FabSwingers.com forum: It must be scary for single women on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I really do take my hat off to you girls. There's alot of weirdos on here and you don't know who you are meeting on a date they could be a serial killer ..surley you all go to clubs so it's safer ? Couples is OK obviously as you got the man there to protect you but them meets must be worrying sometimes especially some story's I read on here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Not all heroes wear capes

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not all women need protecting

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Not all heroes wear capes"

Or hats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men can or will protect women, sometimes its the other way round.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Not all women need protecting "

Opened himself up there to a hammering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We watch out for each other but yes I do feel more safe with my husband being with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweeping generalisation much?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Not all women need protecting "

Some men need protecting from some women too.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

It’s a scary world overall

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I personally couldn't be a single woman on here, the messages we get as a couple are bad enough.

Mrs

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Ooops...try again!! Meeting someone here is like meeting someone anywhere else. Always do the due diligence!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping generalisation much? "

Why do you think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all women need protecting

Some men need protecting from some women too. "

Correct

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Not all women need protecting

Opened himself up there to a hammering

Not really.

Some women don't want or need a man to protect them and are more than capable of looking after themselves.

Some, as already said can be the aggressor.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Not all women need protecting

Opened himself up there to a hammering

Not really.

Some women don't want or need a man to protect them and are more than capable of looking after themselves.

Some, as already said can be the aggressor. "

I think he meant the OP, not what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths "

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

I’ve been in a situation before with a man that if my husband was not there things could have ended up badly. Not saying everyone is violent and a psycho but it does happen and I’m thankful we have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So with a couple you've got the man there to protect you from what exactly? The woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

I didn’t say that all people are ok

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Not all women need protecting

Some men need protecting from some women too. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

I didn’t say that all people are ok "

I didn’t say you did

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Not all women need protecting

Opened himself up there to a hammering

Not really.

Some women don't want or need a man to protect them and are more than capable of looking after themselves.

Some, as already said can be the aggressor.

I think he meant the OP, not what you said. "

Correct

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

It is extremely patronising. You may feel its not, and individually to you that may be true but wording and I can imagine to a great number of other people it is the definition of patronising.

It's essentially saying as a MF couple the only reason you are safe is because you have a man to protect you. When it's closer to being a case of safety in numbers.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

My wife scares the crap out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

It is extremely patronising. You may feel its not, and individually to you that may be true but wording and I can imagine to a great number of other people it is the definition of patronising.

It's essentially saying as a MF couple the only reason you are safe is because you have a man to protect you. When it's closer to being a case of safety in numbers. "

It’s not essentially saying anything I’m talking from personal experience and giving my opinion on it.

He’s not just a random man he’s my husband and we support each other if he needed help I’d be the first one to do the same. Luckily that’s never happened.

What’s wrong with feeling secure with My hubby there? And vice versa?

Really shouldn’t judge others on what feels right for them personally

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If I found it scary on here I wouldn't be on here. And no I never felt that going to clubs would be the way forward to meeting people off here. In fact one of the worst experiences have had on here was at a mng from a man who was part of a couple of didn't understand the word no. Did that make me think most men on here are dangerous? No it didn't it just made me think he was a gobshite.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

Here is the thing, it's dangerous to meet anyone, regardless of whom you are.

TV/TS risk so much with their meets. There are some twisted people out there.

Women yes, we all know "men" are predators.

Couples, sometimes numbers are just not enough. And in the case of those couples have their man as a protector - sometimes there is always a bigger fish and your man can't do shit to defend himself nevermind you.

Men yeah overall we have it easy since we are the bad guys in it all. However as the OP says, there are a lot of weirdos out there - Men pretending to be women (I don't mean tv/ts), women that are just as dangerous as men, and as for couples well what is more dangerous than being outnumbered and potentially by 2 men pretending to be a mf couple or even ff.

We all run risks meeting, to say otherwise or say one is riskier than the other is downplaying and disrespecting any kind of horrible situation anyone has been in.

People are weirdos. People are at risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm scared most of the time on here, but luckily my imaginary friend is here to protect me.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

It is extremely patronising. You may feel its not, and individually to you that may be true but wording and I can imagine to a great number of other people it is the definition of patronising.

It's essentially saying as a MF couple the only reason you are safe is because you have a man to protect you. When it's closer to being a case of safety in numbers.

It’s not essentially saying anything I’m talking from personal experience and giving my opinion on it.

He’s not just a random man he’s my husband and we support each other if he needed help I’d be the first one to do the same. Luckily that’s never happened.

