FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys - don’t brush us all with the dickhead paint

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

friday night always brings out the 'good ones' ive noticed

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By *ussyslave4youMan
over a year ago

corby

Ive found that the decent guys on here are looked upon as ok, in the first few sentences in a message. What gets us a bad name is the idiots just out of the playground and not grown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m off to B&Q for that shade in the morning

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some of my favourite people are single guys on here.

The ones that stand out in a good way will stand out even better against all the shit the spatters the rest of the inbox

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Taking the time to talk seams lost on a lot of people, yes we're all on this site for similar reasons but what's the rush some people have of trying to get people straight in to bed then throwing their toys out the pram when it doesn't happen, never any need to be rude. Accept the answer and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can make it harder for yourself. If anything the idiots should make it easier for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're not daft, it's really easy to sort the good men from the not so good.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

100% this

also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, I’m not at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those “idiots” and “dickheads” have never spoiled anything for me. Nor have they made it any more difficult for me than it already is for single/solo men.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Oooohhh I'm a good guy. Fucking pathetic. The vast majority of women aren't likely to fall for that white knight nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a dickhead …. Leaves the chat

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Those “idiots” and “dickheads” have never spoiled anything for me. Nor have they made it any more difficult for me than it already is for single/solo men. "

Yeah but some people can't take rejection and need to blame others.

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

"the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"

Bingo.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No one else ruins your FAB experience except yourself. There’s no need to put others down or blame them.

FAB works perfectly if you’re a decent person and can be respectful. But that’s for others to decide whether they think you are either - not for you to tell people you are.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Dunno about you, but i’ve never had an issue with other guys behaviours making it difficult for me on here, but then again i go by “expect nothing” and that works absolutely fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have just made my point from the replies - I’m not saying I am a white knight, an angel, a perfect guy, I said don’t tar guys with the same brush.

Some lovely responses in the thread, mainly the ladies at the start, thank you, your spot on x

See the guys jump on - lol, he’s a dickhead, il a gentleman, Friday brings out whatever c

I thought the swinger community was about respect and understanding x

Love you all, don’t pre judge someone for their post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh actually, I retract my statement a little.

The better looking, and less fat guys ruin it for me by getting the candy before me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're not daft, it's really easy to sort the good men from the not so good.

Yup. ^^ This^^.

Actually the dickheads make it so easy to spot the good guys. You don't even need to announce it.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

friday night always brings out the 'good ones' ive noticed"

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Oh fear not, young emerald sire, I don't discriminate between days: I'm out from Monday to Saturday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha - now that’s a funny response x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"We're not daft, it's really easy to sort the good men from the not so good."

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The good ones are domiciled in the fêted Churchill Suite.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm one of the dickheads though so keep on painting please!

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I have just made my point from the replies - I’m not saying I am a white knight, an angel, a perfect guy, I said don’t tar guys with the same brush.

Some lovely responses in the thread, mainly the ladies at the start, thank you, your spot on x

See the guys jump on - lol, he’s a dickhead, il a gentleman, Friday brings out whatever c

I thought the swinger community was about respect and understanding x

Love you all, don’t pre judge someone for their post

So you're only interested in pleasing the women. A point that has been made.

Take responsibility for yourself.

You're the one making it difficult for yourself. No one else.

And the dickheads would surely be making it easier for you by being dickheads.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We like the single guys

. We do have to sort a lot of chaff from the wheat thou.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lovely reply thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely reply thanks x "

OP, if you use Reply+Quote we can see who you're replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lovely reply thanks x

OP, if you use Reply+Quote we can see who you're replying to. "

Noted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely reply thanks x

OP, if you use Reply+Quote we can see who you're replying to.

Noted x "

Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really are some very lovely gents on here. It's just finding them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

I’ve met lots of really lovely men here. Some have been good friends for many years.

Please don’t think us ladies are so daft we can’t tell a good bloke from a dickhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

100% this

also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"

Spot on

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

"Only you can make it harder for yourself. If anything the idiots should make it easier for you."

An excellent point. Many of us prove which category we fall into by the way we conduct ourselves on fab and in these forums. Some of us build connections and rapport with others over time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots."

