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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to leave at the end of an amazing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he shouted at me

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

When he kept touching an area that I had already said no to, I asked him to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got verbal in a car park when I stopped him from kissing me

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Looked nothing like her pictures...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The girl I was fucking, farted.

I haven’t been hard since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drooled

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By *haguar2023Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There husband turning up. ??

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
over a year ago

banbury

She farted when she came during oral. I can forgive the 1st one but not the second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drooled "

Come on you can’t blame him!!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When he shouted at me"

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"Having to leave at the end of an amazing one."

Oddly enough mine was having to politely hang around on a poor one.

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By *annybrowneyesMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood

The window cleaner started cleaning with the curtains open, does that count?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"When he shouted at me

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. "

I didn't think it sounded tame at all

It sounded scary. Sorry this happened to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When he shouted at me

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was.

I didn't think it sounded tame at all

It sounded scary. Sorry this happened to you. "

Thank you. I dismissed it at the time but it's stuck in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else "

My ex had a man rub red Heat in her vagina, that was a short unpleasant meet.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy from a couple walk in, jam a finger up Penny's arse and then seem shocked when she ripped him a new one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went through with it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Got an unexpected slap around the face that he thought I would enjoy.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else

My ex had a man rub red Heat in her vagina, that was a short unpleasant meet. "

Why the hell did he do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy from a couple walk in, jam a finger up Penny's arse and then seem shocked when she ripped him a new one."

What a dick!!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Started wanking under the table in the pub on a first social. He may have thought he was being subtle but he absolutely was not.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"Started wanking under the table in the pub on a first social. He may have thought he was being subtle but he absolutely was not."

No fucking way! WTAF. Did you encourage him or were you mortified/stunned etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got an unexpected slap around the face that he thought I would enjoy."

Unacceptable to do that without prior discussion and consent!!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Holy shit. I'm starting to see then freakier side of what the fairer sex has to put up with now. Fuckin jeez

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

He was constantly on his phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point "

That's assault pure and simple. JFC. So dangerous! I'm so sorry.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A guy pulled me into a corner during rush hour at Glasgow central station and tried to snog the face of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy shoved his tongue down my throat and groped me down below. Was only a social.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

He spat in my face and gave me liads of abuse because I refused bareback

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

They got so pissed on a social they fell over…

End of social and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else "

One guy just didn't show up

The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

On a social... tried to put his hand between my legs, in public.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point "

Jeezus. I'd have been raging! I hope you're ok x

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Started wanking under the table in the pub on a first social. He may have thought he was being subtle but he absolutely was not."

Wha?!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else

One guy just didn't show up

The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel "

Any reason given?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A more amusing one... knocked my full length mirror over on the way out if the bedroom and it shattered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single and I didn't know anything about Dom's, aftercare and so on, I was very young and naive. Let's just say he treated me appalling when I met him (just once) and no one knew where I was either, I driven miles and miles to meet him too, had a very quick learning curve that night.

Danish x

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him. "

That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting?

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"A more amusing one... knocked my full length mirror over on the way out if the bedroom and it shattered. "

That would have been so embarrassing. Sorry about mirror but feel for that fella. What happened next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him.

That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting? "

He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

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By *rown ThunderMan
over a year ago

newport

This Is different. This is what someone has NOT done when turning up for a meet.

A lady did not wash, clean, or do any maintenance down there or her body after I spent ages grooming, showering and preparing for a meet.

The stench that hit the room when I pulled down her pants was foul..and I'm sorry I gagged.

Needless to say..I made an excuse and left.. she knew exactly what was the issue cuz the smell was unbearable...

This had scarred me for months..shame cuz she said her husband never went down on her for years and I was looking forward to doing it for her..now I know why.

She was such an attractive woman as well. All looks..no basic hygiene.

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

Reading some of the things that have happened to some of the woman on here is really frightening and a stark reality of what some people can be like.

I’ve not had anything bad happen to me but I have had a few meets where people should have been upfront before and told me certain things before I agreed to meet them.

Had one guy have a panic attack and ask me to leave his place. Afterwards he told me he suffers from panic attacks, if he’d of told me before I wouldn’t have put myself in that position.

