FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else put off by user name/message header

By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Anyone else put off by the user name or message heading and delete on that basis ? I mean want railed or me and my pal want to ruin you !! are just some I’ve had

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I see nothing wrong with your username. You're in Edinburgh. You're a woman.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We often delete messages without reading them as we can see their name, their profile pic (or lack of) or can read the first few words.

We are here to meet with likeminded people and so don’t waste our time on messages/profiles that aren’t going to interest us.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Usernames all the time if they're grose

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Usernames all the time if they're grose "

^^ yep this one puts me off

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Usernames all the time if they're grose

^^ yep this one puts me off

I’m just glad she changed it from DeathByDildo

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Usernames all the time if they're grose

^^ yep this one puts me off

Thank fuck for that, you can stop spitting now.....

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

As a general rule if a username includes fanny, moust, ruin, secret or any variation of discreet, the number 69, or just sounds vile to me, I'm probably not even reading the message before sending a no thanks.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Usernames all the time if they're grose

^^ yep this one puts me off

I’m just glad she changed it from DeathByDildo

The batteries ran out that's why

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"As a general rule if a username includes fanny, moust, ruin, secret or any variation of discreet, the number 69, or just sounds vile to me, I'm probably not even reading the message before sending a no thanks."

What about Pussypounder?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

What about Pussypounder?

Maybe I like my pussy pounded

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

What about Pussypounder?

Maybe I like my pussy pounded

Maybe you do

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I like gross usernames if there's a good pun or the like thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like gross usernames if there's a good pun or the like thrown in."

Muff diver?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

To answer seriously for a second OP… because I can be serious sometimes. The only ones that really really put me off contain the word Bull. That’s an instant delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when they've got "fun" in there. I know they won't be my cup of tea because I'm a miserable cow.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah pussypouunder200 or makeyousquirt just isn't for me

(Apologies if these are real usernames actually I'm not sorry)

Mrs

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"I like gross usernames if there's a good pun or the like thrown in.

Muff diver?"

I'm not sure that'd qualify as good

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

The only usernames that put me off have daddy in there somewhere, usernames just make me laugh usually.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"The only usernames that put me off have daddy in there somewhere, usernames just make me laugh usually."

This or dom

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Yeah pussypouunder200 or makeyousquirt just isn't for me

(Apologies if these are real usernames actually I'm not sorry)

Mrs "

I know they’re on your hotlist don’t lie

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Quite often the username is a big no... anyone who mentions ruining anything - no thanks! Anything that sounds crude or derogatory, not for me at all.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met on here and K's single profile name didn't enamour me - if he hadn't sent pics and such an attractive message, we may never have met!

It wasn't anything vulgar, more... a play on disturbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually names referring to giving ladies oral

as I don't like it x

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By *dinburghWoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Thanks all, your replies made me smile and I’ll keep deleting any I don’t like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time! Some of the usernames are grim

And I never knew there were so many trained masseuse out there! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like gross usernames if there's a good pun or the like thrown in.

Muff diver?

I'm not sure that'd qualify as good"

Lol, maybe Dr cunnilingus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/09/23 18:18:18]"

Please tell us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally give them the benefit of the doubt when they message because they could be absolutely lovely and I'd hate to think I'd miss out just because their username or header isn't great. Some people like myself just aren't creative when it comes to that sort of thing.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I don't read username just click on it and read the profile - then delete if blurb practically empty, no pics/ gross pics, or don't meet my criteria.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Using first names is taking a risk, even when it isn't actually your own (which I never really got anyway!). It's a statistical thing that involves strangers and someone you knew. When you know someone even a little bit it just becomes a word again. It's just the first impression. I did actually block someone on FG cos I got fed up of seeing *that* Christian name all the time.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

Yeah I would block people if I didn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I no longer go by BigBallsBarryHeavyCummer69

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Anyone else put off by the user name or message heading and delete on that basis ? I mean want railed or me and my pal want to ruin you !! are just some I’ve had"

Anything with bull, dom, pussy licker, c*nt lover ect get instant delete. I am not after a bull ever, nor a dom as i have one in my partner already. Some user names are cringe worth.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Then my work here is done

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I don't read the username, I go by the message or profile.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Not at all. Its so tongue in cheek really. Do people really take them seriously?!

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"Yeah pussypouunder200 or makeyousquirt just isn't for me

(Apologies if these are real usernames actually I'm not sorry)

Mrs "

Or those that advertise the BBC on here, with which may I add, is illegal to advertise on the BBC

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't read username just click on it and read the profile - then delete if blurb practically empty, no pics/ gross pics, or don't meet my criteria."

And there's that woman, when I see her profile and she's laughing at me, Because I know thaty ex has spoken to her about my prowess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all. Its so tongue in cheek really. Do people really take them seriously?!"

Not taking them remotely seriously. But a bloke in his fifties who thinks cuntlicker is a good name isn't my sort of bloke...

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Not at all. Its so tongue in cheek really. Do people really take them seriously?!

Not taking them remotely seriously. But a bloke in his fifties who thinks cuntlicker is a good name isn't my sort of bloke..."

Mine neither!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not at all. Its so tongue in cheek really. Do people really take them seriously?!

Not taking them remotely seriously. But a bloke in his fifties who thinks cuntlicker is a good name isn't my sort of bloke...

Mine neither!!"

I'm sure someone will find it appealing!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes, a fair few times. Sometimes you think what the hell were they thinking with that one?

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I'm definitely put off by some. Ranging from crude, immature and the odd one dam right vulgar.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"I see nothing wrong with your username. You're in Edinburgh. You're a woman.

Lmao

Nah only put off by constant negative update which result into block

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Is a plainly factual name OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is derived from an awesome Motörhead album and a Woody Allen film, Bananas and my year of birth. Is Mine offensive?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Cute little or wee in the username as 9/10 it's complete lies

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Should say I posted this without looking at comments

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm so glad RoboCock was taken now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so glad RoboCock was taken now"

Hahahahahha

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

Reading

"Yeah pussypouunder200 or makeyousquirt just isn't for me

(Apologies if these are real usernames actually I'm not sorry)

Mrs "

Is he related to a quarter pounder? Very confusing world

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I may smile and have expectations it'll go nowhere but I do frequently appreciate being made to smile at the somewhat clueless forethought

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Usernames I considered but dismissed....

MegathrustTurbocock3000

ClungeLicker

Vagina Miner

GuaranteedToMakeYouOrgasmSoHardYourSisterWillFeelItInTheNextCounty

Piers Morgan's Twin

True Alpha Male

Luckily a fabber gave me a tip and now I'm Salacious D

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By *ndycoinsMan
over a year ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

"kinky". It's anything but.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I've gone for something that's plain and obvious for what I'm looking for..gave up with a previous 'vlad the impeller'..that didn't work, but I was younger and stupider then.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Ps,I'm not young by any means, but I'm definitely stupider

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some yes but not all it's stupidly demanded

Prefer normal if still exists

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