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Ever had a family member of a previous meet contact you?

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By *asygoingfun80 OP   Man
over a year ago

B

I've had this happen today on another site. The son of a guy a meet over a year ago, contacted me to ask questions about my meet. He wants to know when and where? It's obvious the guy i met was playing without permission.

I haven't answered him back. Not sure if i should. I don't want to get involved. What would you do?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I would delete and block immediately.

Not your circus. Not your clowns

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would block him personally. If you feel unable to do this give him the basic facts then block him.

How do you know for sure it's his son

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Don't get involved in other people's trouble.

Say nothing. Block. Forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once, on Fab.

The husband of a lady I met back in the day, in one of my previous incarnations on here, sometime around 2016/7.

He joined Fab after finding out she was on here and obviously saw her veris list.

In a forum thread I started one day, he randomly wrote something like “hey Dan, I hear you’ve been fucking my wife” which was a bit awkward tbf ..

True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would delete and block immediately.

Not your circus. Not your clowns "

^ this

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
over a year ago

London (She/Her)

A cheated on gf reached out, pretending to be the guy. Turned out she wasn’t mad at me but had this hare brained plan that I hide in their wardrobe and jump out and the two of us call him a liar and force him to leave her house. I said no. I had only met the man once, about a year previously.

It was unpleasant because she said he had confessed to her about having met me, the physical description he gave her was accurate but cruel and he also took her to my house and showed her where I live - she was able to describe my house.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Could be his wife maybe ?

If you didn't know he was attached & you don't want to get involved then just block them .How have they found you ,did you leave him a verie?

I'd be a bit wary of it tbh op

Miss

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Block, block and block again, god knows what drama is coming from that chat. This is the main thing that pisses me off when they involve you in their cheating and you don't have a bloody clue

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Sounds like a shit storm ( to be said in the voice of Clint Eastwood)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a wife and a child, blocked them. Stopped giving guys my mobile number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely block and stay well away from him as you don't know what shit you'd be getting yourself into

But I do wonder how he found his dad on a site? If it was by accident then imagine the shock he would have had, not only to find him on whatever site it was but to also find out his dad was bi

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By *asygoingfun80 OP   Man
over a year ago

B

Thanks for an your advice. The person must have looked at his dad's phone and seen messages between us.

I've deleted and blocked. I don't want to get involved.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham


"Thanks for an your advice. The person must have looked at his dad's phone and seen messages between us.

I've deleted and blocked. I don't want to get involved. "

Best way forward in my opinion.

Not a meet. But someone I dated years ago told me he was seperated when he wasn't.

His wife found and contacted me on FB many months later so he must have told her something and she sent me abusive messages and I just refused to converse. It was obvious he has lied and played down what had gone on between us. But. None of my business.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I would delete and block immediately.

Not your circus. Not your clowns "

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

A few years ago I met a guy on another site who told me he had been separated from his wife for over a year and that she lived in Ireland with their kids. I had fun but didn't want to see him again.

A few days later a woman called me and told me she was his wife, had found my number on his phone and that he was a serial shagger and I should be ashamed of myself. I didn't get into a discussion with her, just told her that he said he was single so I didn't feel I had anything to apologise for. I don't know the truth about their relationship, just blocked his number and stayed the hell out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm now good friends with the mum of a guy I met off here lol

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Yes I've had a brother of a guy contact me asking if I fancied meeting him as I'd met his brother! You got to admire that kind of enterprising attitude

(I declined the kind offer incidentally)

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"I would delete and block immediately.

Not your circus. Not your clowns "

In a nutshell, 'This'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give out your numbers, use Skype or kik. Retain some distance till things develop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin "

I don't know if I'm alone in this opinion, but for a parent to want to piggyback their child's meet/bf/gf etc, that's pretty fucked up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin

I don't know if I'm alone in this opinion, but for a parent to want to piggyback their child's meet/bf/gf etc, that's pretty fucked up! "

Call me biased, I’m not one to judge

I actually thought it was very sexy

Until she went weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds odd.

No, I’ve not had anything like that. Thank goodness.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin "

I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin

I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it. "

That’s why I tell guys to think with the big brain first. The little brain makes bad choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t give out your numbers, use Skype or kik. Retain some distance till things develop. "

I don't use either of those, i now just communicate via Fab.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A meets mum contacted me once and we ended up getting a hotel together

She turned out to be a massive weirdo and got really abusing and threatening when I didn’t wanna meet agsin

I'm not really surprised. Going back through the process required to get your contact details this had 'massive weirdo' written all over it.

That’s why I tell guys to think with the big brain first. The little brain makes bad choices "

very true

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