Lol, not at all, just a guy finding his way through the lifestyle, shared my opinion as feel sometimes people to quick to judge. (Rest my case at bs white knight comment)

Sure it’s also warranted on many too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only you can make it harder for yourself. If anything the idiots should make it easier for you.

An excellent point. Many of us prove which category we fall into by the way we conduct ourselves on fab and in these forums. Some of us build connections and rapport with others over time"

So have I, I rest my case at my original post ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots."

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiot here.

Please don't tar me with the same brush as all the normal non-idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely sick of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Rest my case -ha ha

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Think alot also has to do with geography.... I mean where I live single men out number single females and couples ridiculously. I never get upset when I'm turned down but can imagine a fair few do, but still no need to be rude or get nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think alot also has to do with geography.... I mean where I live single men out number single females and couples ridiculously. I never get upset when I'm turned down but can imagine a fair few do, but still no need to be rude or get nasty. "

I am also never upset, rude or anything like that.

My original post proves my point about some on here x

Peace to all x

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I am also never upset, rude or anything like that.

My original post proves my point about some on here x

Peace to all x "

I've had abuse when I've turned men down, my skins too thick to worry about it. It actually makes me feel good that they're that upset they don't get to meet me. Lol

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

BuT i'M a nIcE gUy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells "

?????? not at all, posting to prove a point.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

My own personality speaks for itself. I don't feel the need to blame others for me being painting me with any brush.

There are those that like me, and those that don't like me. Not a single part of that has anything to do with the actions of other men.

I own the dislike others have for me, just as I own the reasons others like me. Because it is 100% on me and my own personality and actions.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells

?????? not at all, posting to prove a point.

Nowt up with being pleasant

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50]

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"BuT i'M a nIcE gUy"

And what a mighty fine figure of a nice guy your are too.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50]"
nice guy's finish last or not at all

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all "

Better than finishing in 30 seconds and leaving the lady unsatisfied.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all "

To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.

To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.

For the nasty comments - check yourself

Happy fabbing - my point is proven

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all

To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.

To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.

For the nasty comments - check yourself

Happy fabbing - my point is proven

I was raised with the believe that manors cost nothing.... I still live by that today.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all

To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.

To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.

For the nasty comments - check yourself

Happy fabbing - my point is proven

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my comment wasn't ment to be nasty snipey I was just saying nice guy's finish last or not at all sorry if you felt I ment it in a nasty way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/09/23 21:41:50] nice guy's finish last or not at all

To be clear to all, I never Said that I have been tarred as an idiot - I haven’t, maybe some people do think I am a. Idiot , I respect that.

To all the people with the snipey comments, this lifestyle is about respect, trust, social skills and politeness in my experience.

For the nasty comments - check yourself

Happy fabbing - my point is proven

my comment wasn't ment to be nasty snipey I was just saying nice guy's finish last or not at all sorry if you felt I ment it in a nasty way "

Thanks for the message, no drama either way, each to their own, I am a gent and nice guy, see how many people pile on though

respect and love to all

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

Hahaha well said - love this!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace "
yes agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.

Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.

No, I’m a nice guy.

Ladies take note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it. "

Should imagine a pinkish brownish colour something like radiator water but a tint of pink

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.

Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.

No, I’m a nice guy.

Ladies take note "

Note taken!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it. "

Baby poo green

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it.

Should imagine a pinkish brownish colour something like radiator water but a tint of pink "

A tint of throbbing neon pink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it.

Baby poo green"

Hmm, maybe not for my feature wall then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.

Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.

No, I’m a nice guy.

Ladies take note

Note taken!

Thank you Daizy. Now you’re clear how good I am (compared to those that give us good guys a bad name) - FaF?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm so glad the nice guys have been recognised for how truly nice they are.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace "

We have met quite a few guys but we’ve had so many issues that it’s just not worth the effort anymore.

We’re sure all guys are not the same and there are good ones out there. However we’ve had so many bad experiences that there is this cumulative effect that puts you off repeating the single guy experience after a while. We pretty much now only meet couples.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Can I clarify that .. I’m a good guy.

