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"I'm a bit suspicious of them but I guess people have their reasons and don't want anything that could possibly help identify them but yeah you do think why " I don't post pics as I'd rather not be identified due to family/friends/work colleagues etc. I've been fairly successful in meeting people since I've been on here but I put that down to being able send a half decent opening message. I realise that I would probably have a little bit more interest if I had a profile pic, so seriously thinking about it at the moment. Just need to have a trim and edge first. | |||
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"I'm a bit suspicious of them but I guess people have their reasons and don't want anything that could possibly help identify them but yeah you do think why I don't post pics as I'd rather not be identified due to family/friends/work colleagues etc. I've been fairly successful in meeting people since I've been on here but I put that down to being able send a half decent opening message. I realise that I would probably have a little bit more interest if I had a profile pic, so seriously thinking about it at the moment. Just need to have a trim and edge first." If people don't put a pic I will still read the profile ans see if I like how they sound and no pic is not a big one for me . What I don't understand is no pic and no info on the profile | |||
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"I'm a bit suspicious of them but I guess people have their reasons and don't want anything that could possibly help identify them but yeah you do think why I don't post pics as I'd rather not be identified due to family/friends/work colleagues etc. I've been fairly successful in meeting people since I've been on here but I put that down to being able send a half decent opening message. I realise that I would probably have a little bit more interest if I had a profile pic, so seriously thinking about it at the moment. Just need to have a trim and edge first." Sounds like you are good in messages so why change. Just put any old shit as your profile pic. Like your legs/ shoes on a park bench. You're still the same person with or without a pic. ![]() | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who?" If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to. ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't ever make contact with a blank profile, but if they msg and attach pics it's not a problem. This is why it annoys me when people say women should go looking and make the first move... how can we?!" Why can't you?. | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who? If you use the Reply + quote button we will know who you are replying to. ![]() Thankyou xx | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who?" She messaged me from a hidden profile. I never saw a single image of her before we met. Obviously she saw my photos. But not my face. | |||
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"Nah, as long as the profile says "woman" I'm game ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who? She messaged me from a hidden profile. I never saw a single image of her before we met. Obviously she saw my photos. But not my face." Interesting... | |||
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"I’m suspicious of profiles with no pictures but that’s because I’ve been stalked and threatened before." Guess that's why verifications are also important | |||
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"I find it difficult to communicate with a silhouette profile and it honestly creeps me out, so unless they attach a pic to a message they’re not getting a reply from me. ![]() If I'm messaging someone from outside my area I attach a face pic. If it's someone local I'll offer to show one if they're interested. I wouldn't go to meet someone without knowing what they looked like and wouldn't expect anyone to meet me without first seeing my pic. | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who? She messaged me from a hidden profile. I never saw a single image of her before we met. Obviously she saw my photos. But not my face. Interesting..." It was a gamble but she wrote the most eloquent messages I've ever read. I just had to meet and know this person. And she was incredible in person too. | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who? She messaged me from a hidden profile. I never saw a single image of her before we met. Obviously she saw my photos. But not my face. Interesting... It was a gamble but she wrote the most eloquent messages I've ever read. I just had to meet and know this person. And she was incredible in person too. " Great..TBH looking at your photos you've clearly put alot of thought into them..very classy.. | |||
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"Yes..but you have photos..who messaged who? She messaged me from a hidden profile. I never saw a single image of her before we met. Obviously she saw my photos. But not my face. Interesting... It was a gamble but she wrote the most eloquent messages I've ever read. I just had to meet and know this person. And she was incredible in person too. Great..TBH looking at your photos you've clearly put alot of thought into them..very classy.." Thank you very much. The challenge is to try and never take the same photo twice! | |||
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"The hottest guy I've ever met had a profile with no photos. Photos are usually close ups or not representative of the person. I meet people not pics. It all depends on the person behind the profile. Some people like to meet a tick box. Good for them. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What are your thoughts on profiles without public photos? A picture paints a thousand words, so if no photos, we pass them by. Is this the same for everyone? Any out there with no photos who's ever actually been successful? " I am at the point now of moving on no matter how decent the profile is. The excuse of work family etc doesn't cut it for me now. Ive already got a question mark over them so why try and initiate more | |||
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"I like to see photos it gives an idea of the person behind them and their thinking " indeed it does | |||
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"I'm a bit suspicious of them but I guess people have their reasons and don't want anything that could possibly help identify them but yeah you do think why I don't post pics as I'd rather not be identified due to family/friends/work colleagues etc. I've been fairly successful in meeting people since I've been on here but I put that down to being able send a half decent opening message. I realise that I would probably have a little bit more interest if I had a profile pic, so seriously thinking about it at the moment. Just need to have a trim and edge first." There we go, I've put one on. I'm officially a non blank profile pic now. | |||
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