FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ever message people and tell them they are on your hotlist?

Has anyone had any success from telling people this?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

I probably should........

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t think I’ve ever messaged and said that. But I have joined in on hotlist confession threads. And yeah … that’s led places.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

I probably should........

Try it, what's the worst that could happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never messaged anyone and told them, but yes I have met people that were from my hotlist either socially or more and still see them now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think I’ve ever messaged and said that. But I have joined in on hotlist confession threads. And yeah … that’s led places.

Go you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Only off the back of a thread but even then it's sort of jokey because they know already as we've been talking. I don't think I could message someone and just say it. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never messaged anyone and told them, but yes I have met people that were from my hotlist either socially or more and still see them now.

Wrong face

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No….. don’t feel the need to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never messaged anyone and told them, but yes I have met people that were from my hotlist either socially or more and still see them now.

Wrong face

ha ha "

I did wonder

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No and never will

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Morning all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only off the back of a thread but even then it's sort of jokey because they know already as we've been talking. I don't think I could message someone and just say it. :D"

You could try messaging and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

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By *NGthe2ndWoman
over a year ago

Here and there

I have in the past with some lovely answers.

Mostly it feels good to make someone's day

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

**runs off to make a list**

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No….. don’t feel the need to

They find you eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No and never will"

Any particular reason? If that's me being too nosey you can choose to ignore

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"No.

I probably should........

Try it, what's the worst that could happen."

be on their block list

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"**runs off to make a list**"

Oh! You’re on my list, you are.

(This is now one of those threads, right?)

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

No never have, not sure why to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

I probably should........

Try it, what's the worst that could happen.

be on their block list

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning all

Good morning, hope you're well.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I have told guys who send me unsolicited friends invites to simply hotlist me as unless I've met them it's not appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning "

Good morning

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"**runs off to make a list**

Oh! You’re on my list, you are.

(This is now one of those threads, right?)

Well now you've gone and made me

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By *ikerBloke...Man
over a year ago

western hemisphere , planet earth

"Do you ever message people and tell them they are on your hotlist?

Has anyone had any success from telling people this?"

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr your now on my hotlist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No….. don’t feel the need to

They find you eh

You got it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"No.

I probably should........

Try it, what's the worst that could happen."

Oh many, many things.

My hotlist isn't just for those I think hot......there's no 'notlist' after all.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Well now you've gone and made me

And I bet you’re cute as a button with rosy cheeks too.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I did receive a message saying this but was more of importance if anything else so I also did. Distance is a pain in the arse at times

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I never have but we have received a couple

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have in the past with some lovely answers.

Mostly it feels good to make someone's day

That is a lovely idea that you've made someone's day

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I've never told anyone

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Well now you've gone and made me

And I bet you’re cute as a button with rosy cheeks too."

Are we still talking about my face?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"**runs off to make a list**"

Big will you message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. Some people reply and some don't.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Are we still talking about my face?"

Well I was. But that’s not what I’m thinking about *now*.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Nope cause everyone is always to far away, I have chatted to some lovely people that are on my hot list and told them in the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

I probably should........

Try it, what's the worst that could happen.

Oh many, many things.

My hotlist isn't just for those I think hot......there's no 'notlist' after all.

Ha! That's funny. Notlist

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I haven't, but if someone is on my Hotlist I've probably liked a bunch of their photos so it's probably fairly obvious.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"**runs off to make a list**

Big will you message them

Hold on Im still trying to work out how you do it

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Are we still talking about my face?

Well I was. But that’s not what I’m thinking about *now*."

**wiggles**

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Knitter you've been on my hot list for a while, stunning figure and suck gorgeous lips. Never flet the need to say as you're too far away but what the hell today's the day I tell you.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Knitter you've been on my hot list for a while, stunning figure and suck gorgeous lips. Never flet the need to say as you're too far away but what the hell today's the day I tell you.

Why thank you handsome you"re super kind to say so

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

In a manner of speaking.

Well she messaged me. I said: oh hello I've wanted to message you, you're on my hotlist.

She asked why I hadn't.

I pointed out her age filter.

Her response to that was quite endearing.

Success is subjective really isn't it? Most things are momentary. The memory is pleasant; so thank you for the reminder.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Only off the back of a thread but even then it's sort of jokey because they know already as we've been talking. I don't think I could message someone and just say it. :D

You could try messaging and see what happens."

I could... I could also not try that and stick with being delulu. To be honest, most of the time it's when someone catches my eye through their writing and I think ah, you're interesting. It would be weird to message people to say that.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"Knitter you've been on my hot list for a while, stunning figure and suck gorgeous lips. Never flet the need to say as you're too far away but what the hell today's the day I tell you.

Why thank you handsome you"re super kind to say so

The truth is easy to say but not always easy to believe.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Only off the back of a thread but even then it's sort of jokey because they know already as we've been talking. I don't think I could message someone and just say it. :D

You could try messaging and see what happens.

No it wouldn't! That would be a great compliment for anyone, especially if they've put enough effort and thought into their posts to prompt that reaction from you.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No, other than in those forum games...

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By *orYourThighsOnlyMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Do you ever message people and tell them they are on your hotlist?

Has anyone had any success from telling people this?"

Let’s try it. Ruby Star you’re in my hotlist. I fabbed some of your pics I found hottest. When are you bringing me for steak and wine and going to jump my bones lol .. And a plane ticket accross the pond lol ahaha

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

No. I've never done that.

I've admitted to someone that they happened to be on my Høtlïst when they messaged me but that was just in passing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but we might start now

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