What’s wrong with feeling secure with My hubby there? And vice versa?

Really shouldn’t judge others on what feels right for them personally "

You need to read the OP again as he specifically states "Couples is OK obviously as you got the man there to protect you" - which I said that to you it may not be the case but as a whole that is the definition of patronising to say that a woman needs a man to protect her, random man or husband it makes no difference. Man protect woman.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"do you like mammoth, wife like mammoth?"

"Uggg"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not scary! Not had a bad meet yet! Quite a good judge of character! Was one time I was on way to a meet (I walk usually) was for a coffee social! Was half way there had a txt message from a John saying he just passed me! I was meeting a John so said ohh we still meeting at the coffee place he said ohh yes! Shall I come pick u up? I said no meet where we agreed! He said remind me where! Then I caught on its not sane John! Obvs must have been someone who I had given my number 2! That was bit scary/weird so he was blocked x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"No not scary! Not had a bad meet yet! Quite a good judge of character! Was one time I was on way to a meet (I walk usually) was for a coffee social! Was half way there had a txt message from a John saying he just passed me! I was meeting a John so said ohh we still meeting at the coffee place he said ohh yes! Shall I come pick u up? I said no meet where we agreed! He said remind me where! Then I caught on its not sane John! Obvs must have been someone who I had given my number 2! That was bit scary/weird so he was blocked x"

Maybe try meeting guy's with other names other than John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

I don’t think it’s a patronising post at all.

It is extremely patronising. You may feel its not, and individually to you that may be true but wording and I can imagine to a great number of other people it is the definition of patronising.

It's essentially saying as a MF couple the only reason you are safe is because you have a man to protect you. When it's closer to being a case of safety in numbers.

It’s not essentially saying anything I’m talking from personal experience and giving my opinion on it.

He’s not just a random man he’s my husband and we support each other if he needed help I’d be the first one to do the same. Luckily that’s never happened.

What’s wrong with feeling secure with My hubby there? And vice versa?

Really shouldn’t judge others on what feels right for them personally

I don’t need to do anything thanks.

I read what the op said and I gave my opinion on it.

That’s what people do on the forums.

Everyone’s allowed their opinions you’ve got yours I don’t personally agree with it and will stand by what I said about the dynamics in our marriage and how we support each other.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Other

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I really do take my hat off to you girls. There's alot of weirdos on here and you don't know who you are meeting on a date they could be a serial killer ..surley you all go to clubs so it's safer ? Couples is OK obviously as you got the man there to protect you but them meets must be worrying sometimes especially some story's I read on here"
this is why I just meet at clubs

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

The stats show the danger isn't a stranger danger. It's someone you're acquainted with to a degree.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Maybe try meeting guy's with other names other than John

Yes! Will go for daves!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I'd be more scared of the women,bitches be crazy

(Run's into bunker and slam's door shut)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women..

Safeguarding myself is paramount.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

It's like anything here. You do you due diligence. Get to know the person/people you are meeting and mitigate against any risk when meeting. IE social in a public place. Maybe a few socials. Meet somewhere safe for anything further.

Unfortunately you cannot legislate for weirdos, be that single man stalker type, people posing as couples, bunny boiling females...etc etc.

There will always be risk but ultimately it comes down to how much you want to accept it and what you can do to lower it.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There are shitloads of weirdos on here. Some are men and some are women.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’m a very delicate flower. I am indeed in need a man to protect me from all the other bad men.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"You need to read the OP again as he specifically states "Couples is OK obviously as you got the man there to protect you" - which I said that to you it may not be the case but as a whole that is the definition of patronising to say that a woman needs a man to protect her, random man or husband it makes no difference. Man protect woman.

I don’t need to do anything thanks.

I read what the op said and I gave my opinion on it.

That’s what people do on the forums.

Everyone’s allowed their opinions you’ve got yours I don’t personally agree with it and will stand by what I said about the dynamics in our marriage and how we support each other.

Another thing people do on the forum is focus soley on their opinion only and get defensive, totally blinded to what the discussion is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t need to do anything thanks.

I read what the op said and I gave my opinion on it.

That’s what people do on the forums.

Everyone’s allowed their opinions you’ve got yours I don’t personally agree with it and will stand by what I said about the dynamics in our marriage and how we support each other.

Another thing people do on the forum is focus soley on their opinion only and get defensive, totally blinded to what the discussion is about."

