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What make a female strong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This may be a bit wordy so you can skip it if you want... It's just something that's been bothering me over the last couple of weeks so I had to express it.

What makes a female strong, reliable respected and someone to follow and admire?

I don’t know why I wrote this but after watching the Internet YouTube various broadcasting corporation’s social media etc blah blah blah. It’s made me think about what a real woman is and what is desirable I’m a gay man so I don’t find women attractive sexually but I definitely like women as friends and somebody who I can talk to without being discriminated against or put down because (yes) I have emotions. “We all have emotions male and female”.

Women today are labelled as vicious narcissistic disrespectful and the videos media have read show this but I know not every woman is like that they are just being put on the back shelf where the rest of the nasties are being publicised and praised. This is wrong. We should be embracing the original female and not the woke generation female.

A strong woman is able to listen without being domineering and disrespectful to the other person, she is able to sympathise and able to see both sides of the story. A true female Should have empathy without being submissive providing a strong mental approach to deal with awkward scenarios. She can comfort and provide stability in a relaxed atmosphere to help the other person. (You could say the motherly type, The mother is strong and protective and she will go out of her way to protect her offspring) Being a motherly type is not putting Females in the lower Position In fact for many people it’s desirable it’s someone to look up to someone to follow knowing that she can protect them or help them in any way she’s able to.

A true woman does not need to have a high-paying job or a huge success in life but the opportunities there if she wishes to achieve this success, she can still be affectionate and approachable even though she has an authoritative position. If I’m wrong which I don’t think I am most people are attracted to this type of person as a friend, lover, potential partner.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Beach pressing 500kg ?

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they be whatever the fuck THEY WANT to be.

Not what someone else says they SHOULD be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will read it all and reply, but stopped for now at the 'real' word as its a bugbear of mine. Not your fault.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Traps and lats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Traps and lats "

And not skipping leg day of course.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Being strong doesn't necessarily equate to being likeable

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Doesn't really matter at the end of the what I say, does it.

Because it will be wrong to somebody. And 9/10 I'll be told because I'm a man I don't have a say in what it is nor what it should be - unless it aligns with what that person thinks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've seen the words 'real' and 'true' used to describe women a few times lately. In relation to body size, whether they've had children or not and various other arbitrary characteristics.

A 'real and true ' woman is just a woman.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

What makes a female strong, reliable respected and someone to follow and admire?

By having stable matriarchal traits

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And by the description in the op I am not a real or true woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tldr.

Also couldn’t care less

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I'd suggest -

Don't get your opinions on women from YouTube or social media.

Don't call women "females".

Don't go down the "everything that's wrong with the world is woke!" rabbit hole.

There's no such thing as a "real" woman (or a "real" man); humans cover a huge variety of personalities and trying to put them into boxes is a waste of time.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

What doesnt kill them.

That makes them stronger.

Also Kelly Clarkson.

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Spinach

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

humanity, like with anyone

As people have said, none of us need 'true' and 'real' prefixes.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’m not empathetic, motherly or affectionate. What am I then because I’m apparently not a real woman? Does strong woman complete a deployment in a sandy place and carry a rifle?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Spinach "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What doesnt kill them.

That makes them stronger.

Also Kelly Clarkson."

Gah! That's another saying I dislike.

'oh you've been through an absolutely terrible time and you're not dead. You don't need any help because you're obviously stronger. Here take some more shit '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PED’s

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"What doesnt kill them.

That makes them stronger.

Also Kelly Clarkson.

Gah! That's another saying I dislike.

'oh you've been through an absolutely terrible time and you're not dead. You don't need any help because you're obviously stronger. Here take some more shit '"

Me too.

Breaking point should be where it stops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm beyond weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may be a bit wordy so you can skip it if you want... It's just something that's been bothering me over the last couple of weeks so I had to express it.

What makes a female strong, reliable respected and someone to follow and admire?

I don’t know why I wrote this but after watching the Internet YouTube various broadcasting corporation’s social media etc blah blah blah. It’s made me think about what a real woman is and what is desirable I’m a gay man so I don’t find women attractive sexually but I definitely like women as friends and somebody who I can talk to without being discriminated against or put down because (yes) I have emotions. “We all have emotions male and female”.

Women today are labelled as vicious narcissistic disrespectful and the videos media have read show this but I know not every woman is like that they are just being put on the back shelf where the rest of the nasties are being publicised and praised. This is wrong. We should be embracing the original female and not the woke generation female.

A strong woman is able to listen without being domineering and disrespectful to the other person, she is able to sympathise and able to see both sides of the story. A true female Should have empathy without being submissive providing a strong mental approach to deal with awkward scenarios. She can comfort and provide stability in a relaxed atmosphere to help the other person. (You could say the motherly type, The mother is strong and protective and she will go out of her way to protect her offspring) Being a motherly type is not putting Females in the lower Position In fact for many people it’s desirable it’s someone to look up to someone to follow knowing that she can protect them or help them in any way she’s able to.

A true woman does not need to have a high-paying job or a huge success in life but the opportunities there if she wishes to achieve this success, she can still be affectionate and approachable even though she has an authoritative position. If I’m wrong which I don’t think I am most people are attracted to this type of person as a friend, lover, potential partner.

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How many kids does she have?

Does she wear dresses and never ever wears trousers?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Traps and lats

And not skipping leg day of course."

*Ahem* I skip leg day every day but my lats and traps are *chef's kiss emoji*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Integrity. Follow through. Drive. Leadership.

Same as a man.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Deadlifts

LvM

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Sure of their own feelings and not going to allow someone else’s feelings to change theirs.

Good set of values.

Firm but not aggressive.

These characteristics define strength of character and it’s not gender specific.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Beach pressing 500kg ?

The mr "

This made me lol big time

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