Met another guy, he seemed nice and everything was going well until he pulled out a homemade pipe and started smoking crack with it, I made my excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt like she was a bit fragile and clearly going through some emotional stuff, it ended being a very deep supportive conversation but not really how I expected things to go, not that I expected sex I just mean I was hopeful of a bit of a more mutually engaging conversation, I was very concerned for her state of mind and mental health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She arrived, drank throughout dinner, invited me to hers, drove her car home, kicked off massively stating I wasn’t getting nothing 10mins after getting to her place and I didn’t even instigate nowt just came in and sat down politely

Safe to say I left and drove home rather quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. I’ve got a few.

1) back at uni someone who didn’t tell me she was a virgin. She bled all over my sofa. She was super apologetic and I thought it was charming in a way.

2) a co worker who cheated on her bf and had a panic attack after I had finished. She kept asking if I had removed my condom because she felt very wet inside. ( I had not- for the record - but it was an instant turn off from then on)

3) a young guy who couldn’t get his Willy hard.

4) a guy who had clearly not douched but also had some… downstairs incident while having sex as a bottom.

Those are my top 4

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Did absolutely opposite to what we agreed for!!!

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

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By *acktopervMan
over a year ago

Stourport-On-Severn

About 7 or 8 years ago during one of the last times i was on FAB, i hosted a Gang Bang for a couple. While i was getting "stuck in" myself her husband had noticed one of the guys was helping himself to some of my cd's. Between us we did get 5 of them off of him and chucked him out.

One thing you don't expect from a meet is people trying to steal from you.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Asked me to drive her to see her drug dealer “before we get started “

Nope I’ll take you straight home

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

A finger nail snagged me inside it was a bloodbath!

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By *irtyThirtyxoCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So. I’ve got a few.

1) back at uni someone who didn’t tell me she was a virgin. She bled all over my sofa. She was super apologetic and I thought it was charming in a way.

2) a co worker who cheated on her bf and had a panic attack after I had finished. She kept asking if I had removed my condom because she felt very wet inside. ( I had not- for the record - but it was an instant turn off from then on)

3) a young guy who couldn’t get his Willy hard.

4) a guy who had clearly not douched but also had some… downstairs incident while having sex as a bottom.

Those are my top 4

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Taking a woman’s virginity and making her bleed is number one on your list of the worst things someone’s done on a meet? wow

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"A finger nail snagged me inside it was a bloodbath! "
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K’innell

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Those that are mentioning farting - you do realise that this means the person is totally relaxed when this happens? Technically it should be a compliment

J x

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

Taken Thier clothes off . Hahahaha

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it "

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it "

Used all my eggs!!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Didn't look like the image she sent me, further more was just filing her mouth with food on the social I assumed people spoke as well in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned up at door eating with mouth open and food stains on him.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else "

Couple arrived late (2hrs) when I offered to host, Hubby was absolutely belted, pissed out his head, cut very short they couldn’t get a taxi, I was that keen to get rid I drove them home, suffice to say blocked and learned from that experience

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Used all my eggs!! "

I have some free range if you ever run short

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Used all my eggs!! "

But check thr banging omelette you got to eat

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it "

Sacrilege!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x"

Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel


"Turned up at door eating with mouth open and food stains on him. "

Sounds like a classy fella…

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x

Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab "

Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x

Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab

Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you. "

You had respect for me, lies all lies

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Sacrilege! "

Blasphemy

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Used all my eggs!!

I have some free range if you ever run short "

Oh thank you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Used all my eggs!!

I have some free range if you ever run short

Oh thank you. "

Thy pleasure is all ours

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x

Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab

Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you.

You had respect for me, lies all lies "

Total respect!! You’re one of the good guys xx

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That is so bloody rude!! Get your own kebab!!

J x

Liberty it's a liberty, consequently blocked, shit on my chest all good, but don't you date touch my chicken kebab

Chicken? You’ve just lost any respect I had for you.

