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By *ensible lady 1960 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

i have been in situation's where i have had a meet with a bi man and then the guilt(on he's part kicks in) then he says he is married and has cheated on wife with another female.and yet he doesnt class it cheating when he meets another guy.its still cheating wether its with a male or female? So why so guilty when its with a female and not a male?

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Not a bi guy though lol. More to do with emotions i think. Cheating is cheating simples, people will try and rationalise it to get validation.

The feeling I get with another woman and dynamics is very different than when with my partner, not any better or worse, just different. That experience cannot be replicated with my partner for obvious reasons.

Why I don't meet solo guys beacause because they offer me nothing more than I can get in our own relationship (usually considerably less). So I would guess that if i did, would be a betrayal of our relationship and would suggest he was nolonger enough and would maybe suffer some sort of guilt that I'd gone elsewhere just for the same.

If any if this makes sense

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By *ash0000Man
over a year ago

Southwest

Interesting one. In situations like that, if the wife found out, I wonder if the wife would be more devastated by he fact he cheats with men if she didn’t know he was bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my wife and I are bi, so I can give you our understanding of this. Our straight and gay desires are like two halves of our personalities. Our relationship together takes care of and fulfills our straight side, so being with someone of the opposite sex would feel like a betrayal. However, our gay sides are free to find a different attachment. Of course the most important thing, as always in a relationship, is that we communicate our feelings too.

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Being dishonest to your partner is a cheating in my opinion, no matter if it's with a man or a woman.

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

Difficult one to answer not knowing him or his mental state.

If he has guilt issues then maybe this isnt the place for him.

Dont let it put you of Bi guys Dee, some of us are decent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a bi guy though lol. More to do with emotions i think. Cheating is cheating simples, people will try and rationalise it to get validation.

The feeling I get with another woman and dynamics is very different than when with my partner, not any better or worse, just different. That experience cannot be replicated with my partner for obvious reasons.

Why I don't meet solo guys beacause because they offer me nothing more than I can get in our own relationship (usually considerably less). So I would guess that if i did, would be a betrayal of our relationship and would suggest he was nolonger enough and would maybe suffer some sort of guilt that I'd gone elsewhere just for the same.

If any if this makes sense "

It makes sense.

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