Glad you can see that and work on yourself

no need to get so defensive it’s only a forum post

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

It’s scary for men too. Some women are crazy here.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

sometimes especially some story's I read on here"

Some of us girls are very capable of protecting ourselves! Yes I have come across some people who are not to my like, and yes I have had a few being pushy and then abusive if turned down, but that is a small minority. Most of the men I have interacted with have been decent and respectful. It's such a shame that a few men, give the majority a bad name

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I go for club meets for safety reasons and I do get grief from some men when I explain I don't arrange 1 on 1 meets due to safety.

Unfortunately there has been a small majority of guys who have tried to make out that their embarrassment and nervousness of visiting a club comes before my safety, they get blocked.

The only 1 to 1 meet I've had in the last 13 years has been with an off and on again fwb who I've known for longer than that.

Many many years ago I did arrange a gang bang in a hotel but I also arranged for a trusted capable male friend to act as security, he stayed in the room not playing and I did feel safe.

Yes a woman shouldn't need a man there to protect her but I think an attacker would think twice about doing something if a man is there rather that another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary for men too in some ways ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try meeting guy's with other names other than John

Yes! Will go for daves!

Also, not sure about meeting people called 'sane John' - if they have to be known by that they must be a nutter (having said that, the voices in my head are telling me that there is nothing wrong with a little mental instability)

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Not all women need protecting "

Yes they do, even if they can fight a guy that's still her having to protect herself. If all men weren't a threat to women then women could feel that where ever they go it is safe for us

Some men are just creepy if they are desperate it gets the better of them and if they are rejected their ego can get the best of them too

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths "

Hell, most psychopaths aren’t violent, either.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Not all women need protecting

Yes they do, even if they can fight a guy that's still her having to protect herself. If all men weren't a threat to women then women could feel that where ever they go it is safe for us

Some men are just creepy if they are desperate it gets the better of them and if they are rejected their ego can get the best of them too"

Apologies for my choice of words. I should have said not all women want protecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are not safer same as here there or anywhere op

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

Someone trying to get the single ladies on side or scare single ladies off?

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By *unxicanMan
over a year ago

Norwich

There are female serial ki llers.Gender equality!

Also, many women can overpower a man.

I'm terrified of a woman overpowering me and do things I can't resist.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I only meet new people in clubs because I don't want my time wasted. It is better to meet somewhere public in general, and this way it doesn't matter if they flake or catfish, because there'll be a hundred other potential people to talk to looking for a similar thing.

I don't find it scary on here. Tedious, maybe

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I always have a social first and use public transport to get there. From there I trust my instincts and I will meet privately if I get the right vibes. Its hardly foolproof but I believe it significantly reduces my risk. Unfortunately axe murderers and other unsavoury types don't wear a sign around necks. So please guys if we take extra precautions don't be insulted. YOU know you are a good guy who wouldn't hurt or scare a woman but we can't know that. Also if you want to try anything non vanilla including anal or bdsm please get consent first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have the man to protect you"

LMAO

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't worry women... I can protect you!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

One of my worst experiences was at a club and it was an agressive woman who wouldn't take no for an answer, I haven't been back to a club since.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I’m a very delicate flower. I am indeed in need a man to protect me from all the other bad men."

My condolences to your inbox.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"So with a couple you've got the man there to protect you from what exactly? The woman?"

Some women are scary

In all seriousness though we actually had to go through a legal route with one woman that didn't take kindly to a polite thanks but not for us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not as scary here as in real life, unfortunately real life doesn’t have a block button

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

o this one stirred the pot .

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

o this one stirred the pot .

What a tease.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Why is it that the single guys get ruled as being crazy there's some women here that can be just as crazy if not more then fellas single guys are labelled as creeps time wasters or pic collecters but what about the females that are the same

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why is it that the single guys get ruled as being crazy there's some women here that can be just as crazy if not more then fellas single guys are labelled as creeps time wasters or pic collecters but what about the females that are the same "

I know of one woman who keeps files on every conversation she has on fab including facepics.

She is literally talking to everyone and has the inside scoop on all the drama.

She is like a forum duck. All chilled out, warm and approachable on the surface and all sorts of chaos down below.

Her fingerprints are everywhere.

I don't know any man who would be that invested.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Not all women need protecting

Yes they do, even if they can fight a guy that's still her having to protect herself. If all men weren't a threat to women then women could feel that where ever they go it is safe for us

Some men are just creepy if they are desperate it gets the better of them and if they are rejected their ego can get the best of them too

Apologies for my choice of words. I should have said not all women want protecting. "

I don't want or need to be protected by any man. Thank goodness I was bought up to be strong, fierce and a force to be reckoned with. The sad thing is, that I had to be bought up to be able to protect myself against men, because if we lived in a society where some men where more decent and respectful, then I would never have had to learn to protect myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I go with my gut instinct and take calculated risks. They've never let me down.

