FabSwingers.com forum: what would you REALLY want for christmas?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i keep being asked this ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't

What ya want for Christmas honey xxx

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby

keep it simple...ask for socks....

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I can't have what I really want

But a happy, healthy, stress free Christmas would be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes got some new socks fer the party yeah xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I don't

What ya want for Christmas honey xxx

Me 2 front teeth

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"Eyes got some new socks fer the party yeah xxx

oh oh. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not be in debt because its christmas!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New Mattress, and my Dad didn't blink when I told him lol!

Won't say what my son-in-law said lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eyes got some new socks fer the party yeah xxx

oh oh. lol"

Got a prezzie fer you too hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd really like to hear that Santa has met with an awful accident, probably mauled by one of his reindeer, or a 'pitbull type' dog and that he'll never return, thus saving me going into debt once again for another 12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

World peace, an end to poverty and all war - no bad stuff at all - oh - and the biggest diamond available!!!! (shoes too) Z xxx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I'd like all the military I deal with, to come home safe from Afghanistan.

And thats what I really want for as long as we are out there.

*trust me to go all serious and pathetic*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iam with _adchick on this one but also i do a soup kitchen for the homeless christmas day so that aswell to keep then all warm and full up with turkey dinners xzxcx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For someone to cancel it lol... No seriously if it Wasn't for the kids i'd ban it.. I totally hate it as its a bad time of the year for me!

Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He lost his mum! thats why he dont like it

Sammi

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Why DO people ask what you REALLY want for xmas???

Cos anything that you REALLY want there is no way that person is going to be able to provide- unless you really are a fickle materialistic person with no values.

But, the materialistic things can add a little happyness to what we do have, so even tho i personally hate xmas to (my own reasons not just cos its xmas) i dont begrudge others making the most of it and having a good time xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"He lost his mum! thats why he dont like it"

My OH lost his mum in July, they were like glue, always stuck together, I'm under no illusions it will be a difficult period for him as we always had MIL over every Christmas for the last 20 years

I know the pain he's suffering

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"He lost his mum! thats why he dont like it

My OH lost his mum in July, they were like glue, always stuck together, I'm under no illusions it will be a difficult period for him as we always had MIL over every Christmas for the last 20 years

I know the pain he's suffering

Just let him cry and get it off his chest.

MY best buzzy lost his OH last July, found him dead in bed. He came to visit me this July, and i knew i was going to have tears, i just didnt realise how quickly, he had kept himself together for the other people, but started talking about him and how much he missed him and broke down.

He was able to have a drink (or 20) with me that weekend after, so prob a good thing he got it off his chest as soon as he arrived.

Big hugs to you hun, xxxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"i dont begrudge others making the most of it and having a good time xxx"

Neither do I, we can't carry everyone's suffering / pain on our shoulders

we ahve to make the best of what WE have

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"i dont begrudge others making the most of it and having a good time xxx

Neither do I, we can't carry everyone's suffering / pain on our shoulders

we ahve to make the best of what WE have

indeed xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Big hugs to you hun, xxxx"

Life can be very cruel when we least expect it, the art is not to allow events to scar us

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

To meet Santa of course!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"To meet Santa of course!!

He don't like meeting people

he prefers to remain anonymous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He lost his mum! thats why he dont like it

My OH lost his mum in July, they were like glue, always stuck together, I'm under no illusions it will be a difficult period for him as we always had MIL over every Christmas for the last 20 years

I know the pain he's suffering

his mum died 21 years ago but he still not come to terms with it being an only child he was a proper mummys boy from what he's told me! i still love him to bits tho.. an he does make the effort for the kis sake

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"To meet Santa of course!!

He don't like meeting people

he prefers to remain anonymous

Well i hope he is coming to see ME SOOOOON!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"Big hugs to you hun, xxxx

Life can be very cruel when we least expect it, the art is not to allow events to scar us

There are many suffering this year due to one event or another - and my heart goes out to all of them/you.

I feel lucky this year that i am having a quiet xmas on my own, wine and telly and baaaaaaaaad food.

Not coming out til i have to go to work again= and let everyone else do all the talking about what a fab xmas they had - they usually dont notice that you dont add your own tuppence worth. x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"his mum died 21 years ago but he still not come to terms with it"

that's a hell of a long time to be carrying emotional pain

there are experts in bereavement counselling out there willing to help

you're under no obligation and I'm not offended if you don't, but if you need contact details feel free to PM me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Christmas is a very hard time of year for many people for many reasons. I personally hate christmas have done most of my life and more so last ten years. When my son was young and right up until he left home i made every christmas as special for him as i could and then i used to cry my silent tears alone. Since he has left home i no longer have to pretend. I have no tree or anything else up, i dont want people to get into debt to buy presents and id sooner spend time with friends and family through out the year because i want to and they want to and not because "its christmas". People are always doing so much "because its christmas".

