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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not seem that way on here to me.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't think there is a difference between the two.... but apparently tits make all the difference.... generally speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t aware of a disproportionate tolerance based on gender ….

But then again its not something I go looking for…!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is evident if your a male lol.and talking to married ladies tits do seem to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......"

I don't think that cheating women are treated differently to cheating men, most people are consistant in their opinions.

It is hard for any men to get meets on here, but married men are making it much tougher for themselves, they can;t accomodate, they are restricted on time and of course plenty of women will not play with cheats. So an already hard task becomes much harder. Conversely the sheer volume of men on here mean that any cheating female will relatively easily find a man who will meet them.

The other reason why cheating men feel aggrieved is that they start self pitying threads about how hard it is and/or seeking validication of their actions on the forum. I don;t think a woman has ever started a similar thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wot garbage you type!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I was just about to post but I don't think I'll bother

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Wot garbage you type!!!"

Who? Quoting the post you are talking about will help folk know who you're disagreeing with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of peeps could take social exception to a certain short comment above.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't think it's more acceptable among non cheating people but perhaps .....just perhaps...men don't seem to care as much if they find they have been chatting to a married person and so meet them.

Also, women tend not to start threads about playing away.

Women always seem to find it easier to meet on here.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

[Removed by poster at 14/02/13 19:11:56]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/02/13 19:09:09]"

What a shame Be Nice managed to quote one of your deleted posts...

So come on then why is it garbage?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't think there is any difference between genders... and i don't treat them differently, if you are cheating then you are cheating full stop....

maybe the one real difference is that married men who are cheating come on here bleating about what they do and complain more than married women do....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The thread title says it all: women are treated as an exception on some matters.

Whether it's acceptable? I stopped trying to judge anyone's actions but my own some time ago.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because there are so many single fellas on here it seems crazy to complicate things with married men .. also .. speaking from a personal point of view I do like to spend the night or the weekend with guys that we meet

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......"

I do not distinguish between the two but then again I don't condemn, approve, judge or evaluate what other people do anyway. Each to their own... and everybody is ultimately responsible for their own life

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"[Removed by poster at 14/02/13 19:09:09]

What a shame Be Nice managed to quote one of your deleted posts...

So come on then why is it garbage? "

OP slumps off to his hillock?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think it's perfectly acceptable for guys to cheat on their partners.

Oh hang on.

No I don't

Sorry OP, didn't you get the answer you were looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/02/13 19:09:09]

What a shame Be Nice managed to quote one of your deleted posts...

So come on then why is it garbage?

OP slumps off to his hillock?

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perhaps he has gone for a stroll eleswhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......"

Where did you get that impression?

From what I've noticed married women tend to quietly go about their cheating ways, men tend to come on with a sense of entitlement and start threads bitching and moaning about not getting meets.

Well, that's how it appears to me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before! "

Welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game. If 67.983% of members choose not to play with married but cheering that = 53 women to play with 10000 men or about 60,000 men to play with 127.53 women.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before! "

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note all numbers are completely fictitious and bear no relation to anything in the known universe. But there are quite a few single men in this website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......

Where did you get that impression?

From what I've noticed married women tend to quietly go about their cheating ways, men tend to come on with a sense of entitlement and start threads bitching and moaning about not getting meets.

Well, that's how it appears to me. "

The image of you being judge just is forever printed in my mind now lol - hang the bastards

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?"

He's no liar! It says so on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?"

Busted

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......

Where did you get that impression?

From what I've noticed married women tend to quietly go about their cheating ways, men tend to come on with a sense of entitlement and start threads bitching and moaning about not getting meets.

Well, that's how it appears to me.

The image of you being judge just is forever printed in my mind now lol - hang the bastards "

Honestly...I'm a puddy tat

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dear oh dear .. you have a wife and a fuck buddy from your 'day out' thread and you still have free time for more ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......

I do not distinguish between the two but then again I don't condemn, approve, judge or evaluate what other people do anyway. Each to their own... and everybody is ultimately responsible for their own life "

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?

Busted "

aye you gotta gerrup early int mornin to get away wi owt round here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......"

I personally don't think its acceptable for men or women to cheat on their partners

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

To be honest I don't give a feck what others do, I just have my own standards that I live my life by....I haven't got time to live the lives of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any enlighten me or have an opinion on why it seems socially ok for women to cheat on here but not men!

Many times its a case of oh if ya female its ok......

I do not distinguish between the two but then again I don't condemn, approve, judge or evaluate what other people do anyway. Each to their own... and everybody is ultimately responsible for their own life

Well put "

Yes I agree with Aphrodite too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before!

You know that little green arrow to the right of your name whenn you post on the forums? Not sure you know it links to previous forum posts, so "never posted before" is not strictly true is it?

Busted

aye you gotta gerrup early int mornin to get away wi owt round here. "

Blimey you Kent folk speak funny

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I just wondered if anyone would respond really.never posted before! "

If you want people to respond and are new to the forums its probably best not lash out with language like you did.

It sort of promotes a debate hearing a difference of opinion lol

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

No one should cheat, is what I say.

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