Not one of the bad ones that gives us good ones a bad name.

No, I’m a nice guy.

Ladies take note

Note taken!

Thank you Daizy. Now you’re clear how good I am (compared to those that give us good guys a bad name) - FaF?

Well it would be rude not to Dan after you've gone out of your way to prove your good guy credentials

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Dont brush me at all im not a dusty road

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By *igboy3570Man
over a year ago

cork

Well said... at least have the commen decency to reply even with the word no...

We're not all bad guys ..

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

If I tell you I'm one of the good ones....does that mean you'll believe I'm one of the good ones, and I'll just be flooded with messages? Is that how it works

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Dont brush me im rambo

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not hard to find were ten a penny

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By *ldgeezermeMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace "

Calling people you don't know "rude ignorant wankers" sounds like something a rude ignorant wanker might say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells "

It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

Great reply.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I judge every single guy as an individual. If I hadn't I would have missed out on some lovely blokes.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A white night showing there is good out there, without this post I'd have never spoken to another man again.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace "

Same for women too.

There's a few who aren't egotistical absolute tossers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells

It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells

You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After being here a while, meeting a few lovely people and talking about single guys, for the first time I realise how many dick heads and absolute idiots there are here x

I get why couples and singles instant reply is get lost, do me a favour ….

Don’t judge us all by idiots behaviour, give us decent ones a chance lol x there are sound guys here, spoilt by the rude, ignorant wankers that are also on here

It’s like life, decent guys are hard to fine, but we are here too

Peace

Same for women too.

There's a few who aren't egotistical absolute tossers.

Very true - but they are hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells

It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells

You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells

Oh dear I’ve been saying it wrong all these years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another white knight, a man born to please women unlike the rest of us idiots.

Aw did you get brushed with dickhead paint

Disgusted of Tunbridge Wells

It’s actually disgruntled of Tunbridge wells

You may be disgruntled but the standard is to be disgusted In Tunbridge Wells…

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disgusted_of_Tunbridge_Wells

Oh dear I’ve been saying it wrong all these years!"

Ha ha - nothing wrong with being disgruntled!

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Don't get me wrong. I know I can be a right dickhead at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I judge every single guy as an individual. If I hadn't I would have missed out on some lovely blokes."

In the same vain, if I’d have thought every takeaway was a greasy cafe riddled with ecoli, I’d never have found the best kebab shop ever.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Bloody hell… it looks like an industrial accident in the Dulux factory in here!!!!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never felt the need to judge anyone by others actions on here. I also have never felt the need to complain about messages I get on here as I use my filters to the max and the very rare crap message I might get I just delete.

No one ruins it for anyone else on here and it's a get out excuse some use because they aren't having the results they want on here I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"

Totally agree ..

*Puts his hat back on and leaves the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men's is dickheads. Women's is bitches. Them's is both, none, one or tutha. So it has been and so it shall hence forth remain. Ah'men's.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

100% this

also idiots ruin it for themselves not the good guys but the good guys like to hide behind that belief that other ruin it for them rather than the truth that is no one is interested in you ...yet"

^ all of the above

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.

You are welcome!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"FAO ladies. Any man that goes out of this way to say he's a nice guy - is NOT a nice guy. They will be initially and then they'll start trying to collect your toenails and telling you which friends you're allowed to see.

You are welcome!"

Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

You are welcome!

Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!"

I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where can one get some dick head paint from … ? Ive got me a brush ..

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

You are welcome!

Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!

I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though

Normal, I don't believe it!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

You are welcome!"

Omg… is that true Brucey?

This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

You are welcome!

Brucey, that might be the most profound thing you've ever said! And entirely true. Guys: don't say, just be/do, and people will be able to decide for themselves!

I know it's insane to people that aren't all up in my DMs, but I'm actually pretty normal. Not nice though

Normal, I don't believe it!

That's fair. Maybe change that for moral? Like...there's something inside me with feelings. I dunno they are weird I try to contain them as much as possible

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

You are welcome!

Omg… is that true Brucey?

This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time

I'm not just a pretty cock _ittlebird!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

You are welcome!

Omg… is that true Brucey?

