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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Indecisiveness. Starting something and then backing out, repeatedly

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By *lumPuddingCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Syntactically incorrect sentences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smells …

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

Husband walking in

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

She farts

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

You must talk a lot during sex then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he isn't "with me" - he's just going through the motions and it doesn't matter who is there.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Smells definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He looks at his mobile fab page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says he has to go as his wife just called

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

The way someone moans in bed can put you off

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

When they keep looking at themselves in a mirror or wherever they see a reflection of themselves and forget what they should be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The way someone moans in bed can put you off "

If they sound like Barry white yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to be poor hygiene for me.. not sure you'd ever get that far but can you imagine having sex with someone that well doesn't look after themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they ask you multiple times to do something that you’ve said no to

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

When she starts grunting like a truffle pig

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

Leakage/mess during anal, yuk

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Or James brown lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called “daddy”

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By *ickychef1Man
over a year ago

Greenford

Bad hygiene

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When they start to snore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called a good girl.

Silent sex.

Someone who grunts loudly.

Those that think their penis is a pneumatic drill and proceed to attempt to use it as one.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

"Baby"

"Good girl"

Referring to themselves as "Daddy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking me 'which way do you want to do it?' Or 'which way next?' Take charge!

Do it already. Or I'll change it up if I want a change but don't ask me that! ????

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Smelly.

Nagging to do certain things

Dirty talk.

Telling me I should move or something & not just lye there.

Mrs

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

That slurping gagging noise when someone tries to deep throst it’s just comical and makes me have to leave the room for a few minutes generally to laugh / compose myself

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Only recently in a club, it was the noise a couple were making next to us. A squelching noise we can't unhear

, they had to clean up afterwards.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"When they ask you multiple times to do something that you’ve said no to

Probably this

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

He reaches for his phone...

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Sounds, smells, textures/how something feels against my skin - these can all be instant turn ons if I like them but equally ones I do not like are major turn offs like a switch.

Bare feet touching me though

that will also stop everything in it's tracks

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

My wife thinking she can give me an erection by treating my cock as if she's trying to physically pull it from my body.

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By *liceinwanderlust101Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge/London

"When he isn't "with me" - he's just going through the motions and it doesn't matter who is there. "

I’ve terminated meets due to this

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Thr missus walking in on me n her sister and mother

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

If she tries slipping me a cheeky finger

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not happened to me but if I had to jump through "too many hoops" before getting to the bedroom, I'd know it would not be worth it.

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By *appyhippoWoman
over a year ago

coventry

“Daddy” or “good girl” references.

Reaching for their phone!

Silence

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

When he keeps on asking "what do I want" or "Is it ok".

It a massive turn off being asked what do I want in a message let alone when having sex.

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By *athers123Man
over a year ago

Harpenden

When someone scores on match of the day.

When the porn ends

When I wake up and it's a work day

The moment of dawning when I realise how pitiful my sex life is.

Other than that I'm pretty focussed on the task in and to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disinterest. You know what I mean. When you have cum but they haven't and you just can't be bothered to reciprocate. Damn you.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"The way someone moans in bed can put you off

If they sound like Barry white yeah "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she suddenly wakes up

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

unusual discharge from a vagina or penis

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Bad tasting cum.

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By *eartsmanMan
over a year ago

southeast , midlands, southern France

When she says are you in yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called “daddy”

Instant turn off

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By *eelGoodIncMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Completely agree with those that say bad hygiene! Some smells really have no place in the world lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The bag falls off their head

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"When he isn't "with me" - he's just going through the motions and it doesn't matter who is there. "

He's there. He's just trying to name the England Rugby team in his head so he doesn't cum x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Cramp

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Leaving socks on, particularly if they're skanky

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

"The way someone moans in bed can put you off "

For me that's a Turn ON !!! Knowing I'm pleasing her. . . . . . . . . Unless is she faking it ?

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By *omblingFreeCouple
over a year ago

The Village

Things that have put me off in the past are smells (garlic, shit, granny perfume) and the volume of music playing in the background so loud it's no longer just in the background.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Things that have put me off in the past are smells (garlic, shit, granny perfume) and the volume of music playing in the background so loud it's no longer just in the background.

mr"

What's 'granny perfume'? I might be guilty if this

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Spitting.

*Spit*is*not*lube*

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

Men who make zero noise and silently cum.

I enjoy passionate vocalisation

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Good question!

A pet in the room

Eyes closed all the time/no eye contact

Performance style moves

Too much saliva when kissing or during oral

No connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she's posting to tik tok during the deed

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Spitting.

*Spit*is*not*lube*

Oh yes, that is so gross!!!

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

"Bad tasting cum."

Well I eat fresh pineapple regularly as I've read that helps & drink plenty of water *& I Don't smoke or Drink Alcohol but eat plenty of Veg so mind should be good ? But no Woman has tried yet !

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By *unxicanMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Bad smell or only a wank on offer.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Apart from the obvious already mentioned above, if they are mentally elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They aren't interested if i am enjoying it.. some men seem to think that all women like the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High heels and bad smells will kill my sex drive. Those are my two major issues.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

If she goes in to ‘Just have me’ mode; eyes closed, no verbal interaction, a lifeless dummy and I could just be anyone fucking her……

In clubs; loud, inane chatter while you’re playing with someone. Totally off putting….

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Sounds, smells, textures/how something feels against my skin - these can all be instant turn ons if I like them but equally ones I do not like are major turn offs like a switch.

Bare feet touching me though

that will also stop everything in it's tracks

You get them to wear socks to prevent bare feet contact?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Poor hygiene

Laying there like a pudding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor hygiene

Laying there like a pudding"

What kind of pudding? Spotty dick?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

The kind that just lays there and gives absolutely no feedback whatsoever. It’s a two way street!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

An ex of mine started rolling his postcoitus cigarette whilst we was still having sex, that kind of turned me off. Other than that it would just be if they're selfish and paying more attention to just themselves rather than ensuring we're both feeling great together

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By *ilddukeMan
over a year ago

notts

"When he isn't "with me" - he's just going through the motions and it doesn't matter who is there. "

I get you on this one almost like. It's just a chore

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

Stroking my face, I hate it

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

When a woman uses her during or after having sex with me

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Stroking my face, I hate it "

I’d be worried I’d get poked in the eye … some vigorous thrusts and a hand on the face sounds like a recipe for a poke in the eye to me

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Good question!

A pet in the room

Eyes closed all the time/no eye contact

Performance style moves

Too much saliva when kissing or during oral

No connection

Performance style moves … whilst checking themselves out in the mirror

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By *StepsAheadMan
over a year ago

Lancs

"Stroking my face, I hate it

I’d be worried I’d get poked in the eye … some vigorous thrusts and a hand on the face sounds like a recipe for a poke in the eye to me

Haha, i would rather be poked in the eye to be honest

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By *annybrowneyesMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood

The dog comes running in

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

I had an ex that always said I love you during it and not sure why but I hated it. After is fine just hated during

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Uncle bad touch, pulling out a tube of lube

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

The smell of bum

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Sounds, smells, textures/how something feels against my skin - these can all be instant turn ons if I like them but equally ones I do not like are major turn offs like a switch.

Bare feet touching me though

that will also stop everything in it's tracks

You get them to wear socks to prevent bare feet contact?

Well stockings are always the sexy option

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