare you think about anything but unadulterated sex.

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By *entish_HeathenMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I wish I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’d have to ask them as I’m in dark on this

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Not being interested in meeting currently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon as I say Hello normally does it x

Or if I send a nice message x

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Send them my actual dick pic instead of the Google images one

LvM

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"What do you do that sends the people who were chatting to you running for the hills?"

I remember telling one interested party too much of a truth, saying I couldn't meet due to an ingrowing hair.

My filter didn't seem to be working that well

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Not being assertive enough has been one feedback I've received, twice. Otherwise due diligence often mitigates these things for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending them an up to date pic usually works

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Tell them I don't do hook ups.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nothing. It's after meeting someone when I've not had sex with them or swooned over their very existence that's usually the problem.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have no idea. But I am consistent with whatever it is

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Revealing my true existence as a xenophobic, three foot eight Austrian with a false nose, bad breath, a habit of taking snuff with his coffee, and never seen out in public without his surfboard and parrot.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

That's ironic that phrase came up last night in conversation.

I thrive on openness and I think that leads to some being more open with me than they are accustomed to. Simply put some get overwhelmed.

I look at the 'mature' way of dealing with ruptures in relationships as a commitment by both parties to own their part.

But then sometimes I run for the hills too. Arrrgggh the feelies run away! Scary stuff.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Having boundaries and not wanting to meet solo

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Sending a face pic usually gets me blocked.

Or telling them I can't drive.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Pretty much just by existing

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Expecting to see a face pic before agreeing to meet.

When the realisation hits that a social drink is exactly that, and they won't be getting a fuck.

When I don't respond to sex talk and I'm not interested in a picture of thier genitals.

Seems to be lots of things that send them running.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What do you do that sends the people who were chatting to you running for the hills?"

Telling them I won't do a five hour round trip for a half hour quickie.

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By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

"What do you do that sends the people who were chatting to you running for the hills?

Telling them I won't do a five hour round trip for a half hour quickie. "

How, absolutely unreasonable of you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Insist on a social meet first

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Take 726 days to arrange the meet

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet"

. Only 726? Hmmmmmm

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet

. Only 726? Hmmmmmm "

That's the average, some shorter, some significantly longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's ironic that phrase came up last night in conversation.

I thrive on openness and I think that leads to some being more open with me than they are accustomed to. Simply put some get overwhelmed.

I look at the 'mature' way of dealing with ruptures in relationships as a commitment by both parties to own their part.

But then sometimes I run for the hills too. Arrrgggh the feelies run away! Scary stuff."

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Quite academical as it sort of requires someone to reply first.

In my "vanilla" dating life it's simply when they realise I'm really skint. Dating on a budget is difficult. And don't tell me it doesn't matter, I've had a few say it to my face now. I'm on a good wage but have kids to pay for and debts.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet"

Hahahahah!

Me, it's when I open my mouth and start talking and don't stop for air or even when the glazed look crosses their face

Cherry x

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet

Hahahahah!

Me, it's when I open my mouth and start talking and don't stop for air or even when the glazed look crosses their face

Cherry x

We men appreciate when a lady doesn't need air

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I can sometimes just end up talking myself out of one by being to open.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Realistically there are probably quite a few things that put people off, but for the purposes of this thread I'm going to choose my availability - which is likely once or twice a month, unless you're going to Chams the same time I am - this is mostly viewed by others as a lie if the chat falls when my first available window is a couple of weeks away, despite actually simply being a reality of my circumstances.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Declare my undying love.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Tell them how many kids I have and that I am very fertile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet"

Never a truer word said....

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

Sending a pic or being an old fart seems to do it here

Am suprised how many people have rejections I thought it was only me

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Send a face pic

I can't believe your would scare people off that way."

Nah, it normally ends many a convo, then age

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet

Never a truer word said...."

My perfectly constructed wall chart tells me we're only at day 133, so quite a while to go yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take 726 days to arrange the meet

Never a truer word said....

My perfectly constructed wall chart tells me we're only at day 133, so quite a while to go yet. "

This is my disappointed face

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Tell them that no matter how many times they ask, it's me that's bi & not the hubby.

Usually does it

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"That's ironic that phrase came up last night in conversation.

I thrive on openness and I think that leads to some being more open with me than they are accustomed to. Simply put some get overwhelmed.

I look at the 'mature' way of dealing with ruptures in relationships as a commitment by both parties to own their part.

But then sometimes I run for the hills too. Arrrgggh the feelies run away! Scary stuff.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Ask to meet them

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

I think the twirling gets on people's nerves

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Most have run for the hills before I've even started chatting to them.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

When I tell them about my collection of human heads in jar's in the fridge.

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"When I tell them about my collection of human heads in jar's in the fridge.

Nothing wrong with a fine collection of human heads. There's a museum in Oxford with some on displaying; the shrunken heads of those they'd taken in battle. One of the more unusual museum exhibits I've come across.

Moral is that if you dry them out, you can free up the space in your fridge. (Also, helps keep them away from your soft cheese.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I tell them about my collection of human heads in jar's in the fridge.

This shouldn’t have intrigued me as much as it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask to meet them

The only hill this would send me running is the one closer to you

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Tell them I'm married with permission. I'd rather be honest from the start.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

refuse to meet solo

despite it saying we are a couple, some guys want me to themselves.

Not happening.

And getting abusive about it is an instant block.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Well we sent our face pics earlier and got the ‘sound of silence’ from a back and forth conversation with a female - so we’ll go with face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we sent our face pics earlier and got the ‘sound of silence’ from a back and forth conversation with a female - so we’ll go with face pics

I bet you’re both stunning!

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"When I tell them about my collection of human heads in jar's in the fridge.

Sounds like a risk worth taking

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

tell them they need to work on their conversation skills somewhat as its poor quality currently

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Ask to meet them

The only hill this would send me running is the one closer to you "

Screw running up that hill

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"When I tell them about my collection of human heads in jar's in the fridge.

Sounds like a risk worth taking"

I won't be after your head....

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Tell them J uses a wheelchair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a face pic

I can't believe your would scare people off that way."

Hmmmm.

Well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a face pic

I can't believe your would scare people off that way.

Hmmmm.

Well.... "

Hush your gums

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

I think saying a polite hello is enough to be seen as some kind of social leper.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a face pic

This

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