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By *ucspark OP   Man
over a year ago

dudley

At a few times in my life I have need to let someone or something go.

I always find it difficult as my character is one that likes to succeed.

So can you let go with ease or do hold on for dear death

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"At a few times in my life I have need to let someone or something go.

I always find it difficult as my character is one that likes to succeed.

So can you let go with ease or do hold on for dear death "

Depends upon who or what. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's perhaps ironic that this thread is on here as I'm sitting on my bed feeling a little emotional. 3/4 and 5 years ago I would have been putting the finishing touches to a poem for my ex for Valentine's Day or planning a romantic meal.

Now the shit cheated on me so there's no love lost and I left him, but I cut him out of my life and there went friends, a family support network and my lover.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"It's perhaps ironic that this thread is on here as I'm sitting on my bed feeling a little emotional. 3/4 and 5 years ago I would have been putting the finishing touches to a poem for my ex for Valentine's Day or planning a romantic meal.

Now the shit cheated on me so there's no love lost and I left him, but I cut him out of my life and there went friends, a family support network and my lover. "

Big hug xxxxxxx Z

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By *ucspark OP   Man
over a year ago

dudley


"It's perhaps ironic that this thread is on here as I'm sitting on my bed feeling a little emotional. 3/4 and 5 years ago I would have been putting the finishing touches to a poem for my ex for Valentine's Day or planning a romantic meal.

Now the shit cheated on me so there's no love lost and I left him, but I cut him out of my life and there went friends, a family support network and my lover. "

Sorry to hear that, betrail is always a horrid thing to deal with

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I find it really hard to let go... Because I think the fucker has come in my life in a whirlwind then leaves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really hard to let go... Because I think the fucker has come in my life in a whirlwind then leaves... "

That's the same as me at the minute, met a great guy for no strings sex, ended up spending more time with him, feelings develop then I called it off due to his hot/cold spells but I can't seem to let go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never been that close to anyone that its bothered me when they have gone, the only people i would never let go are my kids, anyone else can come and go

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By *ucspark OP   Man
over a year ago

dudley


"ive never been that close to anyone that its bothered me when they have gone, the only people i would never let go are my kids, anyone else can come and go"

I do get attached quite easy to some and of course my dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench. "

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get attached easily too, theres a couple of guys i really like on here but i will never tell them,maybe because im a chicken ha ha but mainly because of the hurt thing and i really do find it hard to let go of them but at the same time i respect there decision to walk away

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"It's perhaps ironic that this thread is on here as I'm sitting on my bed feeling a little emotional. 3/4 and 5 years ago I would have been putting the finishing touches to a poem for my ex for Valentine's Day or planning a romantic meal.

Now the shit cheated on me so there's no love lost and I left him, but I cut him out of my life and there went friends, a family support network and my lover. "

same boat..throw 2 step kids in for good measure..But I am thankful that I let him go...I am far better in my own than living with lies....

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

To my detriment...hold on for dear life

Letting go is hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed... "

A threat or a promise?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed...

A threat or a promise? "

A bit of both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed...

A threat or a promise?

A bit of both... "

Just what I had hoped

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By *ucspark OP   Man
over a year ago

dudley


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed...

A threat or a promise?

A bit of both... "

Jess put the handcuffs away remember you lost the key

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"For me it's a huge step to bring someone in my life, along with having a never give up outlook it makes letting go a huge wrench.

I have to say I'd never let you go.....

From my bed...

A threat or a promise?

A bit of both...

Just what I had hoped "

Wooo hoooo

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By *1947Man
over a year ago

Bradley Wolverhampton

I met someone who I thought the world off, thought things were going well and we had become really good mates, a simple misunderstanding caused by myself lead to it finishing 3 weeks ago, am completely devestated Lets hope I've learned from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you've done all you can do to keep someone that doesn't want to be kept. See it their way and let them go. It often hurts more to hang on than it does to let go!

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By *ittlebitWoman
over a year ago

Plymouth

It's a skill I have learnt over the years... Best to let go and be happy. But It's hard and I seem to go through an evil phase whilst doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit some guys I've met on here I've grown very fond of. But happy ever afters between them and me.. No way! But I do wish them every bit of sucsess in life and happiness.

I will always be there for them re a shag or a friend if they wanted but nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a few times in my life I have need to let someone or something go.

I always find it difficult as my character is one that likes to succeed.

So can you let go with ease or do hold on for dear death "

Let go with no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting go is hard, really hard, but sometimes it is necessary.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Sometimes the harder you hold on,just makes it easier for the other person to let go.

Sad but true.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can be ruthless and let them go without a second thought.

And if it is being done to me, I would prefer the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes letting go is the hardest thing to do. But we have one life, so live it to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I have come to the conclusion that something has to change and/or end, I would act on it as quickly and decisively as possible, move on, and without looking back.

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