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By *heVonMatterhorns OP   Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When there's a thread asking you to pick people out, are you the type to do as instructed or do you cop out with an "I'll bang the lot of yous"?

Do you reserve name calling for particular kinds of thread? Do you do it in the hopes of getting a bang? Does your decision depend your mood and horn level?

Just wondering

LvM

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'll usually pick the person that appeals most at that moment.

I figure the other people I fancy mostly already know I fancy them. And if they're going to feel uppity about me fancying other people too then thats on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually ignore all such threads

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'll happily post names on threads asking about members long gone etc.

But I'd never do it on a 'who would you like to lick your gooch' type stuff, 'who's got the best tits/cock/navel' or any that essentially ask you to reveal your inner hotlist or blow smoke up someone's arse.

I save that sort of stuff for PM's.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I generally avoid naming names because people can be sensitive about who are interacting. It's not worth the hassle if it kicks off. I'll let the person I'm interested know in private.

Sometimes a bit of flirting may make it obvious I guess. But overall I don't name names on such levels.

It is nice to see your own name mentioned though, especially as a single man. But it can cause issues behind the scenes for some too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't even contribute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When there's a thread asking you to pick people out, are you the type to do as instructed or do you cop out with an "I'll bang the lot of yous"?

Do you reserve name calling for particular kinds of thread? Do you do it in the hopes of getting a bang? Does your decision depend your mood and horn level?

Just wondering

LvM"

I never enter them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t name names because I don’t like to blow smoke up people’s arses. I also don’t want to bang anyone so I usually stay out of them unless I see my/our name mentioned.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I cast my semen forth wantonly and indiscriminately

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If I just answer yes, do I get bangs?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

That tactic is a secret

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really do those threads often. When I do, I'm normally being a bit daft and having fun.

I don't see it as being too different from flirting with people in other threads. Actually, it's preferable over hijacking threads with flirting. In my mind at least!

The majority of the time it's just harmless fun, if I mean it with any intent I'll message them directly and they'll know.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Sometimes I'll name someone, most times I don't, just find them a bit of fun those types of threads, if I really like someone I'll let them know in pm.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I name names. But usually of people I'm friendly with. We're not looking to meet at present, and I don't want to give anyone the wrong idea.

When we were still meeting I would happily flirt on threads with any guy I wanted to shag and then message them

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I just mention cake. Not names. Less hassle.

One day it will pay dividends.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I usually name names until it gets overwhelming and I want to reply to everyone so it becomes an "everyone". Aware it probably makes me look like a cop out but 1) often I think everyone is lovely, and 2) I'd hate for everyone but one person gets a shout out.

If this puts people off then so be it!

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey


"I name names. But usually of people I'm friendly with. We're not looking to meet at present, and I don't want to give anyone the wrong idea.

When we were still meeting I would happily flirt on threads with any guy I wanted to shag and then message them "

Hi, do you like cake ?

(Fingers crossed emoji)

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Sometimes I'll name someone, most times I don't, just find them a bit of fun those types of threads, if I really like someone I'll let them know in pm."

This tbh. I dm people I really really want to meet if I can.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I don’t mind flirting with people - it’s often a good in. But I wouldn’t usually name people I’m playing with on threads like the ooft one. They already known then anyway!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'll name names, unless I think I might be blocked from browsing their gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When there's a thread asking you to pick people out, are you the type to do as instructed or do you cop out with an "I'll bang the lot of yous"?

Do you reserve name calling for particular kinds of thread? Do you do it in the hopes of getting a bang? Does your decision depend your mood and horn level?

Just wondering

LvM"

I avoid the thread - too risky!

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I take part in the anonymous ones, like “ my mate fancies you “ or “wink Wednesday “ . Other than that my general interaction with post/flirting attempts have probably given me away in terms of the people I have an attraction to whether that be physically or to their nice vibe.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Sometimes I do. Depends what kind of thread it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd fuck Outsider!! "

Thank you

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no not into naming names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“They know who they are” = “could be anyone from a list of 50 people I’m simultaneously flirting with”

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"“They know who they are” = “could be anyone from a list of 50 people I’m simultaneously flirting with”"

Don't tell them that!

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