FabSwingers.com forum: Gay sex without gay attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any other guys enjoy sex with men without finding men attractive?

I love the sex but have never really been attracted to other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve heard of this and never really understood how you separate sex from attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given bjs to men but would not go out looking for a guy on a night out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve heard of this and never really understood how you separate sex from attraction? "

I guess it’s easiest to say I love everything that goes with sleeping with a guy, I just never feel attracted to the actual person… it’s just purely sexual enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I feel I'd like to try but I don't have sex without having attraction so I'd presume it'll pass me by

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

only in your dreams

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve had plenty of sex without attraction, being inebriated, randy or in a group. Possibly other reasons for example I liked something about them that allowed me to be sexually attracted but maybe not physically attracted.

So you could go with animal passion or at the time you fancied doing it, as ultimately it happened and if you enjoyed it, maybe don’t question it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve already said I’ll kiss Brucey. That’s enough gay for me today.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Its all possible.. Some people have their intimate attractions with one sex but can still enjoy physical experiences with both.

Ain't being human amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time. Gay men find that hardest to deal of with and straight guys seem to have no problem, because it is just a blow job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you end up having sex with a guy if you don't find him attractive? Is this a gay post or a post for all sexual orientations?

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow

I have had some amazing and pleasurable meets with guys,and really enjoy the mutual physical contact, but very rarely find them attractive

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"How do you end up having sex with a guy if you don't find him attractive? Is this a gay post or a post for all sexual orientations? "

"Every hole is a goal."

Some men would fuck a hole in a barbershop floor.

I'd you have used an anonymous gloryhole, you obviously don't care who is serving you, just want to come.

This is the same thing.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"I’ve already said I’ll kiss Brucey. That’s enough gay for me today."

So funny

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I’ve heard of this and never really understood how you separate sex from attraction? "

Simply it’s just the cock is all they are interested / aroused by The rest of the man is nothing more than a delivery mechanism

It’s very common I have seen over the years. . No different than men fucking women they don’t find physically attractive but just want a pussy this fuck .

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By *igs72Man
over a year ago

motherwell

Had a few encounters with men. Never had any attraction to them and never thought of guys being attractive.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Plenty of people have sex without attraction regardless of which gender, you only have to look here to see for many any holes a goal.

It's not something I can personally do.

Mrs

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I enjoy men and women but only find ladies attractive, I think a lot of guys have the same attitude

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By *imber wolfMan
over a year ago

Aycliffe

Absolutely, happens all the time. Some people can just enjoy the physical act.

After all, men and women fuck sex toys without being attracted to them

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Have had play with another woman once but not at all attracted to women! Was in a 3 sum scenario! X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Do you mean it’s totally a physical thing and you’re not attracted to men in a romantic/kissing way? So you are attracted but just physically? If so I get what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean it’s totally a physical thing and you’re not attracted to men in a romantic/kissing way? So you are attracted but just physically? If so I get what you mean. "

Not really, more so that it’s just the sex I enjoy. The man doesn’t really matter

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

It's all about the cock ...

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By *ero312Man
over a year ago

laindon

I think that a lot of us are attracted to the sexual energy not the person.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I think that a lot of us are attracted to the sexual energy not the person. "

Are you just attracted to getting off

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By *oveallMan
over a year ago

kells

Think so ... I'm str up luv a stiff 1 ..

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By *ndrew66Man
35 weeks ago

Enfield

Ho yes lovely would like to meet horny guy and make love

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

Sex without attraction to the person or gender is common, including with sex workers and porn actors.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Have had play with another woman once but not at all attracted to women! Was in a 3 sum scenario! X"

I'm with you there hun.

I've invented the term BI-NEUTRAL.

So I'll happily play with a woman in a sexy couples meet, so go through the sex act but feeling neutral about her. Not attracted but can enjoy because we're giving each other pleasure.

A lot of bi men I meet are BI-NEUTRAL. So they're equally active/passive oral/anal but not attracted to the men.

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I have to find someone attractive and like them enough to put my penis in them, so the situation would never occur, regardless of my sexual preferences. If both those conditions aren't met, I will be more likely to go and have a wank.

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By *oiluvfunMan
35 weeks ago

Penrith

"Sex without attraction to the person or gender is common, including with sex workers and porn actors. "

Just ask Stormy Daniels…..

