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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just

Mainly one for the guys but I know there’s a couple of ladies that like to comment as well…

So fabbers, do you prefer ladies that are slimmer or curvier? I’m not going to define, use your own imagination as to what differentiates. A simple answer will be plenty

For the record, I prefer curvy

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Curvier for sure

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We both love a great set of curves

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Curves

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Slim women can be curvy

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

curvy

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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just


"Slim women can be curvy"

No definition, use your imagination and make a call Mod

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Slim like me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Slim women can be curvy

No definition, use your imagination and make a call Mod"

Ok. Slim

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Do mean curvy or fat? All women are curvy

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Curvy

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Slim with curves obviously

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

All women are curvy slim ones included.

If I like the person I'll like the body.

Mrs

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

both,,

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like a nice hip to waist ratio more than a straight up and down on a purely aesthetic level in general.

But, I've found some straight up and down people very sexy too.

It's more about who they are than how much weight they're carrying.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Mainly one for the guys but I know there’s a couple of ladies that like to comment as well…

So fabbers, do you prefer ladies that are slimmer or curvier? I’m not going to define, use your own imagination as to what differentiates. A simple answer will be plenty

For the record, I prefer curvy"

They're not mutually exclusive, in fact quite often they go hand in hand.

Did you really mean fat instead of curvy?

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford

Slim

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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just


"Do mean curvy or fat? All women are curvy"

No definition, use your own judgement and make a call…the original post is very clear

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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just


"Mainly one for the guys but I know there’s a couple of ladies that like to comment as well…

So fabbers, do you prefer ladies that are slimmer or curvier? I’m not going to define, use your own imagination as to what differentiates. A simple answer will be plenty

For the record, I prefer curvy

They're not mutually exclusive, in fact quite often they go hand in hand.

Did you really mean fat instead of curvy? "

I meant that the distinction isn’t defined and that you should use your own imagination and make a decision

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do mean curvy or fat? All women are curvy

No definition, use your own judgement and make a call…the original post is very clear"

If it was clear people wouldn't be asking.

Mrs

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By *eff1961Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Love curvy girls with sexy big bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy all the way

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

curvey

although recently i like a nice slim lady with small pert breasts

they usually have fleshy pussies mmmm

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Argh! Slim people can have curves!

It's not an either/or.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always got to be curvy

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I take this to mean firm or squidgy.

I prefer firm but that doesn't mean I don't like to bury myself in a lady's softee parts.

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do prefer slimmer "racing snake" types myself, but it doesn't ultimately define if I find a woman sexy or not.

Mr R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love slim.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Slim women can be curvy"

I hear this and that is exactly my type

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

And there it is... cant just say something pleasant but got to body shame...

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Slim women can be curvy"

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

All ladies have there merits . I do love a larger lady but there are some pretty impressive and very sexy slim ladies on here especially the ones covered with ink, piercings etc

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

ewww

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you offered loads of guys a complimentary women with huge melons and a waist like a wrist watch I'm sure they'd order Slim if that was the label on the box picture. pt

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s mood depending, but I like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

By the sounds of it wonko, you struggle to get either.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

Slim women aren't for men then?

Mrs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt"

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

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By *ilddukeMan
over a year ago

notts

I love all of different sizes

Beautiful south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP who threw it? You? It's at a 4 at the moment but you knew it's gonna get to an 8. Is that why you chose your words carefully...I'm not going to define... so you can run in, throw it and run back out?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"OP who threw it? You? It's at a 4 at the moment but you knew it's gonna get to an 8. Is that why you chose your words carefully...I'm not going to define... so you can run in, throw it and run back out?

"

Well he is _xtremelynaughty.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Does it matter if he means curvy or fat. Women can still be attractive if they’re fat.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

To be honest, it's a flipping nightmare with terms on here. If going by different threads, some larger women, don't like the term BBW (hell there are discussions what size that they're supposed to be), others don't like the word large as it's not the opposite of slim, ample what is that size exactly? And this has left out the midsize beauties? The OP was going to annoy somebody regardless of terminology.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Does it matter if he means curvy or fat. Women can still be attractive if they’re fat. "

Well, I mean, who doesn’t like a chunky bird, ahh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer ladies who just are

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

petite for me

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By *oney HoneyWoman
over a year ago

York

I find men like women who have body confidence more than anything.

I’d say I am ‘fat’ but describe myself here as ‘curvy’ … plenty seem to like it.

Myself I definitely find bigger women more attractive, love a nice round ass and big boobs… I think that’s my type. That usually comes hand in hand with carrying a few extra kilos, but that’s sexy.

I’m not into the Keira Knightley shape… but I can look at her and see that she is beautiful. Just not my type for sexual pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy women for me

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

Eew

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

Curvy all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who like fat women are obviously my fave but men who shit talk one body type in order to compliment another? Gross

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

My preference has always been the bbw curvy type of lady

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

A curvy road is more fun to drive than a straight one

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Men who like fat women are obviously my fave but men who shit talk one body type in order to compliment another? Gross "

I always wonder who they are trying to convince... Me or themselves

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Lots of tip toeing around how to word things, on Fab in general.

I will stick with Firm which encapsulates all shapes and sizes but hedges towards fitter.

Shapely is another more neutral term but still pussyfoots around definitions.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

That's not really what I said though.

Historically btw, we can look back at some of the various differing fashions over different ages (and cultures) for sure. But is that how everyone felt though, or are they just that - fashions? Or perhaps even sometimes even cultural requirements?

