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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Confidence.

How much do you radiate? Does it rub off?

Is it key for us to quietly say you adore someone with confidence

Do you feel you need confidence on fab? Is it an essential quality?

Knock backs

Rejection

Confidence to communicate

Confidence to be yourself

I have had plenty of knock backs but key to be resilient. Are you able to bounce back?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I am a walking aura of energy to most people

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Normal life I’m quite confident or come across it

On fab, nope

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Confidence.

How much do you radiate? Does it rub off?

Is it key for us to quietly say you adore someone with confidence

Do you feel you need confidence on fab? Is it an essential quality?

Knock backs

Rejection

Confidence to communicate

Confidence to be yourself

I have had plenty of knock backs but key to be resilient. Are you able to bounce back? "

There's a difference between having confidence and displaying it in a way that comes across as arrogance or ego.

Many people are naturally confident yet manage to avoid it coming across in a negative manner.

I'd say you need some level of confidence on here and that it does help you deal with the day to day comings and goings. But above that I'd say people need a level head, realistic expectations and common sense. Those traits make for a far less stressful time online.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m sadly not a confident person.

I may not show it outwardly, but I can be very anxious about what some might consider rather trivial matters.

I muddle on though

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm ok, not overly confident but just about enough to see me through.

If I rub my cock on someone then it seems to help them with their confidence but that could be the orgasms talking

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm quite resilient, rarely had any knockbacks.

I'm a juxtaposition of confident in some areas, very much less so in others. I'm confident in being myself - I know who I am and even though I'm prone to overthinking, heck, even self doubt, I don't spend as long thinking or worrying how others view me.

I always bounce back. Shit happens and I find a way to carry on or say fuck it.

I'm not sure it's an essential quality on here though. I think staying true to yourself, the ability to not dwell and move on? They're more important.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I consider myself a confident person, both on here and in my daily life (personal and professional).

I've been told my demeanor at times seems cocky though don't consider myself that way.

I think from a single male perspective a certain level of confidence is attractive. There is a fine line between confidence and cockiness. I know the latter isn't appreciated by many.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

I find some confidence on here and now use that in real life

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

When I am self-accepting I am accepting of others.

When I find it hard to accept others, I ask myself why I felt that they needed to live up to my standards. Or agree with me.

I find that this is enough for me. And that it is essential. I have confidence in that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm confident on many situations, there are some where I'm not but I'll happily say so.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I'm uber confident most of the time, but this can go against me on here, being smart mouthed, mischievous and not needing help intimidates some men. But I just put it down to incompatibility, there's a reason why I pick men who I think can stand up to me, I'd walk all over them otherwise and that's not nice.

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