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Swing or Romance on Valentines day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is valentines day 'just another day' for you or do you see it as a time to leave the swinging world alone for a day and devote a little love and romance to your partner? We ask because we have noticed a 'greedy girls' night planned for tomorrow at a club near us and while we are of the 'each to their own' mentality as far as swinging goes, it somewhat hits a little nerve with us that some women are happy to let several guys have sex with her on what's intended to be a romantic day for wine and dine etc. Also do the husbands partners of these women, not feel remotely miffed if their wives/partners insist on taking part?

In general, should valentines day be for romance for us swingers or just a 'carry on as normal' day?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Romance.....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Its a normal day to me as I don't have anyone to be romantic with.. Its me, myself and I....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont be getting either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a very good thing on Facebook:

To everyone else it's Valentine's Day

To me it's Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are plenty of single women who don`t have a partner to spend tomorrow with who enjoy a bit of a play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty of single women who don`t have a partner to spend tomorrow with who enjoy a bit of a play.

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What the lovely lady said but men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was very funny to watch the fellas stood in the card and cheap valentines tat isle at the supermarket. The looks if sheer indifference and I can't be arsed to do this but I won't get a shag looks.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

It's a normal day for us too - the whle thing is a money making excercise - you should be romantic and loving every day - not just when you're told to be so! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ahhhh ive got someone but dont celebrate it just another day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal day......if I want to be romantic with my hubbie I don't need to be told when to do it and certainly don't need to spend money that I don't have doing it. I love him 365 days a year and try my best to show it every day! (although sometimes it can be mistaken for me nagging )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity, how many of the 'its just another day' gang still went n bought cards and tat? Lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i know i am loved and love someone every day but dont see the problem in having a special day to show it even more.

Although it is hard to buy things for boys lol i am not one for just buying people tat and cuddly toys etc

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

To be fair...Valentines day is traditionally for people to flirt with someone they are keen on, sending a valentines card to your partner with your signature on it doesn't have the same mystery as receiving a card and not knowing who has sent it to you.

Saying that, Valentines is my Third highest turnover period of the year, beaten only by Christmas and Mothers Day....so long may this commercialism continue and grow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wont be getting either "

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Just out of curiosity, how many of the 'its just another day' gang still went n bought cards and tat? Lol"

none here! Z

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not me... no cards brought....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on ya, although i will admit to buying one.

It's for me mum tho'

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Good on ya, although i will admit to buying one.

It's for me mum tho' "

Aw, - bless - that's sweet! Z

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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

No cards being sent, none expected, no significant other but I do have a meet lined up with a rather sexy young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent one card... And not expecting any back but it will just end up being another day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair...Valentines day is traditionally for people to flirt with someone they are keen on, sending a valentines card to your partner with your signature on it doesn't have the same mystery as receiving a card and not knowing who has sent it to you."

this exactly so none will be sent here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even my mother will be getting more than me. Last year I felt the same as I do this year, emotional.

My ex may have been a shit but he always bought me roses on Valenbollocks. This year again I'll be getting no flowers, no card and no kisses or cuddles.

To me it's just going to have to be another Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even my mother will be getting more than me. Last year I felt the same as I do this year, emotional.

My ex may have been a shit but he always bought me roses on Valenbollocks. This year again I'll be getting no flowers, no card and no kisses or cuddles.

To me it's just going to have to be another Thursday. "

Valenbollocks!

Love it, can see a gap in the card market there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Even my mother will be getting more than me. Last year I felt the same as I do this year, emotional."

My daughter has already had a red rose and chocolates delivered. *sigh*

Thats more than I used to get when I was blimmin' attached! Its going to be tumbles tomorrow.

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

well my 9 year old son is really upset over ventines day this year he so stressed as he reads that you can sho w some one oyu love them and is really upset as i dont have anyone to love me no one to buy me anyhting he reslly upset about it i had a chat with him and he still upset caught he sleep walking 2 tonight whichis a sigh he upset so valentines is a day for me and son we got some sweetie and we gunna watch vamp movies before he goes to bed to cheer him up but i cant believe that it upset himso much over one comercail day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even my mother will be getting more than me. Last year I felt the same as I do this year, emotional.

My ex may have been a shit but he always bought me roses on Valenbollocks. This year again I'll be getting no flowers, no card and no kisses or cuddles.

To me it's just going to have to be another Thursday.

Valenbollocks!

Love it, can see a gap in the card market there "

Valenbollocks is a Ruby-ism feel free to use it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another day for us, no cards, flowers or chocolates!! Just a normal day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a suprise planned for himself.we allways do somethig for valentine. Cant wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a normal day for us too - the whole thing is a money making excercise - you should be romantic and loving every day - not just when you're told to be so! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

already recieved the best valentines day card ever.. one made by my daughter at nursery

i see nothing wrong with wanting to swing with other people on valentines day.. sex makes a person feel wanted and desired so go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other? "

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys. "
Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Romance for us "

enjoy your romantic day together

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys. "

Pffft got you a special Toblerone too

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I'm going to the movies with a girlfriend (friend who is a girl)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a normal day for us too - the whle thing is a money making excercise - you should be romantic and loving every day - not just when you're told to be so! Z"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys. Agreed "

It's not all about buying cards and gifts, so unsure what Valentines Day means to you guys. For us it means putting that little bit of extra effort in to make each other happy doing things that we dont normally do. Whether its bringing breakfast in bed or just just looking into your partners eyes and telling them that not only do you love them, which is often said, but that you are IN love with them.

Yes, it's commercialised if you let it be, but so is any other 'day', like 'mothers day, a mother is a mother every day so why on the theories mentioned here should we bother or schools encourage children to send their mother or make them a mothers day card?. We can remember our fallen soldiers on any day of the week, so why have a remembrance sunday/poppy day to commemorate it?...see the point I'm trying to make?...It's a 'day' where a little extra effort is made and doesnt have to involve money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys. Agreed

It's not all about buying cards and gifts, so unsure what Valentines Day means to you guys. For us it means putting that little bit of extra effort in to make each other happy doing things that we dont normally do. Whether its bringing breakfast in bed or just just looking into your partners eyes and telling them that not only do you love them, which is often said, but that you are IN love with them.

Yes, it's commercialised if you let it be, but so is any other 'day', like 'mothers day, a mother is a mother every day so why on the theories mentioned here should we bother or schools encourage children to send their mother or make them a mothers day card?. We can remember our fallen soldiers on any day of the week, so why have a remembrance sunday/poppy day to commemorate it?...see the point I'm trying to make?...It's a 'day' where a little extra effort is made and doesnt have to involve money!"

I think a little effort should be made on any day, not just because people are encouraged to do so because it says so on the calendar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get the whole valentines day nonsense. I'm not a married man, nor am I attached but it got me wondering why you would need a whole day devoted to telling your better half you love them. What about the other 364/5 days of the year. Do you just loathe each other?

It's just over priced bollocks! Blokes wandering around wondering what the heck to buy so their other half doesn't have a strop. Women moaning that they didn't get flowers/ cards/ cuddly toys.

Pffft got you a special Toblerone too "

Ooh I got you some ferrero rocher... but it's a surprise....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I bet the blokes will be getting perked up about steak and BJ day.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Grown ups with cuddly toys.... Oh god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im very excited and love Valentines Day. Spreading the lurve all round. 3

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Grown ups with cuddly toys.... Oh god. "

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