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By *annessaTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Denham

Yes quiet possible, don’t want attraction, too complicated. However. . . . Not keen on bellies, sorry.

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By *iM4kinkMan
35 weeks ago

San Antonio

"I’ve had plenty of sex without attraction, being inebriated, randy or in a group. Possibly other reasons for example I liked something about them that allowed me to be sexually attracted but maybe not physically attracted.

So you could go with animal passion or at the time you fancied doing it, as ultimately it happened and if you enjoyed it, maybe don’t question it.

Been sucking and fucking other boys, guys from late teens to mid twenties. And MMMmmmm...ffuuucccckkkkkk...experienced, kinky, hung, older, Dom men being my main attraction now.

Have never been emotionally or romantically attracted to other males honestly. And i'd luv to eat your sexy little asshole sexy, thanks for your input gurl.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I'm not attracted to guys, but I do love their cocks.

It is just a sex act with someone and you don't need to be romantically attracted to enjoy it.

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By *ex HolesMan
35 weeks ago

Up North

"Do any other guys enjoy sex with men without finding men attractive?

I love the sex but have never really been attracted to other guys"

Any holes a goal?

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By *ussy ChairMan
35 weeks ago

Ingoldmells

"It's all about the cock ...

Totally agree, not attracted to many guys but am addicted to sucking cock.

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By *tylebender03Man
35 weeks ago

Manchester

Sounds like prison sex

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By *ex HolesMan
35 weeks ago

Up North

Sounds gay to me

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Jesus the delusion on this site lol

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By *andC1000Couple
35 weeks ago

Ashford

"I'm not attracted to guys, but I do love their cocks.

It is just a sex act with someone and you don't need to be romantically attracted to enjoy it."

Plenty of men out there feel the same, shame more aren’t more honest about it and feel they need to hide it through fear of judgement

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Jesus if a guy wasn’t actually attracted to me there’s no way I’d be having sex with him.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

"Sex without attraction to the person or gender is common, including with sex workers and porn actors.

Just ask Stormy Daniels…..

God knows how she did that

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Never had gay sex not into guys i'm st8 but seen some tranny porn & must admit..

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By *azmar62Couple
35 weeks ago

Hinckley

I’m a bisexual man. I prefer sex with the ladies. But in a mmf situation, I like to be able to literally get stuck in. It can be the most amazing experience if your mindset isn’t clouded by what goes where. In this day and age, who gives a fuck.

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By *ilo1962Man
35 weeks ago

Kinross

I just enjoy sex with women or men , no real attraction needed , soon find out if there is any connection

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not no attractoin

But my date preference is woman

Not in to date guys

guys for me are a play toy

They use me as they sex doll I use them as mine

Then off about or day or what ever

With a thanks for the one off

Or see you next week when need that ich scratched

I am good with that

That’s not to say it’s a splat and run out the door though

I do expect time to be spent talking and laughing and jokeing and what not afterwards

but date dates are off the table

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By *stwo2023Couple
35 weeks ago

Worcester

"Jesus if a guy wasn’t actually attracted to me there’s no way I’d be having sex with him. "

But how would you know he wasn't attracted to you? I doubt they'd straight up tell you for fear of not getting a fuck lol

Evie

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By *ercury oneMan
35 weeks ago

Chippenham

I love having sex with men but have never found men attractive at all. I couldn't tell a good looking man from another

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"Jesus if a guy wasn’t actually attracted to me there’s no way I’d be having sex with him.

But how would you know he wasn't attracted to you? I doubt they'd straight up tell you for fear of not getting a fuck lol

Evie "

Good point. It’s not easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I’d say there needs to be attraction there. Most men looking for men have lists of what they like. Some might say they aren’t attracted to men, but they have a type - so they do find them attractive. Most in denial when it comes to admitting they like men.

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By *ercury oneMan
35 weeks ago

Chippenham

I'm attracted to cock, not the person, so be it a man,tv,trans, ladyboy or whatever, I'm in

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By *Beardy1Man
35 weeks ago

Atherton

I've met plenty of bi/straight guys who love dick or getting milked / blown by an experienced guy!

I think if you have the urge/need, just go with it!

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