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"How can your kids hating you be worse?" you need to clarify the situation a bit more clearly. | |||
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".. If it's relationship question you're referrring too, leave if you're unhappy and making your partner unhappy, but maintain contact with your children and dont let them be used as pawns in any hostilities that may ensue." | |||
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"Ment my kids hating me will be worse.." Your kids will be less happy if you stay together, if you really aren't happy. | |||
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"Thinking of staying in a relationship for a kids sake will never work just make things worse...." second and third this | |||
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"How can your kids hating you be worse? you need to clarify the situation a bit more clearly. " | |||
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"Thinking of staying in a relationship for a kids sake will never work just make things worse.... second and third this " Never say never, depends on circumstances. I did it so my kids could enjoying having a ma and a pa to come home to. Wasn't easy though. | |||
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"Thing is i went threw this and said id never put my kids in my place .. " So you'd rather stay with your missus and let your kids grow up thinking that fighting and having a row is ok as long as the family dynamic isn't disrupted, that is total rubbish, I always said I'd never stay for the sake of the kids, as soon as my ex asked me to leave I was in my own place in 3 weeks. | |||
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"My friend and her husband decided to stay living together for the sake of their Two children, once they had made that joint decision and had agreed not to argue in front of their children, the relief they both found in knowing that they had made the right choice resulted in them staying together for Seven more years and becoming friends again. When their youngest started college they did split, it allowed the children to adapt to the situation in those Seven years and the couple remain good friends several more years down the line. So it can work in some circumstances." yes, my x n I have maintained a friendly relationship since we separated and are able to spend family days with our now extended family together. | |||
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"Dad" "I am the mrs" Ah I get you now, are the kids coming with you? | |||
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"Thing is i went threw this and said id never put my kids in my place .. " Then stick to your promise and sort your problems out. Has your wife seen this thread? I'd be packing your bags for you if I was her and saw this. | |||
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"Your kids wont hate you time heals if you stay and your unhappy then there will be more arguments ect.... They will pick up on this and probs become resentfull " Want to bet my eldest don't want to know me lol I am his sperm donar as far as he is concerned. He hates me with a passion yet my middle son is now living with me. | |||
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"My friend and her husband decided to stay living together for the sake of their Two children, once they had made that joint decision and had agreed not to argue in front of their children, the relief they both found in knowing that they had made the right choice resulted in them staying together for Seven more years and becoming friends again. When their youngest started college they did split, it allowed the children to adapt to the situation in those Seven years and the couple remain good friends several more years down the line. So it can work in some circumstances." I have a friend too who did exactly the same thing, he and his partner are really great friends now and both have super relationships with their children (now grown up) I guess depending on why you want to leave will have a bearing on it all but obviously we don't know all of your details. Good luck with it whatever you decide | |||
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