You had respect for me, lies all lies

Total respect!! You’re one of the good guys xx"

Shusssh, don't tell them all, I've got a rep as a twat to maintain and uphold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turned up at door eating with mouth open and food stains on him. "

Did you shag him?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it "

That’s pretty shocking behaviour

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By *laireFraserWoman
over a year ago

NR HEDGE END

Being throttled in the back of a car. I couldn’t speak. I froze and was not responding. He was quite rough and it was scary.

Bruised neck and sore throat.

He messaged following that and seemed surprised when I said how he had been.

I never saw him again. He is still on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was asked to go on holiday with a lady and not taking the bull by the horns...and then losing her phone number. Number one regret in my life by a long chalk

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By *ittlelad69Man
over a year ago

clay cross

I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being throttled in the back of a car. I couldn’t speak. I froze and was not responding. He was quite rough and it was scary.

Bruised neck and sore throat.

He messaged following that and seemed surprised when I said how he had been.

I never saw him again. He is still on the site. "

Christ!

That's a criminal offence and he's surprised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t had a fab meet yet, but one of my worst experiences was a guy at uni who kept comparing me to his girlfriend throughout. And then when he’d finished he started crying out of guilt for cheating on her.

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By *bmhookupMan
over a year ago

London


"The girl I was fucking, farted.

I haven’t been hard since."

Hey man I'm sorry to hear that, I did also just burst out laughing tho, your comment came outta left field haha

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Haven’t had a fab meet yet, but one of my worst experiences was a guy at uni who kept comparing me to his girlfriend throughout. And then when he’d finished he started crying out of guilt for cheating on her."

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

That’s pretty shocking behaviour "

Criminal tbf

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Haven’t had a fab meet yet, but one of my worst experiences was a guy at uni who kept comparing me to his girlfriend throughout. And then when he’d finished he started crying out of guilt for cheating on her."

Idiot lol

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Got yelled at because I changed my mind...I mean how dare I... then said person tried to persuade me yo stay... err I don't think so lol

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer"

Shit happens!!!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Ate my Galaxy Ripple

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Ate my Galaxy Ripple "

Galaxy ripple for a nipple

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Ate my Galaxy Ripple "

I could have assisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is about a meet that actually didn't turn into a meet per se. I arrived at the pre-arranged location and telephone my meet to confirm house number. As a security measure I asked on the telephone for my date to confirm they could see the vehicle I was driving. They correctly described my car. I parked on their drive and knocked on their door. The door was answered by a woman, clearly not the person I had just spoken to. There was the sound of children coming from inside of the house. She looked shocked and if I am honest frightened to find a six feet plus transvestite stood at her front door. I made hasty apologies and beat a retreat. Once I had got my car off of her drive I tried to telephone my meet. No great surprise that the call was not answered. Also no great surprise that I was blocked by the profile I thought I was meeting. This was occurred several years ago and had been arranged via a non-fab site. I now have new and more stringent security checks in place for when I do meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ate my Galaxy Ripple "

Unforgivable!

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time, afterwards I felt somewhat faint and had to lie down. Guy insisted it was because of my orgasm. I hadn't had an orgasm.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top. "

Now that is an impressive trick for when you can't find a bottle opener!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"This is about a meet that actually didn't turn into a meet per se. I arrived at the pre-arranged location and telephone my meet to confirm house number. As a security measure I asked on the telephone for my date to confirm they could see the vehicle I was driving. They correctly described my car. I parked on their drive and knocked on their door. The door was answered by a woman, clearly not the person I had just spoken to. There was the sound of children coming from inside of the house. She looked shocked and if I am honest frightened to find a six feet plus transvestite stood at her front door. I made hasty apologies and beat a retreat. Once I had got my car off of her drive I tried to telephone my meet. No great surprise that the call was not answered. Also no great surprise that I was blocked by the profile I thought I was meeting. This was occurred several years ago and had been arranged via a non-fab site. I now have new and more stringent security checks in place for when I do meet."

I'm sorry this happened to you, but there are some sick people out there that would include a woman and her children in their idea of fun

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"While fucking on a meet thought I could feel her coil, she said I don’t have a coil fitted. On further investigation turn out to be a Budweiser bottle top.

Now that is an impressive trick for when you can't find a bottle opener! "

Got no words...probably to old these days

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him.

