FabSwingers.com forum: How are they?

By *anJack25 OP Man
over a year ago

Nantwich

People post they are adventurous but don’t seem to be up for a lot it seems lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People post they are adventurous but don’t seem to be up for a lot it seems lol"

Their adventure is not yours. Simples.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Why are they not?

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By *anJack25 OP Man
over a year ago

Nantwich

Just makes me laugh, they say they are up for anything then suggest something as tame as taking some pictures and they run a mile, can’t imagine if someone suggested something really extreme ????????

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The act of taking pictures isn't extreme in itself in my opinion. People often don't want others taking their pictures for reasons of discretion and because although I'm sure you are, not everyone is trustworthy.

Also one person's adventurous is another persons mundane

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Just makes me laugh, they say they are up for anything then suggest something as tame as taking some pictures and they run a mile, can’t imagine if someone suggested something really extreme ????????"

People may have interests listed or specifics mentioned in the profiles.

It doesn't mean they want to do those things with everyone.........

People are strange. They have this ability to make personal choices about what they like to do, when they're in the mood for something in particular.....and most importantly of all....who they'd be happy to do a specific thing with.

Trust me. It's not a 'them' issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a relative stranger take and possess compromising photos of you in sexual poses?

Hmmm yeah crazy, what’s their fucking problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How have you managed the heavily filtered pic?

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I have a whip and brown Fedora...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want some random taking pics of me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Taking photos is hardly adventurous, as much as I like erotic photography I won't do it with any tom dick and Harry.

I like my privacy.

Mrs

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I love taking pictures. I'm happy for my partners to take pictures. Complete strangers taking compromising photos? No thank you

Big fan of BDSM, with the right people. If someone approaches me for the first time telling me that's what they want they can fuck off. I'm not a fetish dispenser. I'm not doing things that require trust and understanding with someone I've never spoken to before and I don't want to get to know them if that's their only goal.

I like sex. I like sex with several people. I don't like sex with just anyone.

Maybe I'm not adventurous enough. But I'm having a fucking great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they just don’t wanna be adventurous with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I'm adventurous.

As for photos, not everyone can be trusted so it's only a select few people I allow to take photos. I value my privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be tame to you but not to the person wanting pics taken as I know I wouldn’t again as I’ve done that before then the guy threatened to put them over the internet

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe just not with you. I have to build trust before I can be adventurous.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It may be tame to you but not to the person wanting pics taken as I know I wouldn’t again as I’ve done that before then the guy threatened to put them over the internet

Luckily that's a crime now.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t allow photos / vids unless they want to bring Passport ID and sign my model releases / 2257 compliance paperwork

. Usually stops the idea dead in its tracks

Plus then I have to give them a crash course in how to actually take flattering usable photos / frame videos /stabilise handheld shots if doing POV ,

Yeah this is not adventurous at all

why I never want to do pics with randoms on sex hookup sites like fab .. this is just for fun not stressing out over pointless pics etc

I just want to have some no brain sex times and get on with my day after .

Adventurous would be many things but people wanting privacy from not allowing pics is not that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so because they dont want to do your bidding they are tame. Ok mate

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Ah so because they dont want to do your bidding they are tame. Ok mate

Exactly. Like I'm frigid because I only fuck people I want and not every disembodied penis in my inbox

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Define adventurous.

Lots of explorers and adventurers went to jungles, but they didn't go mountain climbing.

Ones adventure is another person's idea of hell.

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