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By *olly and manthing OP   Couple
over a year ago

county durham

We have found since we took down our pics that we are getting disrespected in messages is this because we are faceless now people think they can say what they want to you. We never had that at all with pics up.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Possibly or maybe you’re just getting rubbish messages?

I personally wouldn’t message a blank profile at all so don’t know from experience.

Just delete them

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

What kind of disrespect are you getting? I'd say it plays a part yes, you've now joined a lower tier of user You'd think that your veris and filled in profile text would count for something but visuals are something else. Personally I find I pay less attention to pictureless profiles (and find hard to remember them), and the same when I/we have gone pictureless, receive way less attention. Never experienced rudeness though, quite the reverse (the more explicit the pics the more daring the messages, the more distasteful in the mix).

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Photoless profiles don't even register with me..I don't message them and they can't message me

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

We certainly don't pay attention to picture less profiles but wouldn't be disrespectful, it's your choice.

Suggest delete the messages or use the block button.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't return a message to a photo less profile, I'm not sure why it would cause horrible messages though

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have found since we took down our pics that we are getting disrespected in messages is this because we are faceless now people think they can say what they want to you. We never had that at all with pics up. "

Are you messaging people first? Disrespectful how?

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By *romleyM41Man
over a year ago

orpington / surrounding

Don’t think I’ve ever received a message from a woman without messaging first so wouldn’t know how that felt … but as for people being disrespectful, delete, block and move on, some people clearly have their own agenda and get a kick from being arseholes to others so ignore them. Don’t let the minority spoil it for the decent ones

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By *ewcpl80Couple
over a year ago

Scotland

But would you also message a profile with no pics ? I know we certainly wouldn’t

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You shouldn’t be getting disrespectful messages regardless or pics up or not.

We wouldn’t chat with anyone with no pics but we’d never be disrespectful to them.

K

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By *olly and manthing OP   Couple
over a year ago

county durham

We removed our pics after they were used on another profile on here so for a few weeks now we have been pictureless until we decide what to do. But have found that when you have no pictures the standard of messages goes down hill of course we don’t entertain them. We have many friends on here that have made our time here brilliant and continue to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blackheads are unsightly type of acne (acne vulgaris). Horrible little pots of grease and dead skin blighting some wonderfully soft and silky skin. The blocked follicle looks dirty and is generally unpleasant and unwanted.

Not everyone can have the ideal profile photos for reasons including privacy, but with some imagination, inspiration and inflammation an alternative to the blackhead can be found. Go steady on the inflammation.

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