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Could you return to vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we are all considered ‘in the lifestyle’ however if you met someone in real life, fell for them and they you, could you hang up your fab boots? Knowing full well they wouldn’t be open to this? Would love be enough to make you become vanilla?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't consider myself "in the lifestyle" to be honest.

I could easily hang up the fab boots, ATM I'm only here for the forums.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For ‘the one’ (and yes, as complex as it is, I know who she is) I’d leave the lifestyle and never look back.

Until the day she backs up her promises and does something about it, this fills a void.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This honestly isn't my lifestyle. Vanilla can be equally if not more fulfilling as swinging. So yes I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger. There's no lifestyle for me. Don't think I can give up being kinky though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was asked to, yes, I’d walk away for good.

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By *antasy does come trueCouple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Easy if we are going to be together and would tell her everything about it before we commit because don’t want it coming up later down the road

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Never say Never but currently not a chance in hell

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I absolutely couldn't go to a monogamous relationship. Its never been on the cards for me.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Nope, I'm a neopolitan fan and refuse to budge.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham


"So we are all considered ‘in the lifestyle’ however if you met someone in real life, fell for them and they you, could you hang up your fab boots? Knowing full well they wouldn’t be open to this? Would love be enough to make you become vanilla? "

I have never, ever, ever been vanilla… I wouldn’t know how to be that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm 'enhanced vanilla' and it's served me well in all avenues of sexploration.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't really think anything I do goes beyond vanilla sex.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Having just spent 4 years in a very vanilla monogamous relationship, yes.

I did miss the kink side but not the swinging lifestyle - when things were working, there were other good things to counteract that.

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

It's not our lifestyle, as in we dip our toes in every now and then but have a good relationship without it, but I don't think either of us could ever give it up completely forever. Certainly not at the moment anyway

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The right partner would match my sexual tastes and lifestyle, I imagine. I'd not settle for 3rd rate sex though

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am definitely not going back to totally vanilla, if I ever was.

The right person for me wouldn’t want to either.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I'd interact on a social level but would not meet or 'flirt'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never left the vanilla arena, possibly added a little spice but vanilla all the same.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

No couldn't return to vanilla , I've been in chastity since 19 and regarding relationship they have either been cuckold or I have had mistress, or been fully single ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never left vanilla. I love it. It's beautiful, passionate, exciting and intense.

I hate that people somehow think it's less or unexciting.

With the right person it's mind blowing.

Its not dull.

People just lack the effort

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Depends what you mean vanilla

If that's missionly once a week in dark no

If its exciting sex kinky if you like sex with one person yes. Can be exciting with one person doing things unplanned . Trying new things pushing limits as long as both want to make sure never gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... (Anything for true love)... However, I do doubt that anything 'sexual' could ever come close to the joy of a 'sissygasm'...

...A big, thick, veiny, sweaty, meaty cock pounding your naughty, pink, shaven fuckhole until you orgasm intensely... ...Wave after wave of sensual, sexual-pleasure surging through your hot, naked, flushed body as you ride, as your soft, smooth, flapping, girly-cock begins to cum... and cum... and cum... Floods of unbearably-intense-pleasure unforgivingly washing over you as you grip your silky bed-covers tightly with your varnished nails fighting in vain to keep some sort of control over your feelings and your body... But, alas; you cannot... And as you buck and squirm and scream and roar uncontrollably like a wild-animal; you realize you are a sissy-slut and will be for life, as the man mercilessly pounds and hammers your little fanny as he begins to ejaculate deep-inside your fuck-hole and then pulls out to shoot the rest of his sticky-load all over your swollen, gaping pussy; leaving you 'marked' with his juice and under no doubt whatsoever that you are a 'woman'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’m not in the lifestyle, so it would be very easy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't tell them about my past or this profile. Certainly wouldn't delete for a relationship.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I've never left vanilla. I love it. It's beautiful, passionate, exciting and intense.

I hate that people somehow think it's less or unexciting.

With the right person it's mind blowing.

Its not dull.

People just lack the effort "

Amen

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