FabSwingers.com forum: Question for everyone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd you have a status that says feel free to message

Would you at least expect for them to actually look at there inbox and open the message even If it's not for them and they delete the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not if the person is unsuitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d expect them to be eating cereal and making plans to take over the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"I'd you have a status that says feel free to message

Would you at least expect for them to actually look at there inbox and open the message even If it's not for them and they delete the message "

No, says nothing about expecting a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Not if the person is unsuitable."
so not even goto the inbox and delete it not just leave it in there unread

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not if the person is unsuitable.

so not even goto the inbox and delete it not just leave it in there unread"

Some people get lots of messages. Takes too long reading and deleting as more keep coming in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not if the person is unsuitable.so not even goto the inbox and delete it not just leave it in there unread"

You can see the first few words of a message without opening it.

You can read a message and then mark it as unread.

If the senders lrifike is if no intetest, the message probably won't get read.

If the recipient has 900 unread messages they are likely to cherry pick just a few and bulk delete the rest

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I'd you have a status that says feel free to message

Would you at least expect for them to actually look at there inbox and open the message even If it's not for them and they delete the message "

Nope.

I'd expect them to view the senders profile first and then decide if they like what they see.

If they do that for all messages they can then reply to those they like, or save, and then either individually or bulk delete the rest later.

Simple inbox management.

Nobody is owed a reply or even to have a message read in the first place.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If you see a status that says feel free to inbox me, I would think they are looking to see who will take the smallest of hints to try and get laid, then keep all the emails unread to see who gets arsey about the messages remaining unread.

It could be being used as a filter...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I'd expect them to click my profile look at it and decide whether or not to reply.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. There are NO rules that should be laid at the door of someone else's mail box.

A rule I would make is ..... people who want to control other people's mail boxes should not be allowed to send messages or look for support via asking leading questions on the forums.

Watch your own mail. Leave other people's mail alone. That's my policy. Once you send mail it's NOT yours anymore.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I wouldn’t message somebody who had that status before checking their profile information first. If I don’t fit what they are looking for I wouldn’t message at all.

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