This is where I’ve been going wrong this whole time

I'm not just a pretty cock _ittlebird!"

I know

By the way when am I gonna get to suck it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are welcome!"

Fuck off Brucey.

Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones

Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.

Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.

Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You are welcome!

Fuck off Brucey.

Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones

Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.

Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.

Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off."

Do you know what's really sad? The fact we can make fun of this (admittedly rather cleverly) but there's some sad truth to it. Those who proudly exclaim they're nice guys are quite shitty if you don't play along with how they want/expect you to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are welcome!

Fuck off Brucey.

Ladies, let it be known that I am one of the GOOD ones. Those other guys? Pfft! They ruin it for us nice ones

Bad guys : don’t act like that, as it ruins it for us good ones.

Ladies, I’m GOOD, and I *apologise* on behalf of all mankind for the bad ones. They ruin it for the rest of us.

Thankfully I’m a good guy. So you can safely fuck me. And ignore what Bruce says. He can fuck off.

Yeah but in reality they’re bad. Not like us good ones.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

The dickheads are the dickheads and they aren’t going to pay a blind bit of notice of what’s been said here!

I don’t get why so many people are so fixated about others… just concentrate on the one factor you can control… you!!!!

Me…. I am in the villain arc stage of my swinging life.. I’m having a blast!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, they can do. We're all pretty shit really. Not worth the hype

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Nah, they can do. We're all pretty shit really. Not worth the hype"

Various different degrees on the shit scale…….

I just love it when people say….. but oh I’m different!!! Well get your arse at there and show people you are….

The good guys out there are looking at this and laughing… they are already having a blast

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….

‘Someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not forthcoming.’

Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:

• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman

• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”

• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”

• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.

• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….

Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:

• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman

• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”

• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”

• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.

• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place."

I'm just fairly normal and slightly wrinkled.... Its not up to me to decide if I'm a "nice guy" or not, but I will always be polite.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….

Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:

• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman

• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”

• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”

• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.

• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place."

Exactly this. And me and Samantha are just friends who may one day play twister and be in awkward sexual positions but that's fine ok? My erection may make the game slightly less comfortable but because I'm a good sport I am willing to play.

She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?

Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Excuse me, if I may butt in.

I like the dickheads & idiots they bring me joy when they rage block me. Ever so entertaining you should try it.

The mr

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….

Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:

• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman

• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”

• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”

• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.

• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.

She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If a man feels the need to say he’s a ‘nice guy’ he usually isn’t….

Examples of Nice Guy behaviour:

• Performing kind gestures with the sole motive of seducing a woman

• Insisting the reason they were rejected is “women like bad boys”

• Believing showing basic human decency and manners makes them especially “nice”

• Complaining about the difference between what women claim to want in a man and the men they actually go for.

• When things don't go their way, they often complain that they've been "friend-zoned" despite the target of their affections never being interested in the first place.

She knows it would be more comfortable loose and free, and she knows it's there, of course she does. But it's fine. Because I'm not a self labelled nice guy

Hope you're doing good gorgeous!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What colour is dickhead paint. I might like it. "
red

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush"
This

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

Exactly.

The women I’ve met don't really go on about it , they laugh about the odd weird message but don’t seem that fussed , it’s seems to be a handful of people on the forums who just enjoy whining - they probably never meet anyway! It can’t be that bad, they are still here.

As for abusive people just report and block I don’t know what purpose moaning about men in general on here serves, it certainly won’t change them.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Don’t tar us all with the same brush assuming we can’t distinguish the idiots from the rest

Exactly.

As for abusive people just report and block I don’t know what purpose moaning about men in general on here serves, it certainly won’t change them.

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Women love to moan

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?

Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy.

We are the game-playing , fun-having otters of the universe. We cannot hurt or be hurt anymore than illusions on a TV screen.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Has anyone said 'nobody ruins your experience but yourself' or ' people don't tar all people of any gender with the same brush' yet?

Sorry if they have. I've been busy living life to the full as a single guy.

We are the game-playing , fun-having otters of the universe. We cannot hurt or be hurt anymore than illusions on a TV screen.

Otters rock.

Especially those ones that stick their hands through the holes for hugs........

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