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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we can’t. I think actually people love the drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel you may he right, Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we can’t. I think actually people love the drama"

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I just ignore the negatives and focus on the positives.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

One love people

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Some people love the drama it involves and will never grow up like Peter Pan.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Think there is always some negativity on the forum. Think the only way to make it more positive is to start more positive threads.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"No we can’t. I think actually people love the drama"

This one.

Focus on the positive OP. You can probably spot the deliberately provocative or same old boring ones from the thread titles or the poster. Just don't click on those ones and the forums will be a happier place for you

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I genuinely feel as though the forums have got a lot more hostile lately.

Apparently I like larger girls, then it’s thinner girls, all of a sudden my body shape isn’t good, but now it is, or as a single guy I’m the equivalent of Satans nutsack, then it flips to “not all single guys”. And that’s just in a week!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought I disliked people prior to joining here, mainly it's reinforced my dislike to people.

People (not all) are just not worth the energy.

This place is becoming less fun by the day.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One love people "

Let’s get together and feel alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One love people

Let’s get together and feel alright "

I know this song

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Overwhelming positivity is nauseating and often fake. It's just as unhealthy as overwhelming negativity.

More often than not, those pushing for positivity are those provoking the negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please just show me boobs n willys

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?"

Some people aren't very nice unfortunately.

Some could start an argument with themselves

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One love people

Let’s get together and feel alright

I know this song"

At last!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Overwhelming positivity is nauseating and often fake. It's just as unhealthy as overwhelming negativity.

More often than not, those pushing for positivity are those provoking the negativity. "

Yeah I'm not a fan of the false positives. Gives me the ick. Let me be miserable in peace

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?"

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I disliked people prior to joining here, mainly it's reinforced my dislike to people.

People (not all) are just not worth the energy.

This place is becoming less fun by the day.

Mrs "
this definitely seems to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too "

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder? "

Is it a chocolate chip, please? If so, I'm in.

I forgot to include "OLD, fat, disabled women....." My bad.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I presumed this was all about the Marvin Gaye song. ¶¶||..¶

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder?

Is it a chocolate chip, please? If so, I'm in.

I forgot to include "OLD, fat, disabled women....." My bad."

No it’s not a chocolate chip

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder?

Is it a chocolate chip, please? If so, I'm in.

I forgot to include "OLD, fat, disabled women....." My bad.

No it’s not a chocolate chip

"

Awwwwwwwwwwww. I confess. I wanted a cookie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder?

Is it a chocolate chip, please? If so, I'm in.

I forgot to include "OLD, fat, disabled women....." My bad.

No it’s not a chocolate chip

Awwwwwwwwwwww. I confess. I wanted a cookie "

Black men don’t taste like chocolate that’s just a myth peddled by fetishisers!!!!! Grrrrrr

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

I think we should ban fat, disabled, probably lower-middle class (stepped up from working class) women from the forum

Ummmmmmmm. I can't think of any more demographics to ban, but if you can think of one or two, I'm up for banning them too

Young Black men with a chip on their shoulder?

Is it a chocolate chip, please? If so, I'm in.

I forgot to include "OLD, fat, disabled women....." My bad.

No it’s not a chocolate chip

Awwwwwwwwwwww. I confess. I wanted a cookie

Black men don’t taste like chocolate that’s just a myth peddled by fetishisers!!!!! Grrrrrr"

You said a chip on your shoulder. Not that I'd be

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,


"I'm seeing a lot of negativity on the old forums lately.

Sweeping statements, generalised opinions, body shaming, class shaming, gender shaming, gripes about this group or that group.

Can't we all just get along?

Some people aren't very nice unfortunately.

Some could start an argument with themselves "

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Can't say I've noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online gives people a freedom and in some cases anonymity they don't have in real life to say what they want without caring about the effect it can have or they consider it just banter or people getting offended too easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the forums for you. They are a lot less dramatic/tamer than they used to be mind.

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