FabSwingers.com forum: Everyone wants face pic

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.

I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.

But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Supply and demand basically.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

[Removed by poster at 08/09/23 22:40:33]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

People can ask for what they want.

It’s not an unreasonable request to want to be attracted to a person before deciding to carry on conversation.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Nice repky

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I don't include mine on public pics because despite not having them public, we still get guys trying to identify me from my naked arse and tits from behind. Weymouth is a small town and I don't need to encourage creeps!

We send face photos back straight away if we ask for them, if not before x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

People can ask for what they want.

It’s not an unreasonable request to want to be attracted to a person before deciding to carry on conversation.

This is the way!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems reasonable to me. I always send one.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Nice repky

Click on 'reply and quote' then people know who you are responding to and have some context of your reply

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Ok, Actually few times I sent mine and didn't get one in return and just ignored after reading the message.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."

We never ask for them right away, but it definitely doesn't hurt when people do send them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send fave pics, and like one from who I am chatting to first before I send mine. Had quite a few meets where not had a face pic first, also some when I still don't know what guy who fucked me look like, just know he was good

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."

Talking for a bit then see a pic and theres no attraction just wastes time..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."

But why talk for a bit, share personal information, get hopes up, then share photos.......no attraction, all wasted time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, Actually few times I sent mine and didn't get one in return and just ignored after reading the message."

It’s simple.

They decided they weren’t attracted to you. End of conversation.

How would a face pic from them change that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody females and couples and their .. *checks notes* .. desire to fancy the person fucking them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."

Women have oodles of choice. If you want ant chance of success, you have to "play the game".

If your message and profile don't spark interest, you won't get a reply.

Profiles with no avatar photo or that are cock focused, are very often ignored.

Nita

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

In short, no.

You can always refuse to send one and only interact with those with their face visible on the profile.

Simple really, and good luck.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I were to message someone first I'd attach a photo of my face, because facial attraction is so important to 99% of men on this site.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I rarely come across this, to be honest.

Why does no one want my face pic??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I rarely come across this, to be honest.

Why does no one want my face pic??

Yours is pasted on our bedroom ceiling so I have something to stare at as I drift off to sleep

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.

At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.

At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice."

You have no experience of a single woman's inbox. A polite no often leads to.... why not ...give me a chance.....let's just have a drink .....multiply that by ten/twenty a day at least......then come the insults....I didn't really want to meet you anyway you fat cow.......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.

At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice."

I think you need to read the FAQs. No response = no interest. It also reduces the likelihood of nasty responses to the uninterested woman.

Nita

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I rarely come across this, to be honest.

Why does no one want my face pic??

Yours is pasted on our bedroom ceiling so I have something to stare at as I drift off to sleep

*Insert Crimewatch "don't have nightmares" gif*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.

At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice.

I can understand the tsunami of messages, but when someone says no to me, I usually reply with " it's ok, I can understand and happy fabbing x"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I rarely come across this, to be honest.

Why does no one want my face pic??

Yours is pasted on our bedroom ceiling so I have something to stare at as I drift off to sleep

*Insert Crimewatch "don't have nightmares" gif*

I am a masochist

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Just say no.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

To be fair, I need to find someone attractive before any play can occur, so as to NOT waste time I ask for one. If that person is not my cup of tea, then I polity tell them no thanks.

As I would someone to say to me who didn't fancy me.

I cant just have sex with anyone it would be dryer than the Sahara down there!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

As I would expect someone to say to me..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody knows the rules of the fab game. Quid pro quo!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

Some people just read message don't even reply or delete the message.

At least saying you are not my type or deleting the message will be nice.

I can understand the tsunami of messages, but when someone says no to me, I usually reply with " it's ok, I can understand and happy fabbing x""

But most don't, most do not take a polite no for an answer, then sometimes the insults follow.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"

No, it's not too much to ask. People can ask for whatever they want. You don't have to comply.

I personally think there's a difference between sending a face pic in a msg and having one on your public profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.

I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.

But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"

Saves a lot of back and forth with someone you don't feel sexually attracted to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unnyhunnyWoman
over a year ago

Forest of Dean

I totally get it..it says in my profile if I don't respond please take it as a thanks but no...if I'm expected to respond to everyone I'd be on here all day...plus I think even a no thanks response gives a sense of hope...I've had non responses...do I cry and get shitty...no I move on like a proper adult..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fussy who I send mine to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some need to be discreet, personally if we can talk and be genuine il take a face picture there and then then bit outside lives and professions can be a factor

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are thousands of people here. Use preferences that don't match yours to filter people out.

They have likely learned from their experience here, how to improve things and make fab work better for them OP - you can guide people too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants a face pic. They just want to make sure they don't already know you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

If I send a first message to a well verified profile, I send a face pic.

If a profile messaged me first, I expect the same.

Whole site is pointless for me without face pics so pointless wasting time .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Majority of ppl meet based on mutual attraction.

if you`re sending a message first,it`s a little hard to tell if you`d want to meet someone based on words.If they`ve no face pics on profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"No one wants a face pic. They just want to make sure they don't already know you.

Um, I want a face pic. Alice is at least as interested in the cock pics, but I (Jack) need to see the face to know if I want to meet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one wants a face pic. They just want to make sure they don't already know you.

Um, I want a face pic. Alice is at least as interested in the cock pics, but I (Jack) need to see the face to know if I want to meet."

This is also true at the time. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone want face pic in first message while they don't have face pic in their profile.

I know female and couple have far more options and messages then single guys.

