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Fantasy verses Desire

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By *panishRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

It's common for all kinds of people to talk about their fantasy's either in a sheepish or wistful way. They are something that they think they would like, but feel may never happen.

On a site like this, with a subset of different communities, fantasies are acted out. They are no longer fantasies. They have become activities of desire.

Two people in a bar might mention the fantasy of a threesome, or a couple swap, or a orgy or a hundred other sex related things.

Here we actively plan for them. I believe the very second a fantasy becomes attainable, it's no longer a fantasy. Plans are hatched every day on here. Fantasies become common place. They are repeated, copied, discussed, altered etc.

They are no longer fantasies, unattainable. They have become desires and activities part and parcel of our daily lives.

Desires fulfilled are best for me.

I have a fantasy to fly with powers like superman. That's never going to happen, no matter how many plans I make.

But I can go to a club tomorrow. I can arrange a meet today. I can participate in all the various activities of sex and comradery available and it's good. Provided mutual consent is given. Everyone is happy.

Give me desire over fantasy any day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just people on here who bring fantasies to life...

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By *panishRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"It's not just people on here who bring fantasies to life... "

I agree. There are people who bring fantasy alive hidden in the most unexpected of places.

I am really using this group as a representative. Not the one and only. That would be too much like a religion to me.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Fantasies evolve for the sake of variety and so we can accept that as an on-going fantasy.

The same immutable fantasies can be re-enacted with different people at different times, and so perhaps these are still fantasies looking to be unlocked.

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

A man never steps in the same river twice.

Desire and fantasy always commingle and always should. And no desire, in being satisfied, and no fantasy, in being enacted, repeats itself without variety.

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By *panishRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"A man never steps in the same river twice.

Desire and fantasy always commingle and always should. And no desire, in being satisfied, and no fantasy, in being enacted, repeats itself without variety."

So once is enough for a man?

For me no. If its good do it again. Tweaks are fine, Evolution of is fine. I desire food, I eat it. I eat both for necessity and for pleasure. I may have had a fantasy, but now it becomes a desire, full of function and activity. An element of fantasy may go unfulfilled in that I may have hoped it was better or more of it etc. Surely that element of fantasy is down to expectation and hope which transfer just as well to desire.

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By *unxicanMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's common for all kinds of people to talk about their fantasy's either in a sheepish or wistful way. They are something that they think they would like, but feel may never happen.

On a site like this, with a subset of different communities, fantasies are acted out. They are no longer fantasies. They have become activities of desire.

Two people in a bar might mention the fantasy of a threesome, or a couple swap, or a orgy or a hundred other sex related things.

Here we actively plan for them. I believe the very second a fantasy becomes attainable, it's no longer a fantasy. Plans are hatched every day on here. Fantasies become common place. They are repeated, copied, discussed, altered etc.

They are no longer fantasies, unattainable. They have become desires and activities part and parcel of our daily lives.

Desires fulfilled are best for me.

I have a fantasy to fly with powers like superman. That's never going to happen, no matter how many plans I make.

But I can go to a club tomorrow. I can arrange a meet today. I can participate in all the various activities of sex and comradery available and it's good. Provided mutual consent is given. Everyone is happy.

Give me desire over fantasy any day!

"

Jump out of an airplane wearing a cape. Don't forget to open your parachute in time. Possible and affordable!

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