Clubs aren't 100% safe, I've heard of incidents happening in them too.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

In seriousness now. As others have said, my most frightening experience was in a club, in the main play area, when a bloke I didn’t know decided he was going to indulge in a little light breath play, with no prior discussion and wouldn’t stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt scared in 12 years. Maybe I'm not doing fab right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of one woman who keeps files on every conversation she has on fab including facepics.

She is literally talking to everyone and has the inside scoop on all the drama.

She is like a forum duck. All chilled out, warm and approachable on the surface and all sorts of chaos down below.

Her fingerprints are everywhere.

I don't know any man who would be that invested. "

Jrez

she sounds like a fun character

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I know of one woman who keeps files on every conversation she has on fab including facepics.

She is literally talking to everyone and has the inside scoop on all the drama.

She is like a forum duck. All chilled out, warm and approachable on the surface and all sorts of chaos down below.

Her fingerprints are everywhere.

I don't know any man who would be that invested. "

That sounds like a full time job, way to much work!

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Scared, no never and I've previously met people from here and other sites. Odd experiences, yes, but that happens. Chances of actually meeting a serial killer from fab I'd say are pretty slim.

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

No bad person is going to open up with telling anyone they are a bad person. Convince others they are good person.

There are predatory people everywhere, male and female. Rosemary West prime example. Swinging will attract them as they see easy targets.

I had an experience with the guy of a couple after a meet.

It is scary for anyone, male or female bad people don't wear a sign, wolf in sheeps clothing etc.

Will only meet in a public place and have an escape plan even if female.

Males more common and definately more media attention. There are a lot of predatory females. Guess may be a few on here

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The block button has its perks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wary, but not scared

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I know of one woman who keeps files on every conversation she has on fab including facepics.

She is literally talking to everyone and has the inside scoop on all the drama.

She is like a forum duck. All chilled out, warm and approachable on the surface and all sorts of chaos down below.

Her fingerprints are everywhere.

I don't know any man who would be that invested.

That sounds like a full time job, way to much work!"

That's what I was thinking. even if I wanted to be I'd never be a stalker. Waaaaay too much work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of one woman who keeps files on every conversation she has on fab including facepics.

She is literally talking to everyone and has the inside scoop on all the drama.

She is like a forum duck. All chilled out, warm and approachable on the surface and all sorts of chaos down below.

Her fingerprints are everywhere.

I don't know any man who would be that invested. "

Who is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be worse. They could be meeting someone with a fake wife

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"For me I go with my gut instinct and take calculated risks. They've never let me down.

Clubs aren't 100% safe, I've heard of incidents happening in them too."

This for me too. My judge of character and gut instinct has never let me down. Although I’ve never done random meets and never will so I suppose it could be different for people who do.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My nerves have got the better of me recently, sadly. I read that a guy (local, used to be on here but not sure if he still is) assaulted his partner and has 15 previous convictions! It's not just that that's name me feel the way I do, you just never know

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Pepper spray n tazer ladies their you best friends...illegal but still..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pepper spray n tazer ladies their you best friends...illegal but still.."

A bit of chilli powder and a handjob is legal.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Pepper spray n tazer ladies their you best friends...illegal but still..

A bit of chilli powder and a handjob is legal."

Ghost chilli down the Japs eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on experience, there are far more unusual/obsessive types on Facebook through friend requests than I have encountered on Tinder and on here.

Personally, I have not encountered any issues whatsoever on here, quite the opposite in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly patronising post - white knight syndrome. Most women can look after themselves and most men are not violent psychopaths

Hell, most psychopaths aren’t violent, either. "

The violent ones are

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think many of us here, of all genders, have refined our filtering processes and are served well by it. Thisz in conjunction with mitigation measures that we take, helps to screen us from some potentially worse experiences.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I personally couldn't be a single woman on here, the messages we get as a couple are bad enough.

Mrs "

What's all this "receiving messages "thing .

Not something I've experienced.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I personally couldn't be a single woman on here, the messages we get as a couple are bad enough.

Mrs

What's all this "receiving messages "thing .

Not something I've experienced. "

Abusive message, people that can't take a no thank you well, people you ignore because of the latter don't take it well, random minging cock pics, strangers just sending grim crap the list is endless.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby take off your coat, real slow

Baby take off your shoes

I'll help you take off your shoes

Baby, take off your dress, yes yes yes

You can leave your hat on…..

Thanks for the song op…

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