FabSwingers.com forum: What *wouldn't* you change?

By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

We're always hearing and talking about things we would change about ourselves. So let's go the other way - what would you absolutely not change about yourself under any circumstances?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My dry wit and sharp sarcasm

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

My ink.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Being a good listener and a friend.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

My sunny outlook on life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sparkling personality and no bullshit/bullying listened too or tolerated ways....

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My boobs - my favourite part of me

J x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i wouldnt change the way i help other people kindness i guess

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Lots of things!

My mind. My resilience. My heart. I thought it was a weakness to care about others and shut it off and people out for many years. Now, regardless of what happens in my life, I'm always going to embrace the fact that I feel and care. Even if it does make me vulnerable to hurt.

Oh and my inability to answer with a short sentence.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Self-respect and integrity.

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"My dry wit and sharp sarcasm

'The first thing I do in the morning is brush my teeth and sharpen my tongue.' - Oscar Lavant.

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Being a good listener and a friend."

Excellent qualities!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Lots of things!

Oh and my inability to answer with a short sentence.

Waffle maketh the Meli, or something like that!

But mine is similar: I care for others and am empathetic. I am calm and not easily ruffled. I like that about myself.

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"My sunny outlook on life

I'm guessing you're fun to be around!

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"My ink. "

I don't have any but I like it on other people when they've got something artistic.

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"My sparkling personality and no bullshit/bullying listened too or tolerated ways....

Sounds like you have very healthy boundaries!

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"My boobs - my favourite part of me

J x"

Fair!

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"i wouldnt change the way i help other people kindness i guess"

Excellent!

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

My dry sense of humour/sarcasm

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

"Self-respect and integrity."

This and honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt change a few things:-

My bounceback ability even against the odds. My personality and sense of humour shining through during conversations.

Seeing the good in everyone and treating them as I want to be treated.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Self-respect and integrity.

This and honesty "

Agreed, but I consider honesty to be a consequence of having those values.

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By *ake_or_death OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Lots of things!

Oh and my inability to answer with a short sentence.

Vulnerability is the risk we take for deeper experiences.

And why limit yourself to one sentence when you have a lot to say?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My compassion, my kindness, my weirdness and my eyes.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Lots of things!

Oh and my inability to answer with a short sentence.

Waffle maketh the Meli, or something like that!

But mine is similar: I care for others and am empathetic. I am calm and not easily ruffled. I like that about myself."

That's brilliant! Really tickled me, probably going to use it.

Have you always been calm? It's something I'd like to try, one day. :D Caring about others is a strength. Showing that? Even more so.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I won't change my penchant for shoes, my letters and missives that I send to those wonderful people on here and I won't change my reluctance to accept the ongoing drama that seems to prevail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face.

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

"Self-respect and integrity.

This and honesty

Agreed, but I consider honesty to be a consequence of having those values."

You're right, honesty does stem from those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I am happy being me.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I am everything I should be, perfect imperfect

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

"We're always hearing and talking about things we would change about ourselves. So let's go the other way - what would you absolutely not change about yourself under any circumstances? "

Anything.

Because if I wasn’t happy with something I’d already be changing it.

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