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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

When was the last time you managed to pull someone or were pulled yourself in a normal day to day situation like a pub, club, kebab shop at 3am, supermarket, etc

For the sake of this post swingers clubs and dogging don’t count ! Lol

Is it a dying art and would people rather spend hours on fab rather than head out on the town to try there luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost two weeks ago. It all started with a bold move to play footsies.

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Almost two weeks ago. It all started with a bold move to play footsies. "

Oooh more information please, sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When was the last time you managed to pull someone or were pulled yourself in a normal day to day situation like a pub, club, kebab shop at 3am, supermarket, etc

For the sake of this post swingers clubs and dogging don’t count ! Lol

Is it a dying art and would people rather spend hours on fab rather than head out on the town to try there luck."

Deff a dying Art-form. I wrote about it a year ago on here!'

Iam a londoner,i approach people all the time,had the best meets via face to face.

Unlike apps and the net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost two weeks ago. It all started with a bold move to play footsies. "

Footies on the Tube? Lol

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Last I remember that tried was a lot older than me and really not my type called me a “fucking arsehole” and told me it was my loss when I dared to say I didn’t want her number so we could go for coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When was the last time you managed to pull someone or were pulled yourself in a normal day to day situation like a pub, club, kebab shop at 3am, supermarket, etc

For the sake of this post swingers clubs and dogging don’t count ! Lol

Is it a dying art and would people rather spend hours on fab rather than head out on the town to try there luck."

I go to town to not pull.

I not pulled anyone in years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened. I've never gone out with that intention and I never get approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never happened. I've never gone out with that intention and I never get approached. "

That'll change when I eventually meet you

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I generally avoid interaction with random people when I'm out. So it's been many years (15 to 20 years) since any kind of thing like that has happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely can't remember.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Two of my current FWBs were met in the real world through my outreaching job role. Both of them a slow natural progression from professionalism to flirting to fun friendship.

Out on the actual pull? About 5 years ago!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

On ‘Black Eye Friday’ (last Friday before Xmas) two years ago, I got the phone numbers (and some serious snogs) of two ladies while out in the pubs in town.

All very natural, friendly, harmless fun, in non-pressured environments, a world away from swinger clubs or dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost two weeks ago. It all started with a bold move to play footsies.

Footies on the Tube? Lol"

No, that would be being very BOLD haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remembered another time! At the airport lounge.

I travel loads and I’m often in airport lounges. A few months back, I was in the queue to go into the Virgin Clubhouse. I spotted a very fit man in the queue behind me. I could ‘feel’ he was looking at me. He was so close to me the man checking people into the lounge asked if we were together. In I went. I spotted him from one side of the bar. Had a good look at him and thought he’s not bad looking. I ordered a wine (which I don’t even drink!) and a coffee, walked around to look for a seat. As it was quite busy I told myself I’d have a perfect opportunity to try my luck. I saw him sit at a small table in an area that was otherwise somewhat full. I walked around him thrice and noticed he’d look up at me every time but I looked away. The fourth circle I made around him, I asked if the chair across from him at his table was taken. He said not at all and I proceeded to sit. I turned the chair a bit so I wasn’t sat facing him directly on.

I had a jumper on and a bralette underneath but no bra. I decided to remove my jumper. I pretended it was boiling hot in there and even held my hair up with my hands very dramatically. He started chatting to me. We found out we were both on the same flight in Upper Class and our seats were one in front of the other. I was very obviously flirty when chatting to him. I can’t remember what we chatted about but enough to know his name and where he was from. After about fifteen minutes he left and said see you on the plane. I stayed, and actually drank my coffee but not my wine. After a bit I, too, left.

I arrived to the gate and the plane was boarding early so on I went. As I stepped into the aisle, he literally jumps into the aisle and says HI BELLA!!!’. He eagerly helped me place my cabin bag into the overhead locker and I sat down. On Virgin’s Upper Class you receive pyjamas which I usually change into quite early to get some sleep. I decided to change right at my seat. There was no one across the aisles or around me. Only him behind me and another man behind him who was giving his partner a tour of his suite on WhatsApp video very loudly. So I change at my suite hoping he’d catch me doing so. He soon leaned into my suite to tell me about the man behind him and we have a giggle saying it must be his first time. It was cute as he was like a child in a sweets shop. I had only changed my jumper at this moment and still had on my trousers. He looked at me weird but didn’t say anything. I continued changing but he didn’t see me remove my trousers and change into the pyjamas trousers.

I went on to ask him if he’d like to join me for a drink at the bar later or if he was planning to sleep the entire flight. He agreed to meet me at the bar after two hours of sleep. I cheekily asked what I should order him. We met two hours later at the little lounge/bar area and shared drinks, and conversation. We ended up sharing kisses, and more and stayed up for eight hours chatting, laughing, having fun. I typically sleep from before take off through to arrival on long haul flights but I decided this was a worthy reason to miss sleep. An air hostess assumed we knew each other and asked if we were celebrating anything special as we were at the bar for so long and so physically close to one another. Ha!