That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting?

He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick. "

That is fantastic. Had he been cut by heels at some point? Some kind of unresolved trauma. Poor man. Reaching out for connection...

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Ate my Galaxy Ripple "

No words. How very rude. B*st*rd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When he shouted at me

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was. "

Go on then we will bite.

What did he shout at you about ?

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"When he shouted at me

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was.

Go on then we will bite.

What did he shout at you about ?"

Nosey lol

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Ignored a boundary, told him to stop, he didn't. Police got involved.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Ate my Galaxy Ripple

Unforgivable!"

I know!!

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By *ew year funMan
over a year ago

travel country wide.

Turned up with a shitty arse!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Ignored a boundary, told him to stop, he didn't. Police got involved. "

Rightly so

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful."

Absolutely this. And it’s barely scratching the surface of how bad things can get for women.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

Absolutely this. And it’s barely scratching the surface of how bad things can get for women."

True... Sad but true.

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By *annessaTV/TS
over a year ago

Denham

I am so shocked by this thread.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"This fella lied about his age by a good 20 years and randomly brought a first aid kit with him.

That made me snort! I need to know why? What was the plan for the meeting?

He said it was because high heels are a cutting risk. Needless to say he was asked to leave pretty quick. "

Is a first aid kit a bad thing? Would a risk assessment form be worse?

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I am so shocked by this thread."

Offended i guess?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"When he shouted at me

This sounds tame. But it was the middle of the night at his place. I was suddenly aware of how vulnerable I was.

Go on then we will bite.

What did he shout at you about ?"

Does it matter? They felt vulnerable

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer"

So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out?

Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole...

I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer

So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out?

Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole...

I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. "

Fucking good answer

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer

So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out?

Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole...

I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. "

Fucking good answer

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By *1966Man
over a year ago

horsham

I got bitten on me bell end on a meet.

That hurts btw.

Another one,

I got given the wrong house number so they could see me walk by and give me the once over.

When i got the right place they stank of beer and offered me cans of stella and the tv was really loud.

I decided to leave that one.

Arrived on another one and never got the house number as they got nervous.

40 verifications and they got nervous.

Last one.

Walked into a bedroom and spunk stains all over the sheets.

Literally dozens of them.

And they asked if i had showered.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Rolling up a ciggy then lighting it in front of me, when she knew I was a non-smoker. I left

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

1) I’ve been stealthed a couple of times.

2) One guy was in my bedroom and told me he was short of money boo hoo, so I said “I don’t have any money to give you - I’ve got a fiver in my purse” and he started picking objects up and throwing them at me telling me to sell them and get him money.

3) Another guy -first meet in met in a hotel. He went out for a cigarette and he came back in the room with a man I’d never met or spoken to. Strange man comes and sits on the bed next to me and I am terrified. So I kick off and shout at them and luckily they go out to “finish smoking” and I get up and ask the hotel staff to take me out through the back door.

So they guy keeps ringing me and apologising. Saying it was all a misunderstanding and he didn’t mean to scare me. This goes on for a year and in the end I relent and agree to meet him again. He then sneaks out the room and doesn’t come back. The whole thing was a spite fuck, for a whole year he had been planning his vengeance! But when he left he forgot his dildo - that he had made to be an exact replica of his dick. I still have it and don’t have to deal with the rubbish man

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By *eelGoodIncMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Got up to open the door with my cum running down her legs when her mate knocked on the door.

Should've just left the door and stayed in bed basking in the afterglow lol ruined the moment when I had to rush to get dressed

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"1) I’ve been stealthed a couple of times.

2) One guy was in my bedroom and told me he was short of money boo hoo, so I said “I don’t have any money to give you - I’ve got a fiver in my purse” and he started picking objects up and throwing them at me telling me to sell them and get him money.

3) Another guy -first meet in met in a hotel. He went out for a cigarette and he came back in the room with a man I’d never met or spoken to. Strange man comes and sits on the bed next to me and I am terrified. So I kick off and shout at them and luckily they go out to “finish smoking” and I get up and ask the hotel staff to take me out through the back door.