Personally id like to see christmas celebrated for families with children aged 16 and under and thats it

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

You know why we can't make the meet on Sunday

"i am having a quiet xmas on my own, wine and telly and baaaaaaaaad food"

We should have our own 3sum

social event!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"You know why we can't make the meet on Sunday

i am having a quiet xmas on my own, wine and telly and baaaaaaaaad food

We should have our own 3sum

social event!

Now that could be a good plan

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"and then i used to cry my silent tears alone"

O diamond

that touched me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"and then i used to cry my silent tears alone

O diamond

that touched me

lol sometimes not good to be on here at this time of night, you tend to say things you wouldnt normally say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and then i used to cry my silent tears alone

O diamond

that touched me

lol sometimes not good to be on here at this time of night, you tend to say things you wouldnt normally say"

couldn't agree more!

Billy

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"lol sometimes not good to be on here at this time of night, you tend to say things you wouldnt normally say"

Bear in mind, you've now moved on from that period diamond

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"lol sometimes not good to be on here at this time of night, you tend to say things you wouldnt normally say

Bear in mind, you've now moved on from that period diamond

With my son yes but the other fear is always with me and will never go as its something that is current and will remain current

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"With my son yes but the other fear is always with me and will never go as its something that is current and will remain current"

I'll say this in the hope it may help you diamond, and them I'm going to stop being serious

It's within you to control the issues, don't allow them to control you, you must remain in control, the mind can and does play games with us if allowed.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"With my son yes but the other fear is always with me and will never go as its something that is current and will remain current

I'll say this in the hope it may help you diamond, and them I'm going to stop being serious

It's within you to control the issues, don't allow them to control you, you must remain in control, the mind can and does play games with us if allowed."

Ive just pmed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"iam with _adchick on this one but also i do a soup kitchen for the homeless christmas day so that aswell to keep then all warm and full up with turkey dinners xzxcx

You are a thoroughly decent person to give up your Christmas to help those not so fortunate. I applaud you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He lost his mum! thats why he dont like it

Sammi

xx"

I would not rest easy if my children despised Christmas because I died at that time of year. I'd think I'd left them such a sad legacy if that's how it panned out. I'd much prefer them to remember the Christmases I was able to share with them. It's the cycle of life to die before ones children and the true meaning of life is to leave a part of you behind, in them, when you go. I don't mean the genes and bad habits, but the traditions you value and the way you tackle life is what our children should gain from us, enabling them, hopefully, to pass it on to their children, and thus life goes on and, in some small way, we become immortal.

I have 3 baubles that my grandmother used to hang on her tree that now hang on mine, I also have a few things from my own mum's tree that also hang on mine and when the times comes they'll go to my daughter to hang on hers. My ancestors are with me everytime I get them down from the loft and put it up with my children helping me. That's what Christmas means to me.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"I have 3 baubles that my grandmother used to hang on her tree that now hang on mine, I also have a few things from my own mum's tree that also hang on mine and when the times comes they'll go to my daughter to hang on hers. My ancestors are with me everytime I get them down from the loft and put it up with my children helping me. That's what Christmas means to me.

Now that has made me cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aston Martin DB9, getting fed up with the Vanquish

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Like _riendlyfunfem, I can't have what I really want for Christmas, but hun, you knowin your heart of hearts, you will be being thought of.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't want a lot for Christmas

There is just one thing I need

3 fit lads and one large bed

and I will be in ecstasy

I just want them on my own

More than you could ever know

Make my wish come true...

All I want for Christmas is rude

I don't want a lot for Christmas

There is just one thing I need

hard and willing throbbing willies

but not so big they make me bleed

I won’t dress them in my stockings

When I’m sitting on their face

Santa Claus won't make me happy

But 3 fit lads, now that is ace

I just want them for my own

More than a couple of hours or so

Make my wish come true

All I want for Christmas is rude

Oh I won't ask for much this Christmas

I won't even wish for snow

I'm just wanna keep on taking

in every position I know

I won't make a list and send it

To the North Pole for Saint Nick

He’s too old and lives too far

and hear he’s got a tiny dick

'Cause I want fit guys here tonight

Holding on me down oh so tight

And they’ll know what to do

Baby all I want for Christmas is rude

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I love that song and I love it even more now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"World peace, an end to poverty and all war - no bad stuff at all - oh - and the biggest diamond available!!!! (shoes too) Z xxx"

MMMMMM do you think this might be some sort of hint to me lol

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that Christmas to me is a time of true joyful emotions. As a child we had amazing Christmas's, my parents went out of their way to make it special, not with lavish gifts or lots of money being spent, but as my Dad worked long long hours it was always a true 'family' time, they made it magical and I loved it.

I lost my Mum when I was 17, and since then as the oldest daughter in the family I kind of took on the mantle of making Christmas special, the same since I had my own children.

Even now, I don't spend a fortune on my kids never have. It's not about how much you spend or how lavish the gifts are, they enjoy the fact that for once in the year we all make an effort to just be together, with PC's in bedrooms and friends etc etc, Christmas is really the only time that we honestly spend a couple of days in just eachothers company doing all the daft things like playing charades and having a bit to drink, and far too much to eat ............

I always have loved it and always will

xxx

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