But isn't it too much to ask for face pic in first message while not willing to put their in profile.?"

personally who ever is initiating the conversation should be sending the face picture (our opinion), no offence but wheres the point in chatting for ages if theres no attraction! we tend to have upto date face pictures in private to send to whoever we like (nothing worse than an old picture as people can change alot!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank"

because some people wont fuck anything with a pulse perhaps?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank

because some people wont fuck anything with a pulse perhaps?"

Frank

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then if ur real just send a direct???????

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I totally get it..it says in my profile if I don't respond please take it as a thanks but no...if I'm expected to respond to everyone I'd be on here all day...plus I think even a no thanks response gives a sense of hope...I've had non responses...do I cry and get shitty...no I move on like a proper adult.."

This, people of all types on fab face rejection! Just because there are chaps who would fuck us regardless of attraction, doesn't mean we have it easy on here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's completely different asking for a face pic privately and posting one as a public photo.

If your not happy sending one then that profile just isn't for you.

Personally I'd like to swap face pics quickly, time is precious & if there's no attraction I don't want to spend ages making conversation to then say no thanks.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eally_RosieWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No.

People can ask for what they want.

It’s not an unreasonable request to want to be attracted to a person before deciding to carry on conversation.

Exactly this xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Face pics are over rated, all the cool kids are going in blind these days

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I was planning to meet someone and then something important came up two days before meet.

I apologized and still send a face pic just not to be rude.

OP so you arranged a meet without exchanging face pics ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have jobs in private sector so don't want their pictures everywhere..

Plus I think attraction has to be there...if the chat continues then you can always swap photos etc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?

Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?

Really?

This isn't a 'woman/couple' issue. It's the fact that some men will happily look to arrange a complete blind date, message for a while, set up a meet, and when the day comes and they finally get sent a photo they ghost the sender because they don't find them attractive.

Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?

Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?

Really?

Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier. "

Making life easy, wtf Obi, it's fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

I've no problem sending a face picture and I expect the person asking to send first and if they decline I'm happy to move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?

Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?

Really?

Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier. "

Because any holes a goal right, regardless of whether they have a face like a smashed up kebab.

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do men always moan that women and couples want to see a face pic before continuing a conversation or looking to meet?

Do those men not actually care what the person/people they're talking to look like?

Really?

Get the question answered early folks. It makes life so much easier.

Because any holes a goal right, regardless of whether they have a face like a smashed up kebab.

Mrs "

*drools*

Kebabs! Breakfast! Hungry!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nah...I want to see if I like him first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

On the profile and available to anyone is different to sending one in a private message.

If you're approaching women and couples they already have a hundred faceless options with only dick pics on show, some people are into that, most will want to know if they find the rest of the person attractive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Like a face pic early on as to know weather there is an attraction! Mine are allways on profile ! Try do new ones at least weekly x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yaanMumtaz OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank"

Thank you.

The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.

They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.

90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.

What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank

Thank you.

The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.

They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.

90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.

What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."

I don’t owe you a reply because you’ve sent a face pic.

That’s a disgusting sense of entitlement.

You send face pics cos you want to up your chances of people being interested and most on here will only meet with mutual attraction.

If I’m not attracted I don’t owe you a reply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re gonna have to get over it dude!

It’s the fab way, and no amount of whining will change that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank

Thank you.

The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.

They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.

90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.

What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."

Do some people really think if you have dick pics then a face pic isn't required? Do some people not recognise sarcasm?

People ask for a face pic to see if they find you attractive. If they don't most will not reply or block you. Would you prefer to be told you're not found attractive so you can then ask why not and for them to say they think you're an ugly fucker?

Frank

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I'm in agreement with the OP. Why do folk demand a face pic when they've perfectly good cock pics to look at?

Frank

Thank you.

The fact I don't like is us guy don't get messages as much woman and couple do.

They ask for face pic and then just like tinder swip left swipe right without even showing theirs.

90 percent will send pic and don't gwt one back just ignorance.

What I am saying is, they have more option obviously but don't just ignore someone after they even send face pic."

I am howling at the obliviousness to sarcasm there

OP, if you don't want to send a face pic, don't. Just move on to a more compatible profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

My kind or woman !!!face is nice but doesn’t mean they are a good fuck !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eigh2019TV/TS
over a year ago

Chingford

Mhats not to love about chatting to a black silhouette .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just don't message those who ask for a face pic in a first message if you're not comfortable to do so.

People are entitled to ask for a face pic ,but you don't have to comply.

People who get loads of mail use it as a filter though,to save them time.

Miss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dinburghWomanWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If I were to message someone first I'd attach a photo of my face, because facial attraction is so important to 99% of men on this site.

"
- not in my experience or was that sarcasm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for a face pic when I am meeting. But men still send them and expect one in return. If I want to chat to someone I will show my face when I want to, not when they want me to. I accept some men may no longer want to chat. Men could make the same call.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe I just use this site differently to a lot of people but generally I don't share a facepic unless I have already arranged to meet someone and it's only so we will recognise each other in the coffee shop.

I don't expect to have sex with everyone I chat to and I don't expect to have sex with everyone I meet so physical attraction isn't a priority.

I have often met people socially while knowing in advance that it was never going to go beyond a coffee but by that stage I had built up a rapport and was content to meet just as friends.

As I've said many times on here before, my facepic and personal details have been shared by other people with their own agenda so I am even less inclined to swap pics with anyone.

If they have an issue with that it doesn't bother me and they are free to chat to those who are willing to exchange them but it has never really affected my fab journey.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Yes, but at least they should also give one then. Or at least talk for a bit and ask for face picture."
I would always send a face photo with a first message. If someone turns you down only after you send a face photo... you know its how you look....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread