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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

After several weeks back being solo, I suspect there's a definite difference between what single men see and single women & couples see when viewing their 'Who's Looked At Me' list.

Most sane people will of course view in stealth so as not to give away that they've perved, sorry 'browsed' a profile, or to prevent a flurry of 'ooh I saw you looking' messages in their inbox.

But the thing I've noticed is that the majority of those peeking my way likely aren't interested in me at all, based on who they are, where they live and when in particular they pop by for a gander.

They're mostly single guys. They live nowhere near me. They're often the type to have '100% straight' on their profiles which they type in block capitals multiple times to make sure readers are aware. They do however, live nearby those I've recently met.

Sure, there's the odd couple peeking, but again generally those looking to meet other couples and women.

Do I care? Nope. Do I find it amusing? Yep. I often wonder if they hope to find some clue in my profile that will open a door for them, give them some kind of 'in' with someone else or if they're just being nosey because someone has dared to turn them down yet be happy to engage with me.

Am I alone in this or do other guys find similar patterns in their lists?

And women and couples - feel free to chip in. Your thoughts are of course equally as valid, although I suspect your lists are in reality made up of people that are actually interested in you, rather than those you've met.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Do you actually look at your “who looked at me”?

Ps. TL;DR

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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you actually look at your “who looked at me”?

Ps. TL;DR "

For no other reason than idle curiosity and amusement.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Do you actually look at your “who looked at me”?

Ps. TL;DR

For no other reason than idle curiosity and amusement. "

Ooh… amusement. I like that. I’ll give it a whirl

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Oohhh... love this bit of insight! We have lots of people look at us, we are more the undercover lookers lol.. and often they aren't people that would seem interested in us... I think a lot of it is from posting on forums and intrigued as to who's behind the comment.. could it be that OP? X

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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Oohhh... love this bit of insight! We have lots of people look at us, we are more the undercover lookers lol.. and often they aren't people that would seem interested in us... I think a lot of it is from posting on forums and intrigued as to who's behind the comment.. could it be that OP? X"

I suppose in theory.

But other 'patterns' I've noticed are more obvious.

Besides. Less than 1% of the site use the forums so unlikely they make up the majority of the perving list.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I've had some hot dates from perusing my who has looked at me

My looking for is off, so I only get forum/hotlist related views now

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

I’m definitely thinking people see they like the same things as you so try and use your profile as an in with other fabbers, beware when u leave a veri and ppl have them set to view by anyone!!!

Maybe it’s more of a winter thing when it’s too cold for them to hang out in the sand dunes near the nudist beaches and they need another method!!!

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west


"Oohhh... love this bit of insight! We have lots of people look at us, we are more the undercover lookers lol.. and often they aren't people that would seem interested in us... I think a lot of it is from posting on forums and intrigued as to who's behind the comment.. could it be that OP? X

I suppose in theory.

But other 'patterns' I've noticed are more obvious.

Besides. Less than 1% of the site use the forums so unlikely they make up the majority of the perving list. "

Well that blows my theory out of the water lol... I didn't realise fo few used them.

Also now not sure where all the people that look at us find us from lol.. will continue to follow to find out the answer to the mystery lol x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

How do you know if the person is a fit you without viewing the profile?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Oohhh... love this bit of insight! We have lots of people look at us, we are more the undercover lookers lol.. and often they aren't people that would seem interested in us... I think a lot of it is from posting on forums and intrigued as to who's behind the comment.. could it be that OP? X

I suppose in theory.

But other 'patterns' I've noticed are more obvious.

Besides. Less than 1% of the site use the forums so unlikely they make up the majority of the perving list. "

If you include lurkers it's quite a bit more.

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By *bi Haive OP   Man
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How do you know if the person is a fit you without viewing the profile?"

You don't.

But if you're a straight guy looking for single women.....what motivates you to look at other guys.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

You're right of course about stealth looking. Those that I am aware of are 50% couples, 30% TVs and 20% single females.

Does everyone have the option to hide browsing or just Gold/Silver supporters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if the person is a fit you without viewing the profile?

You don't.

But if you're a straight guy looking for single women.....what motivates you to look at other guys. "

Men are told to look at other men's profiles to get an idea of how to improve theirs.

They will look at women's veris to see the men who met them as they successfully got their cock wet.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Oohhh... love this bit of insight! We have lots of people look at us, we are more the undercover lookers lol.. and often they aren't people that would seem interested in us... I think a lot of it is from posting on forums and intrigued as to who's behind the comment.. could it be that OP? X"

Yes, most of the people we look at are from forum comments. Not necessarily people we’re interested in, but people who have said interesting things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're right of course about stealth looking. Those that I am aware of are 50% couples, 30% TVs and 20% single females.

Does everyone have the option to hide browsing or just Gold/Silver supporters?"

The problem with viewing as a single girl is the moment you view a guy’s profile they message you. And we all know some people on here can be persistent, rude etc if messages are not answered / not answered speedily or if you give a polite no. So less hassle to view on stealth mode tbh

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far


"How do you know if the person is a fit you without viewing the profile?

You don't.

But if you're a straight guy looking for single women.....what motivates you to look at other guys. "

Benchmarking.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Obi, exactly the same pattern as you on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I had views!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’ve seen the similar - if I mutually verify with someone who isn’t local I get randoms from the same area viewing my profile. I’ve always assumed it’s from it showing in the other person’s local updates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person I would regulary meet after I had published his veri said he would get a flurry of men from the Midlands looking at his profile. Its nosiness, or checking out the competition

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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago

preston

I click around a lot when I'm on here. Jumping around on the forums, hotlist, hot vids, local updates etc.. clicking on all sorts of profiles. If I've landed on your profile, I've probably spotted one of your photos in the wild.. maybe the picture of your bum on your avatar is so damned tempting that I just had to have a closer look, getting a little peek into someone else's secret life... everything Fab has to offer.

Various different reasons I might pay a visit but it seems the main one is I'm a dirty bugger.

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