When we arrived we exchanged numbers and saw one another a few times during our time in the city we flew into. It was hot in the air and hotter in this city and I don’t mean the weather.

For a few months after, we’d send one another messages to see if our diaries synced up or we’d be on the same flight again. I call him my Lounge Man.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Ironically as shit swingers we tent to have a fair bit of success out in the vanilla world. One of the couples we've had the best hotel encounters with we pulled at Mrs works do. They were not swingers but by the end of the night we ended up in their hotel room and it worked really well. So much so it wasn't the last time we seen them.

Mrs often picks up blokes. Be it when we're out together or she'll out alone. I remember getting a video call from the pub once, she'd met these 3 blokes all mates working away. She ended up back at their hotel and had a lovely time with them. To be fair they were lovely lad and took very good care of her. They genuinely really liked and respected her.

We met another couple recently camping. They're not swingers but we had such a laugh with them and they know what we do.They've invited us over to theirs for drinks, hot tub and to stay over. Going with the intension of keeping it vanilla and taking it from there. However they did message us to say they're intrested in swinging. We said we were happy to share our experiences, advice and help them. Its too presumptuous to assume they want to swing with us as this stage. So we will take their lead on this and just let things flow naturally. We are just there to enjoy a nice night with fun people regardless of if it gets sexy or not. We're perfectly happy either way. A fun night is a fun night, vanilla or not. However from what has been said their motives may not be purely vanilla and there's a bit a vibe going on.

Vanilla world or lifestyle world we prefer to meet people in real life interactions. We don't really do the online stuff. All our experiences have been through vanilla world, socials, clubs and parties (private and events) or with people we've initially met at these. We've yet to have a first meet with someone we've met online only. You can't beat pulling in the real world.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I remembered another time! At the airport lounge.

I travel loads and I’m often in airport lounges. A few months back, I was in the queue to go into the Virgin Clubhouse. I spotted a very fit man in the queue behind me. I could ‘feel’ he was looking at me. He was so close to me the man checking people into the lounge asked if we were together. In I went. I spotted him from one side of the bar. Had a good look at him and thought he’s not bad looking. I ordered a wine (which I don’t even drink!) and a coffee, walked around to look for a seat. As it was quite busy I told myself I’d have a perfect opportunity to try my luck. I saw him sit at a small table in an area that was otherwise somewhat full. I walked around him thrice and noticed he’d look up at me every time but I looked away. The fourth circle I made around him, I asked if the chair across from him at his table was taken. He said not at all and I proceeded to sit. I turned the chair a bit so I wasn’t sat facing him directly on.

I had a jumper on and a bralette underneath but no bra. I decided to remove my jumper. I pretended it was boiling hot in there and even held my hair up with my hands very dramatically. He started chatting to me. We found out we were both on the same flight in Upper Class and our seats were one in front of the other. I was very obviously flirty when chatting to him. I can’t remember what we chatted about but enough to know his name and where he was from. After about fifteen minutes he left and said see you on the plane. I stayed, and actually drank my coffee but not my wine. After a bit I, too, left.

I arrived to the gate and the plane was boarding early so on I went. As I stepped into the aisle, he literally jumps into the aisle and says HI BELLA!!!’. He eagerly helped me place my cabin bag into the overhead locker and I sat down. On Virgin’s Upper Class you receive pyjamas which I usually change into quite early to get some sleep. I decided to change right at my seat. There was no one across the aisles or around me. Only him behind me and another man behind him who was giving his partner a tour of his suite on WhatsApp video very loudly. So I change at my suite hoping he’d catch me doing so. He soon leaned into my suite to tell me about the man behind him and we have a giggle saying it must be his first time. It was cute as he was like a child in a sweets shop. I had only changed my jumper at this moment and still had on my trousers. He looked at me weird but didn’t say anything. I continued changing but he didn’t see me remove my trousers and change into the pyjamas trousers.

I went on to ask him if he’d like to join me for a drink at the bar later or if he was planning to sleep the entire flight. He agreed to meet me at the bar after two hours of sleep. I cheekily asked what I should order him. We met two hours later at the little lounge/bar area and shared drinks, and conversation. We ended up sharing kisses, and more and stayed up for eight hours chatting, laughing, having fun. I typically sleep from before take off through to arrival on long haul flights but I decided this was a worthy reason to miss sleep. An air hostess assumed we knew each other and asked if we were celebrating anything special as we were at the bar for so long and so physically close to one another. Ha!

When we arrived we exchanged numbers and saw one another a few times during our time in the city we flew into. It was hot in the air and hotter in this city and I don’t mean the weather.

For a few months after, we’d send one another messages to see if our diaries synced up or we’d be on the same flight again. I call him my Lounge Man. "

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I guess that means I’m a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost two weeks ago. It all started with a bold move to play footsies.

Footies on the Tube? Lol

No, that would be being very BOLD haha"
its eue contact,talk laugh Art-Forms dead i think.

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