So they guy keeps ringing me and apologising. Saying it was all a misunderstanding and he didn’t mean to scare me. This goes on for a year and in the end I relent and agree to meet him again. He then sneaks out the room and doesn’t come back. The whole thing was a spite fuck, for a whole year he had been planning his vengeance! But when he left he forgot his dildo - that he had made to be an exact replica of his dick. I still have it and don’t have to deal with the rubbish man "

Crazy story...fuck !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A finger nail snagged me inside it was a bloodbath! "

I always make sure I trim my finger nails

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham


"A more amusing one... knocked my full length mirror over on the way out if the bedroom and it shattered. "

I trust that was over 7 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wanted me to cum in her mouth, so I did and her gag reflex made her puke up over her legs and the carpet.

I have a weak stomach and left very fucking quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer

So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out?

Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole...

I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction. "

Shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that are mentioning farting - you do realise that this means the person is totally relaxed when this happens? Technically it should be a compliment

J x"

Just like belching in certain countries after eating

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I’ve not met anyone off here but my worst hook up was when I’d put it up her bum but she pulled it out and shit on the bed. I didn’t stay much longer

So you stuck your penis in a hole literally designed for shitting and were disgusted that shit came out?

Unfortunately it's a risk you take with anal - stimulating the rectum will make it contract and push out whatever is in there, so there will always be a chance of encountering some shit when you stick things in an arsehole...

I hope that poor Woman wasn't too mortified by your reaction.

Shit happens "

Agree totally...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ate some of my kebab thr fucking cheek of it

Used all my eggs!! "

Fancy an omelette?

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By *omanarab43287653975Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When he shouted at me"
what did you do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looked nothing like her pictures..."
plenty of them about heh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The girl I was fucking, farted.

I haven’t been hard since."

" thats a hard one to get over "

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

After a meet... Asked me if I can drop her off to her mates 45 miles away (1h 20 min drive)

.. like wth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point "
looks meam everything. Imagined if he hadnt,would you have married him? K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else

One guy just didn't show up

The other left before anything could start after they booked the hotel "
your doing really well heh.

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

Had a credit card swiped a few years back.

Off another site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This Is different. This is what someone has NOT done when turning up for a meet.

A lady did not wash, clean, or do any maintenance down there or her body after I spent ages grooming, showering and preparing for a meet.

The stench that hit the room when I pulled down her pants was foul..and I'm sorry I gagged.

Needless to say..I made an excuse and left.. she knew exactly what was the issue cuz the smell was unbearable...

This had scarred me for months..shame cuz she said her husband never went down on her for years and I was looking forward to doing it for her..now I know why.

She was such an attractive woman as well. All looks..no basic hygiene."
wtf!!!!!!

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Not really needed ..naoite

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By *ab365XMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Someone FARTING! (It wasn’t me!)

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

When a woman I was having sex with after meeting for her the first time decided to smoke in the bathroom in the hotel room we were in after I told her not too. Put me off going in there to use the toilet and had to wait until morning when I went home to have a shower

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful."

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"When he shouted at me what did you do?? "

Why are you implying she did anything??

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Punched in the face and kneed in the balls on my first meet by a woman who wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink. I didn't and left her there.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Punched in the face and kneed in the balls on my first meet by a woman who wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink. I didn't and left her there. "

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly "

Well said xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Mine is a bit tame.

Had a guy hold my head abd cum in my mouth, when we agreed for weeks before that was not on the cards.

Then gave a veri stating that 'I took his cum like a good slut', needless to say he got blocked

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By *eltic connectionCouple
over a year ago

Manningtree

Had a good meet a few years ago and agreed to a second round, this time she invited me back to hers and suggested I stay the night. We played for a couple of hours then fell asleep. I was woken up in the night by her getting out of bed, a couple of minutes later I looked up to see her going through my wallet! She couldn't understand why I left as soon as I got dressed asking if she had offended me!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

OP...if you're hoping for your wife to say yes to all this malarkey, wouldn't it be better to root out the positive experiences of people in a similar position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Punched in the face and kneed in the balls on my first meet by a woman who wanted me to retaliate because that was her kink. I didn't and left her there. "

I've read your story before and it still shocks me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unexpectedly pinned me by the throat in his car so hard and with such wrong/dangerous technique that I had a bruised sore throat and croaky voice for three days afterwards. This was after he had spoken about how experienced a "dom" he was. Such a shame as he was really attractive and we had got on brilliantly until that point looks meam everything. Imagined if he hadnt,would you have married him? K"

WTAF?

