FabSwingers.com forum: Meets without face pic first

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another thread was saying everyone wants a face pic first, and most especially women, seem to be in agreement.

I'm wondering would you, or have you, met without seeing a face pic first?

I have and I must admit some have been the best meets I've had, yet if I'd seen a face pic first I'd probably have said no. But I chatted with them first and got on and there was an attraction, so when it came to the meet the actual first thoughts on looks didn't matter.

I've also met a guy a few times and still no idea what he looks like (hooded meet) and the sex was amazing.

Interested to hear similar experiences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I have numerous times and I enjoy the anticipation.

In fact I've gone on a completely blind meet with a woman who had a hidden profile. It's still the best meet I've had since I joined fab

Hey messages were so eloquent I knew I had to meet her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, I'm no oil painting myself. But for me attraction whilst not purely based on looks, does play it's own part... Especially in regards to basing it on sex vs a deeper connection. I'm not going to hop into bed with someone just based on their cock "

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, my time is precious and I'm not wasting it on someone I've zero attraction to.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have numerous times and I enjoy the anticipation.

In fact I've gone on a completely blind meet with a woman who had a hidden profile. It's still the best meet I've had since I joined fab

Hey messages were so eloquent I knew I had to meet her. "

Love this, I think you can have a connection without know what someone looks like x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, my time is precious and I'm not wasting it on someone I've zero attraction to.

Mrs "

I was attracted but in other ways, looks were unknown x

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Done it a couple of times once hooded and once bit of a blind meet found both to be exciting

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"No, my time is precious and I'm not wasting it on someone I've zero attraction to.

Mrs

I was attracted but in other ways, looks were unknown x"

Doesn't work like that for me I need the full lot, physical and mental attraction.

Mrs

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We dont meet without face pics

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By *izzler123Man
over a year ago

Norwich

I never share face pictures and most of the time everything has been good.... you can say no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x"

I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum

unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO

to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since

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By *XZRMan
over a year ago

Highland

Fuuuuck that. Reversing out of the meet like a double decker hitting the tour de France peleton. Agreed you need to hit it off personality wise but still require a standard of face. Nice eyes and smiles are my weakness after all.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x

I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum

unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO

to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since

"Please post a video of you showering in the last 12hrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have been on meets without knowing who I am meeting with the ex wife. There were occasions when participants were bystanders just passing through.

I personally would not meet anyone without a face pic. Blackheads are hardly attractive.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Yes I do this often. I used to have pictures but someone started using them so deleted them. It seems to work for me and have met some lovely people from here. I do show my cock on cam and have verifies of what do in meets. I am perhaps lucky and sometimes it takes many months to meet. I understand those who need pictures before meets.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I've never asked for a face pic.

I've met people without needing one, because I found them interesting and attractive enough that the face was pretty irrelevant, though definitely didn't turn out to be an unattractive one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x

I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum

unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO

to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since

Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Quite a few people have met us without seeing our faces. None of them have run away...yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not do it. Imagine if it was someone you knew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x

I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum

unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO

to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since

Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic

Can't know their personality properly online either though?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't contemplate a meet without a face pic first! X

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We do chatter with people first and see if there is a connection and send face pics if it appears to feel right so I doubt we would meet with it however I get what you are saying as personality is a lot of the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I hadn't seen their cock either

It was based on personality I guess x

I had an online thing with someone for a year... I thought the sun shines out of their bum

unfortunately when we actually met in person they literally honked of BO

to the point I suggested they showered before we engaged in sex... So nope, it's definitely a looks, attraction, must know their way around a bar of soap deal for me since

Haha, but you can't smell them on a pic

Can't know their personality properly online either though?

Nope thata true. Often can't in person either tho x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A guy was saying in a thread the other day that you can't tell if a woman is beautiful unless you've seen her face. Lots agreed with him

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope, but I've chatted with some without any pictures until later and it did definitely surprise me in a positive way. Few still remain as friends off the site and few have left the site and found a relationship sadly didn't get the opportunity before hand but extremely happy that they've found happiness...

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Nope I wouldn't. Anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. I wouldn't participate in that in a club or other scenario either. Being desired and desiring the person I'm being intimate with is such a turn on to me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"A guy was saying in a thread the other day that you can't tell if a woman is beautiful unless you've seen her face. Lots agreed with him"

I agree with that. You can find someone attractive without them being classically beautiful. And I know some beautiful people who won't be winning any actual beauty contests.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I'm happy to meet soically without a face photo and it's rare I ask for one while chatting.

I have a memory for faces like a sieve though so they don't matter that much to me.

But for anything more it has to be a face that I want to kiss and look at

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m currently talking to someone who has never seen my face or even requested a photo. I know what he looks like as he displays his photo on his profile. Not arranged to meet at this stage. He says he’s attracted to personality and has never been disappointed by someone he has met blindly yet. I do wonder if it’s a case of every hole is a goal though..or should I believe it?

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Need a face pic first. Gotta know if I'm attracted to them

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope we wouldn't ,

Looks aren't everything,but there does have to be an attraction for us & without pics ,we wouldn't know if that was there .

Its the face I have to like over anything else too.

Miss

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"Nope I wouldn't. Anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. I wouldn't participate in that in a club or other scenario either. Being desired and desiring the person I'm being intimate with is such a turn on to me "

That's a big thing for me too.

