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By *ornyfriendlygentleman OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

If I offered buy coffee and cake on my profile would you meet me? no pressure.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Would depend on if I was available, you were within reasonable travel distance, I'd seen a clear face pic of you and we had got on when chatting online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’ve not even looked at your profile and it would be a no. Most women don’t like to be bribed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might not be after coffee and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that you would need to chat first see if there is a connection but definitely don't try and make it sound like bribe let it come organically if further meet is to be arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I offered buy coffee and cake on my profile would you meet me? no pressure. "

No pressure for what?

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Sure but the conversation has to be good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and I haven't looked at your profile. Women can buy their own coffee and cake.

Are you asking for help with your profile?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I don’t like cake

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Nope

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As a social only yeah, sure. I have cuppa socials from here when I have a spare portion of time, met some really interesting people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even looked at your profile but on the premise of having something bought for me to meet it’s a no for me.

If I wanted a cake and a coffee, I can very well buy it for myself.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not unless you fit the criteria and there was an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bribery.. If I give you this will you do this as form of payment.. No.

The art of attraction is not bribery it is lots of things Op

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By *illygirlWoman
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

How you chat and how your personality is, is more important than what you'd buy

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"No. I’ve not even looked at your profile and it would be a no. Most women don’t like to be bribed "

Amends home shopping order

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"If I offered buy coffee and cake on my profile would you meet me? no pressure.

No pressure for what?"

I was gonna say....no, there WON'T be any pressure

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"If I offered buy coffee and cake on my profile would you meet me? no pressure. "

No they won’t. I have a box full of Krispy cream donuts here.

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By *alico_KittyWoman
over a year ago

Kittys Lane

No I wouldn't

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not for sale is the guy reaction.

But what kind of coffee? What kind of cake?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah you need a new tactic, cake doesn’t work anymore ( so 90’s )

Have you tried asking them to stroke the puppies in your van ?

The mr

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Yeah you need a new tactic, cake doesn’t work anymore ( so 90’s )

Have you tried asking them to stroke the puppies in your van ?

The mr "

Can confirm the puppies work.

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I'm not for sale is the guy reaction.

But what kind of coffee? What kind of cake?"

Is the coffee decaf,is the cake gluten free. Could be getting into a bit of a minefield there.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Nope as it sets a transactional precedent.

Unless it's done in a way, where it's arbitrary. That can be toyed with and become intriguing.

E.g. mocking the social convention. That's quite attractive to me and humorous at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope as it sets a transactional precedent.

Unless it's done in a way, where it's arbitrary. That can be toyed with and become intriguing.

E.g. mocking the social convention. That's quite attractive to me and humorous at times."

Lol. You know that many people on Fab see every interaction between men and women as transactional! It was a thread I thought of starting.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"Yeah you need a new tactic, cake doesn’t work anymore ( so 90’s )

Have you tried asking them to stroke the puppies in your van ?

The mr

Can confirm the puppies work. "

You have puppies? Can I come and see them?

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