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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"
marry them simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

You send them daily missives by post decorated with sweet stickers and

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You do a lot of sex.

You do a lot of fun things together.

You kiss. Hug. Hold hands. Rub noses (if so inclined).

But most importantly, you talk. To each other.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Daily dick pics

Be creative and take them in different places each time. You can do a grand tour of all the disabled toilets in your town

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

A regular bumming!

Nothing more intimate than a good bumming…keeps the vibe burning (and their ring) but it’s a tried and tested method.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

The sex, Woody. All the sex.

Mrs TMN x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sex, foreplay, sex, foreplay, mutual masterbation, wank over her tits, sex, oral, hand job, sex, oral, more oral, mutual masterbation, sex, more sex, oral, oral, mutual masterbation, oral, sex, oral, oral, sex, sex, wank over her arse, sex, oral, sex, sex, more sex, oral, more oral & sex.

Mrs

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"Sex, foreplay, sex, foreplay, mutual masterbation, wank over her tits, sex, oral, hand job, sex, oral, more oral, mutual masterbation, sex, more sex, oral, oral, mutual masterbation, oral, sex, oral, oral, sex, sex, wank over her arse, sex, oral, sex, sex, more sex, oral, more oral & sex.

Mrs "

I thought this was a remix of Marilyn Manson for a moment.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Sex, good communication and lots of laughter together. That's what keeps the relationship alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

In next week’s episode, we ask what is the meaning of life?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Keep sucking the cock good.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

In next week’s episode, we ask what is the meaning of life? "

The Sex, obviously

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

By sitting together just talking, laying in each others arms, walking hand in hand, arguing and falling out, doing all the boring admin and chores of daily life, handing a spare loo roll round the door, seeing them looking awful after 24 hours if d and v, supporting each other when horrible stuff happens and sex

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh and kitchen dancing/cuddles.

Mrs

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Memes and sex

LvM

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Memes and sex

LvM"

It is this. And in the absence of the sex, the memes work perfectly alone.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Make your time available

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

•

You make a beeline for the nearest Tiffany™ store and purrr-chase a silver eternity ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

Lock them in the basement so they can't escape.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

Woody, are you asking because you have you found someone or asking for a friend?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"You do a lot of sex.

You do a lot of fun things together.

You kiss. Hug. Hold hands. Rub noses (if so inclined).

But most importantly, you talk. To each other."

This minus the rub noses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

Keep seducing them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Don't ignore them when someone bright and shiny comes along and catches your eye.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

With my long term partner we both know we're sexually compatible.

There's no romance or relationship other than sex and the occasional short text conversation.

It's worked for 13½ years so far.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Memes.

You send ALL the memes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Intimacy isn't only fostered by the good stuff. It's also forged in the worst of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him? "

Nero is adorable. Who can blame Woody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

Nero is adorable. Who can blame Woody? "

But Nero is on the train back to London, so Woody will be heartbroken. That may be his next thread, "How do you mend a broken heart?"

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

Nero is adorable. Who can blame Woody? "

You've met him too? Now I really am feeling left out

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him? "

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

We make time for each other

Connection is brilliant, but if one cannae be arsed to actually make the time, I'll happily let it drift away

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Good for you Woody.

In my experience. You fuck each other senseless stopping only to meet biological necessities.

Eventually, your wardrobe is filled with women's shoes and you never have any socks. If that makes you laugh then she's a keeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

Nero is adorable. Who can blame Woody?

But Nero is on the train back to London, so Woody will be heartbroken. That may be his next thread, "How do you mend a broken heart?""

I'll be sure to look out for it amongst Pickle's many opuses

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

Keep in contact usually helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do a lot of sex.

You do a lot of fun things together.

You kiss. Hug. Hold hands. Rub noses (if so inclined).

But most importantly, you talk. To each other."

All of this Including the noses

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Daily dick pics

Be creative and take them in different places each time. You can do a grand tour of all the disabled toilets in your town "

Nooooooooooo, not the disabled toilets

You learn to accept their foibles and less positive facets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

marry them simples "

.

And after that? Have a baby?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

In next week’s episode, we ask what is the meaning of life? "

…any preview of your thoughts in that. Or should I just start a Faf thread for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"By sitting together just talking, laying in each others arms, walking hand in hand, arguing and falling out, doing all the boring admin and chores of daily life, handing a spare loo roll round the door, seeing them looking awful after 24 hours if d and v, supporting each other when horrible stuff happens and sex "

This should be a leaflet somewhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him? "

Haha. Buy me a drink and I’m anyone’s.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him?

Haha. Buy me a drink and I’m anyone’s. "

I think I read that on the wall in a pub toilet recently. Be careful, you'll get a reputation

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

"

Do you mean constant sex ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm guessing that the social went really well. Have you fallen for Nero, Woody? Before I've even had a chance to meet him? "

What social ?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

marry them simples

.

And after that? Have a baby? "
twins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You trust each other.

And prove to be worthy of each other's trust.

.

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Oh, and bum fun.

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only correct answer here is you share them.

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only correct answer here is you share them.

F"

Sharing is caring right?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"The only correct answer here is you share them.

F

Sharing is caring right? "

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only correct answer here is you share them.

F"

No, you fuck off on holiday and send them to the Manchester social

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Handcuff them to the bed, don't forget to feed them though or they get really grumpy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm actually going to post a rare serious answer here

I think after a few months I've found starting to do other stuff besides the sex actually helps ..

Having a day out together on occasion and getting to know them as a person..

I'm not sure any friendship can survive on the sex alone so sharing quality time together helps ..

And I'm not talking an actual relationship here , just friendship and sex combined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have found someone compatible and made that elusive connection.

How do you maintain intimacy?

Keep seducing them"

This. It's not about seeing them all the time or constant chat. I don't even think it's all about epic sex all the time.

Its about making the effort to always make each other feel desired.

Its about being fully lost in the moments with each other completely, whenever they happen.

Its about little reminders you're thinking of them.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"It’s about little reminders you're thinking of them."

It’s funny you should say that, I was just thinking of you earlier.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe eat 4 Weetabix so you have enough energy

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