Marc

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

How are you supposed to recognise them when you meet? You might end up having coffee with some random.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How are you supposed to recognise them when you meet? You might end up having coffee with some random. "

Well that could be fun lol

I've met on car meet, arranged a place and both known each others cars, pretty hard to get mixed up.

Guy I met hooded I went to hotel, gsve him room number and let him in. It was arranged by a mutual friend who we both fully trusted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy was saying in a thread the other day that you can't tell if a woman is beautiful unless you've seen her face. Lots agreed with him"

On a share a face pic thread, a guy told me he was surprised to see my face was beautiful like my body because that’s a massive fear, and happens loss here. Nice body, not so nice face.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

In the days of the personals, with Bargain Pages yes.

I met the hubby who brought his video camera with him. Asked me if I liked his wife and then gave me his address and I drove over for, as it turned out. A no touching evening.

Though his wife could sit on my lap naked, while he took some pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a wonderfully sexy woman from fab without a pic and very little in the way of profile but she messaged first which was unusual so we arranged a meet and the rest is history

We met in winter 2020 and were amazing FWB’s

daft to say that although she moved back to Hungary we’re still friends and the reason for my trip to Budapest

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't meet very often and haven't actually met anyone new in over 3 years but when I was a facepic was never important.

I chat for weeks before meeting socially and as I just posted in the other thread, I don't expect to have sex with everyone I meet.

In fact most of my social meets I have known beforehand that it would be a coffee and a chat and nothing more so how that person looks is irrelevant.

By the time I meet someone I have been chatting long enough to know they are someone I would enjoy spending an hour or so taking to face to face.

I have met without exchanging facepics but again I only ever meet socially first time so I only need to know what they look like so I can pick them out in a crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there has been a significant exchange of messages prior to a meet then I don't always ask/insist on a face pic first.

If it's spontaneous then I will insist. Havn't always in the past but certainly do now.

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I like the idea of meeting someone following a message exchange, but not having seen their face first, ads a bit more excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there has been a significant exchange of messages prior to a meet then I don't always ask/insist on a face pic first.

If it's spontaneous then I will insist. Havn't always in the past but certainly do now."

Agree with every word you said mate. Have to be chatting for a good while first

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By *ookingforfunin2021Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I’ve done it in the past but not for a long time; and when it has happened it’s been to help fulfil a fantasy of there’s, normally around fucking a stranger or forced meet fantasy

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By *enAndReginaCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t share face pics. There are some that will only meet.

We meet people at socials (either organised events of in the lobby of a hotel).

Will also add that meeting in person socially doesn’t mean that we are definitely fucking. We and the other parties can say no at any point.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I'd be tempted I've done blind dates with success so can't see it going wrong with a blind fuck date lol providing there's some attraction with the chat

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I wouldn't meet without swapping pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet without seeing on and I'm happy to send one myself

If I message someone first, male or female, i will always attach a few onto my message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet is always a social. They send a face pic, I don't.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Meh, I put mine on my profile saves the hassle, and no, I wouldn’t do a “blind date”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, I could never meet anyone without first seeing their picture, call me shallow but I wouldn't even entertain it, I need to at least know I am attracted to the person before wasting both our times.

Danish x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, never have, never would. That would just be incredibly awkward if there were no attraction.

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

I'd definitely have answered no, like so many, but I did accidentally have a meet without swapping face pics and hugely enjoyed it. There was nothing deliberate about it; we got chatting and met without thinking about it. Only occurred to me a day before that we'd not swapped photos. At that stage it was a fun prospect, turning up on the basis of having enjoyed chatting to someone, and since the date was a social I think we both thought we didn't give a damn if we didn't fancy each other. As it happened, we did.

Having done it once & enjoyed it (as perhaps people occasionally say in other circumstances), I'd be entirely happy to do it again.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We had pics copied and distributed so for privacy reasons we don’t like to share face pics. We’ve found you can’t trust face pics too. Some are 20 years old, some are touched up.

We’ve met quite a few people with no face pics. It’s just a social. We chat like human beings with a common interest. We go away and if everyone was fine then arrange a play meet for a later date. Even if we exchanged pics the first date would only be a social anyway. Blind dates are fun.

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By *weetHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We do not send face pics. We only meet at Chams without pre arranging ( unless you're a favourite

) or on hols in PDI. We then keep in touch with people on the site if things progress. We have made many long term " friends " doing it our way so it works for us.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Not a chance. I've met a few even with face pics.

Pleasant meets everyone of them but I would say a few of them should have been done under the Trade Description Act.

Going in blind and you are either going to be massively surprised either way.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We had pics copied and distributed so for privacy reasons we don’t like to share face pics. We’ve found you can’t trust face pics too. Some are 20 years old, some are touched up.

This is true, I've had face pics sent then when met they looked nothing like pic! And I did up and leave haha x

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Yeah I have had some anon meets with no faces shared. Quite hot when it works out

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have a couple times in the past. If I'm just having a coffee then it doesn't matter.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Nope. Wouldn't even consider it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont give out face pics we were on melanies a few years back we did send face pics. then to our horror we found our pics on another site if your going to send face just be careful. Karen

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope, never would. Sorry attraction is key.

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