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First there was ghosting...now...

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By *annybrowneyes OP   Man
over a year ago

Paddock Wood

First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Concerned - no.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut their heads off?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Breadcrumbing

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its ok iv got a big hammer

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Breadcrumbing "

Don’t kink shame me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…

…we’ve had quite a few of those

K

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…

…we’ve had quite a few of those

K

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Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…

…we’ve had quite a few of those

K

Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up "

Ohhh I didn't realise they don't get the thread. Explains a lot!!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…

…we’ve had quite a few of those

K

Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up

Ohhh I didn't realise they don't get the thread. Explains a lot!!"

Same for the ones who claim we had chatted previously and were at the point of deciding when and where to meet......ermmmm, nope, my site supporter features would show me previous contact and conversation

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By *oadsafun1960Man
over a year ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I've been ghosted by my ex it's a horrible thing to do to anyone.

Maybe I should become a zombie

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"Breadcrumbing

Don’t kink shame me "

You love it

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Breadcrumbing

Don’t kink shame me

You love it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "

brilliant. I'm stealing that.

I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "

Concerned? No.

If people ghost it's on them. My block button works perfectly.

There'll then be no zombie resurrection unless they set up a new profile and as most are easy to spot when they do that they're easy to recognise and avoid.

I have no issue with things being in no rush, conversations taking place over weeks or months and there being absolutely no hurry to anything happening via Fab. Makes for a stress free site life.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

That's always been submarining to me.

I quite like the term Zombying. Although I think I prefer that for the ones whom maintain contact, but in a lifeless manner.

As long as it is acknowledged it's not something I would be concerned about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "

That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I heard that called submarining too.

They disappear then resurface now and then.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny..."

If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I’ve military mates that I might not have spoken to in years pop up and say fancy a brew! As if it was last week we last caught up.

Life’s busy. If I’d arranged to actually meet and it went silent I might be a bit reluctant to arrange something straight off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny...

If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits. "

Romance ain't dead, Nanna!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’ve had this. Didn’t know it was a thing!!

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

It ain't nothing new

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

brilliant. I'm stealing that.

I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers."

Often with the same freaking cut and paste job too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s the zombies with amnesia too - those who get back in touch after ghosting and pretend they’ve never spoken to you before…

…we’ve had quite a few of those

K

Usually non site supporters. They don't realise that site supporters have a notification of previous contact, plus the last conversation thread often pops back up "

Cheers that's great news thank you never knew that maybe reason why ive had a few of those lately

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

brilliant. I'm stealing that.

I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers."

And some of them seem impervious to being able to make the connection/memory retrieval, despite multiple cues you may give them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

That's not new. Men say they want FWB... Fuck... then disappear until the next time they are horny...

If they send a hi message now and then they call that the friend part of friend with benefits.

Romance ain't dead, Nanna! "

Some even send kisses

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"No I’ve military mates that I might not have spoken to in years pop up and say fancy a brew! As if it was last week we last caught up.

Life’s busy. If I’d arranged to actually meet and it went silent I might be a bit reluctant to arrange something straight off "

That's mates though. A cup of tea isn't the same as putting your penis inside someone.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground?

brilliant. I'm stealing that.

I like the ones that message like they never messaged before! Forgetful fuckers.

And some of them seem impervious to being able to make the connection/memory retrieval, despite multiple cues you may give them."

If they have forgotten my name that's a instant sod off...

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Tell them you are not bbc iplayer, and they cannot pick up where you left off. Bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First there was ghosting, the art of someone seemingly vanishing from your messages inbox, never to speak again...

Now we have zombying, the art of that very same ghosted conversation coming back to life months later, as if nothing ever stopped...

Who here is concerned and needs to flee to higher ground? "

I ain’t fleeing anywhere, if I’m ghosted by anyone they’re blocked never to return

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

It’s like Dawn of the dead out here lol

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Hang in lemme get this right. You have people who have actually contacted you? Like in a message with words and stuff? Holy crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? I don't remember. I must have got bored."

"That conversation was trapped in a cul de sac."

"Don't you want to talk to me?"

"Flock you."

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