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly "

With all respect to you and all victims of assault everywhere, the OP of this thread asked for people too describe the worst things that happened on a meet and everyone here has the option of telling their story. Some of them are funny, some disgusting and some are harrowing.

No one is comparing anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly "

It's not a competition for worst experience.

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

About 4 yrs ago on an old profile I went to meet a guy for a social after swapping numbers and messaging and chatting on the phone.

We both agreed that there wasn’t any spark which was fine as no harm done.

He didn’t drive and asked if I could drop him off Close to his place on route… which I agreed.

Like a typical woman I keep my handbag in the passenger footwell.. and wasn’t aware that him bending down to do a trainer lace up actually meant he was riffling through my bag and purse.

He suddenly said could I stop outside a little shop as he needed to get a few bits… which I did.. and he jumped out and we said goodbye.

15 mins later when I stopped to pay for some fuel was when I realized my bag was open and in disarray..and all cash and cards all gone!

I attempted to call him on my phone I had luckily kept on me but surprisingly he had blocked me.

I called the police which I’m glad about (but more than anything pissed off because I had to explain my private life and being on here)

The idiot didn’t delete his fab profile stupidly and that’s how they finally charged him.

They said he had probably done this numerous times to other women who don’t report it due to the nature of the situation.

The police were able to let me drive home on the unpaid fuel due to the circumstances.

Lesson learned the hard way…. Always keep my bag in the boot of meeting anyone!

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

She was sick on my cock and there was noddles in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So some women have been assaulted and some men have been farted on. This is why women have to be careful.

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly "

It’s not a comparison exercise

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

I was already thinking this from before I read your message from *8 hours ago* when reading this whole thread a few mins ago, but how telling on people is it it continues in the 8 hours after? Absolutely no shame or empathy.

Women have said 'I was assaulted and in pain' and men reply with 'I got farted on/they smoked' afterwards, as if that's remotely comparable.

And we all know us girls haven't told the full truth what's happened because it's too much for a fab forum, or more importantly, themselves to share so publicly.

And STILL the men are 'they farted', 'they smoked' when women have been physically harmed as though it's comparable and worth even mentioning in the shade of it all.

Take names girls and block accordingly "

You said what I was thinking, thank you. All those insisting this isn't a comparison competition are, I think somewhat willfully ignorantly, missing the point. If the tone of a conversation goes in a particular direction, it can be in very poor taste to shoehorn in something else.

I'd also like to point out the person who openly mocked my story on this thread, as if assault is a joke?! And I chose one story out of many I could have answered to this question, I heavily edited it for privacy and for brevity. And I was actually OK after, I wasn't too shaken up by it thankfully - I've had other experiences that have, for example, been less violent but caused much more psychological damage. And yet someone thinks it's appropriate to make light of it here.

and while Fab rules prevent me saying exactly what the message said, I've also received a private message from someone else calling me a gendered slur and saying that it was my fault because I met someone from here.

It's very telling of the attitudes found here, in real life, and the wider world. The men who laugh at or ignore the women's stories here are as bad as the men committing the crimes (yes, I mean the actual crimes listed in this thread) - they're part of the problem, making this behaviour acceptable, and distancing themselves from it as if it is nothing to do with them, blissfully ignorant of the fact that their casual attitudes allow and perpetuate a culture that these things happen in.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

For goodness sake, I’m sure the OP started this thread thinking it would be lighthearted. He’s not to know that us women have slightly more menacing experiences. Neither are the posters who didn’t read through all the thread and just posted at the end. Not everybody reads every post. It doesn’t mean they are belittling women’s experiences. It doesn’t mean they need to be blocked.

