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By *lackXeal OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

When you tell a girl/lady that you are not a rich boy. They just tend to withdraw from you gradually or suddenly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t tell them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean in the swinging lifestyle or such as on a date?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean, I pull away from people who say they're too short for me.

Not because they're too short for me. Just because I can't be bothered to deal with that kind of mentality about it.

Perhaps others are the same about people who think their financials are important.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Don’t tell them then "

What she said stupid

Be like me millioniar in my dreams

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A man once approached me in my workplace and asked me out on a date. I declined. The next day he returned with his bank statement. He said "look at that and you will date me". I said I'm not going to look. It doesn't make any difference to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I pull away from people who say they're too short for me.

Not because they're too short for me. Just because I can't be bothered to deal with that kind of mentality about it.

…."

I relate to this.

If I’m bigger than them. My hoody will look cute on them.

If we are the same size. We can share a hoodie.

If I’m smaller than them. Their hoodie will look cute on me.

It’s all good.

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty


"When you tell a girl/lady that you are not a rich boy. They just tend to withdraw from you gradually or suddenly. "

Why do you tell them in the first place?

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By *lackXeal OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Do you mean in the swinging lifestyle or such as on a date?"

Both

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'd rather it take longer to find someone who wants me regardless of my financial situation than have someone fall in love with my money straight away..

They aren't all like that.

Scott.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I identify as a millionaire I reckon that's good enough.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, that's not my Ferrari in my Tinder profile photo. I like fishing. Here, look at this massive carp I caught last week.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"When you tell a girl/lady that you are not a rich boy. They just tend to withdraw from you gradually or suddenly. "

I guess if you have to hang on to the story that blames an entire gender then you don't have to look for reasons that are closer to home.

Oh the stories we tell ourselves.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"When you tell a girl/lady that you are not a rich boy. They just tend to withdraw from you gradually or suddenly. "

This made me think about 'diamonds on the soles of her shoes'.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure why you'd discuss finances with anyone from fab, it's absolutely nothing to do with anything.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A man once approached me in my workplace and asked me out on a date. I declined. The next day he returned with his bank statement. He said "look at that and you will date me". I said I'm not going to look. It doesn't make any difference to me. "

Blimey!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I would say lucky escape

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By *lackXeal OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"I'm not sure why you'd discuss finances with anyone from fab, it's absolutely nothing to do with anything.

Mrs "

I met a lady on here. I paid for everything. Meal, night out, hotels. She never contributed anything. The last time we were planning to go out and said I don't have much because I'm not a rich boy. She just blocked me straight away

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm not sure why you'd discuss finances with anyone from fab, it's absolutely nothing to do with anything.

Mrs

I met a lady on here. I paid for everything. Meal, night out, hotels. She never contributed anything. The last time we were planning to go out and said I don't have much because I'm not a rich boy. She just blocked me straight away "

Yeah that's out of order and always go halves, any self respecting woman will always split the bill unless agreed otherwise.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not surprised. What a peculiar thing to say to someone.

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By *assP69Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I'm not sure why you'd discuss finances with anyone from fab, it's absolutely nothing to do with anything.

Mrs

I met a lady on here. I paid for everything. Meal, night out, hotels. She never contributed anything. The last time we were planning to go out and said I don't have much because I'm not a rich boy. She just blocked me straight away "

She ain't worth being upset over. She showed you her true colours. You should be thanking her. She did you a solid. Next.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, I highly doubt it was just about the money.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I'm not sure why you'd discuss finances with anyone from fab, it's absolutely nothing to do with anything.

Mrs

I met a lady on here. I paid for everything. Meal, night out, hotels. She never contributed anything. The last time we were planning to go out and said I don't have much because I'm not a rich boy. She just blocked me straight away "

That’s bad. I either alternate or split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you tell a girl/lady that you are not a rich boy. They just tend to withdraw from you gradually or suddenly. "

They weren't interested in you per se...

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty


"

I met a lady on here. I paid for everything. Meal, night out, hotels. She never contributed anything. The last time we were planning to go out and said I don't have much because I'm not a rich boy. She just blocked me straight away "

More fool you for setting the precedent and paying from the outset.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I identify as a millionaire I reckon that's good enough. "

A millionaire for a day and skint for the rest of the month

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

But what if I am rich

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Stop talking to girls and ladies then. Women is where it's at... Have a feeling mentioning it is where you are failing though, not the fact you are not rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you."

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily. "

She's not lying, she's begging to buy me a happy meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily.

She's not lying, she's begging to buy me a happy meal"

One day you'll meet me..... and realise I'm not so scary after all, once you look up and stop staring at my tits.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

If they’re interested in your money OP then they’re really not interested in YOU

FFS that was profound for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I identify as a millionaire I reckon that's good enough. "

Transfinancial?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"If they’re interested in your money OP then they’re really not interested in YOU

FFS that was profound for me "

Can't wait for the movie

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily.

She's not lying, she's begging to buy me a happy meal

One day you'll meet me..... and realise I'm not so scary after all, once you look up and stop staring at my tits. "

I told you it's more the booty of yours I'm transfixed too! I'll stand behind you in the queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily.

She's not lying, she's begging to buy me a happy meal

One day you'll meet me..... and realise I'm not so scary after all, once you look up and stop staring at my tits.

I told you it's more the booty of yours I'm transfixed too! I'll stand behind you in the queue"

Get on your knees and stare and I'll wiggle it for you!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Lucky escape. Why would you want to be with someone who sees you as a walking wallet?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"You're meeting the wrong kind of women, OP. That's on them not you.

I agree with this comment, a lot of us are more than able to pay for ourselves and will do happily.

She's not lying, she's begging to buy me a happy meal

One day you'll meet me..... and realise I'm not so scary after all, once you look up and stop staring at my tits.

I told you it's more the booty of yours I'm transfixed too! I'll stand behind you in the queue

Get on your knees and stare and I'll wiggle it for you! "

I think that would scare the children...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean in the swinging lifestyle or such as on a date?

Both"

I don't believe that finances should even enter a conversation when looking for swinging partners.

Dating I can sort of understand. If I was looking for a life partner I would want them to be financially sound.

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