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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

To those that shy away from commitment or getting to close to someone is it because you are scared? Or is it because you have been so badly hurt the thought brings you out in a cold sweat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not because ive been hurt,its because i love my life and the freedom i have and i think im so set in my ways,i couldn't have anyone come into that.

I see my man a couple of times a week and it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not scared, just don't want it any more.

If I were to meet someone I doubt very much I would want to be with them 24/7, I like my own space and I'm content with my life being my own and being answerable to no one.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I do agree....sometimes you love your own space....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither if those really. I just enjoy my life the way it is now. Bachelorism seems to agree with me. I wouldn't rule out committing if the right lass came along but I won't actively seek it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a happy little fella as I am

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm a happy little fella as I am "

Does that mean the wedding is off??

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It seems there are a few of us happy as we are.who might like someone to compliment that but not to dominate it.

I'd like someone but I don't necessarily want marriage or living together.

Tricky, eh?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I suppose to those that have had it not example the relationship and kids you have had it sometimes that is enough for 1 life time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am scared of tall blondes.

My therapist has told me to confront my fears and shag em until they can't walk

Er, what you doing later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems there are a few of us happy as we are.who might like someone to compliment that but not to dominate it.

I'd like someone but I don't necessarily want marriage or living together.

Tricky, eh? "

I said to a friend last night, my ideal man would live next door and have to knock at mine to get in, he wouldn't have a key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm scared of it because I've been hurt. Unfortunately I'm a product of past relationships. It's just the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems there are a few of us happy as we are.who might like someone to compliment that but not to dominate it.

I'd like someone but I don't necessarily want marriage or living together.

Tricky, eh? "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I am scared of tall blondes.

My therapist has told me to confront my fears and shag em until they can't walk

Er, what you doing later? "

If Chopsy is busy, I can stand on a stool

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I am scared of tall blondes.

My therapist has told me to confront my fears and shag em until they can't walk

Er, what you doing later?

If Chopsy is busy, I can stand on a stool"

I am otherwise engaged tonight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like having a man around for the company, i dont think its good to rely on a man to make you feel happy though because when it goes wrong then what else have you got.

dont expect too much then you wont be so disapointed.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No and not been hurt in the past.

I think over the years I have read many posts on here about heartache from previous relationships, hurt, trust that has been abused. You can feel it in the way they write about the subject of being single, married people playing away etc etc and the way they react to some of the attention.

I personally wish them all the best as they recover from that hurt and move forward. I do think some may need to deal with it with some professional help & relationship counselling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am scared of tall blondes.

My therapist has told me to confront my fears and shag em until they can't walk

Er, what you doing later?

If Chopsy is busy, I can stand on a stool

I am otherwise engaged tonight.... "

Looks like I am leaving earlier than expected due to the extra mileage

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No and not been hurt in the past.

I think over the years I have read many posts on here about heartache from previous relationships, hurt, trust that has been abused. You can feel it in the way they write about the subject of being single, married people playing away etc etc and the way they react to some of the attention.

I personally wish them all the best as they recover from that hurt and move forward. I do think some may need to deal with it with some professional help & relationship counselling.

"

View that is a valid point....I am guilty of saying i have been dumped by text and posted on the forums.. .I think few people have made me wiser...i read this question in a woman mags....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"No and not been hurt in the past.

I think over the years I have read many posts on here about heartache from previous relationships, hurt, trust that has been abused. You can feel it in the way they write about the subject of being single, married people playing away etc etc and the way they react to some of the attention.

I personally wish them all the best as they recover from that hurt and move forward. I do think some may need to deal with it with some professional help & relationship counselling.

View that is a valid point....I am guilty of saying i have been dumped by text and posted on the forums.. .I think few people have made me wiser...i read this question in a woman mags.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not shy away from commitment, i choose not to seek it out.

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