Jeez. Can we just stop with the men vs women posts that seem to have started up again recently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck!

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will.

OP: what's your worst experience here?

Me: physical assault

Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you

Me: .....

Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that

Me: ....

Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew

Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down

Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal.

Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Showed me a plastic bag in his case that he wanted use and hadn't mentioned it before that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was asked to go on holiday with a lady and not taking the bull by the horns...and then losing her phone number. Number one regret in my life by a long chalk"

You hesitate, you maaturbate

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

On my previous couples profile. Arranged to meet a couple but turned out to be a single Greek man on his own. When we tried to leave he got very aggressive and tried to touch her. We told him off and left. Bombarded with sorry messages afterwards. We reported him and warned friends. Not sure still active on fab but saw him at local club after couple of years. made no eye contact but then disappeared for the rest of night before we said anything.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"For goodness sake, I’m sure the OP started this thread thinking it would be lighthearted. He’s not to know that us women have slightly more menacing experiences. Neither are the posters who didn’t read through all the thread and just posted at the end. Not everybody reads every post. It doesn’t mean they are belittling women’s experiences. It doesn’t mean they need to be blocked.

Jeez. Can we just stop with the men vs women posts that seem to have started up again recently?"

Hear here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will.

OP: what's your worst experience here?

Me: physical assault

Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you

Me: .....

Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that

Me: ....

Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew

Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down

Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal.

Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much "

Sorry to hear you have been assualted and this should highlight how precautious women need to be, shocking that some men make a some joke about it tbh. I'm sure the original question wasn't thinking of the serious things that can happen. Hope experiences in the future are a lot better

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Met a couple in a pub (not from Fab) and went back to their hotel. She slumped on the bed, more than a little d*unk and he started to undress her. Luckily, she jumped up and went to the bathroom to puke, so that's when I made my exit!!!

Still, she did send a very apologetic message the next day.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will.

OP: what's your worst experience here?

Me: physical assault

Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you

Me: .....

Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that

Me: ....

Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew

Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down

Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal.

Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much "

I'm really sorry to hear you received that private message - what an arsehole to do that when you'd had such a horrible experience.

I did say it wasn't a competition because...it isn't. I don't think people read the whole thread before posting so wouldn't have necessarily known how serious some of the comments were. And several men acknowledged the difference in worst experiences for the sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got an unexpected slap around the face that he thought I would enjoy."

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else "

The lady turned up and looked the spitting image of Jimmy Saville. You can imagine how difficult it was to get an erection. I made an excuse that I had double booked myself with some friends but did t want to stand her up so we didn't have very long. Sorted her out with a fingering and oral and set her on her way never to be solicited again.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"A brief history of my experience in this thread, TLDR version if you will.

OP: what's your worst experience here?

Me: physical assault

Man1(on pm): urgh you're promiscuous and you deserved that to happen to you

Me: .....

Man2: wow men assaulting women is funny, I'm gonna make a public jokey comment about that

Me: ....

Man3: ew a woman had a normal bodily function ew ew ew

Me: wow, this experience holds a mirror up to behaviour I experience all the time, men really are letting the side down

Woman: God you're all making a fuss, stop being so horrible to men it's not a big deal.

Uhhh yeah I think that covers it! So glad I decided to participate, reminds me why I love fab so much "

Well if that’s how you want to misinterpret my post you crack on.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"and while Fab rules prevent me saying exactly what the message said, I've also received a private message from someone else calling me a gendered slur and saying that it was my fault because I met someone from here. "

I wish the site could/would permaban people like this one.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"What's the worst thing you've experienced on a meet with someone else "

Met a cpl. Mr and his mrs getting on great. Her mr was clearly rat arsed. Anyway we progressed to the bedroom where we got it on with our own partners and as usual john made me cum several times. Then when we swapped john and his mrs were going at it very well when that dickhead decided it was ok to bite my breast so hard he left his teeth marks very deeply imprinted. He then started to fuck me but decided to pull both sides of my hair so hard he pulled a fair few handfulls out. I went nuts along with john. Pushed the guy off me and we both left. His mrs was so upset as she was really enjoying herself. Lesson learned we now will not meet anyone who has been drinking.

Mrs

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