What is regarded by many as genetic - specifically-hereditary or otherwise - (and we are made of DNA of course) is actually a need for muscle in men (not necessarily toned) and healthy body weight in women (I say 'healthy' merely to set aside modern obesity - body fat, even quite a lot of it, can be perfectly healthy in short, but people are known to lard-up on such unhealthy crap these days that no wonder it doesn't settle well).

pt"

To clarify, both a need to see it in others as healthy providers, and a healthy need to have it ourselves. pt

pt

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

As I did originally say, I'm not generalising about every single person either!

The world is a varied place.

pt

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Curvy for me.

But whatever your preference is…there’s no need to put down others.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Mainly one for the guys but I know there’s a couple of ladies that like to comment as well…

So fabbers, do you prefer ladies that are slimmer or curvier? I’m not going to define, use your own imagination as to what differentiates. A simple answer will be plenty

For the record, I prefer curvy"

I'm with Calvin Harris on this. I like all the girls

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Does it matter if he means curvy or fat. Women can still be attractive if they’re fat.

Well, I mean, who doesn’t like a chunky bird, ahh. "

You’re talking about a Roast Chicken aren’t you

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Curvy

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I prefer the ones who are sexy and want to be naked with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't pick. I'm greedy.

Tiny lady with cure feet, small boobs and tight bum gets me every time. But I love a voluptuous lady with a big wobbly arse and tits that you can get lost in. I love everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I think I’m average. Not slim and not curvy. Small waist and hips with a good boob handful. Would that make me slim, curvy or average?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno, I think I’m average. Not slim and not curvy. Small waist and hips with a good boob handful. Would that make me slim, curvy or average? "

Slim. With terrific assets

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Curvy!

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

Always curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooooooo I do a curvy woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno, I think I’m average. Not slim and not curvy. Small waist and hips with a good boob handful. Would that make me slim, curvy or average? "

Feckin' sexy is what it makes you missus!!

Mr R

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I dunno, I think I’m average. Not slim and not curvy. Small waist and hips with a good boob handful. Would that make me slim, curvy or average? "

Slim & curvy, stunning figure by the way!

Mrs

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By *andN2Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Dan here, I love toned gym fit girls, along the lines of the IFBB Pro Bikini Category or similar.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Just remember

Meat is for men

Bones are for dog's

Curvy please "

As a meaty woman, this is bloody rude.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"A curvy road is more fun to drive than a straight one "

No need to put other body types down.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No body type preference. Facial attraction and personality.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"A curvy road is more fun to drive than a straight one "

There's no need to state slim women aren't fun just because you prefer larger ladies.

Putting one down isn't cool!

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Turning into another slim women bashing post.

Slim women have curves.

Just because you prefer larger ladies doesn't mean you have to put slim women down.

There's preferences and there's body shaming!

Great filter this thread is!

Mrs

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"A curvy road is more fun to drive than a straight one "

Like wtaf, how does that even compute, that one would be more fun than the other....

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By *ori69Man
over a year ago

Castlewellan

Curves,mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women have curves in different ways

Love them all

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By *obinhoody1986Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Usually i prefer busty plump curvy women but my mate wife changes that. She slim busty petite cumable face and i would !

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By *ookie57Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Curvy ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion."

I remember as a child in the 80’s (not sure if adults saw it the same way) that slim women with no butts were the most attractive. Now women get ridiculed if they don’t have much of a booty. Not sure what century but larger women/fat women were deemed as the most attractive by society. Saw recently an African tribe try to make their men as fat as possible.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I like the word plump. So much nicer than fat.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Oh classic

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I prefer personality. Some women have it, some women don't.

Slim, athletic, average, cuddly.... You get my drift. All of these are nothing without personality.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Curvy for us both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either is fine more dependent on the woman and her personality and facial look

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I like curves, bit cliché but it is what it is

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

I think hips are the sexiest feature of a woman so it’s curves for me. Skinny, average or chunky hips are funky

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Proportionately curvy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than a curvy lady from slim to big curves for me

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I take this to mean skinny or fat women.

Skinny women with big bum/ boobs please

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

Personality 1st, then I'm don't care much if they are slim or have a few curves

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

I remember as a child in the 80’s (not sure if adults saw it the same way) that slim women with no butts were the most attractive. Now women get ridiculed if they don’t have much of a booty. Not sure what century but larger women/fat women were deemed as the most attractive by society. Saw recently an African tribe try to make their men as fat as possible.

"

I was a teen through the 80's and I remember all types of looks. Including some very wide shoulders sadly. Yes Grace Jones was thin but she did sing Pull up to the bumper baby. Didn't they always show her ass? Booty is cultural globalism in part. And fashion of course - as Jones knew as much as anyone. It's all about fashion. Fa, fa, fa, fashion as Bowie sang. Listen to the industry talk about how manipulative it is and how it is always thinking ahead! It starts with clothing which can fit well on certain bodies but which does not even necessarily sell - it's all about branding and colours though, subliminal stuff.

Is it really all how people *feel* when it comes to partners and the like?

But young people especially can be impressionable I know. Girl's magazines when I was a kid seemed only ever about how they looked, ie to each other. And how to get boys of course (which always seemed a different thing again to me and often talked about eyes, smiles and attention etc).

I don't think women are ridiculed if they don't have much of a booty. If women feel that way though that is totally fucked up. I'd look for different role models in life if I felt like that. Maybe not Andrew Tate. There are a lot of openly manipulative people around these days.

Rather like fascists, I don't think fashion models should really be role models really! ie anything to actually aspire too - they really are just clothes colour and accessory horses! Images that sell us anything really.

I think that when it comes to everyday clothes, we are seeing models more and more in normal people's sizes. Pure competition could have driven that as much as anything else.

pt

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No preference really as long as there is a mental connection first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

I remember as a child in the 80’s (not sure if adults saw it the same way) that slim women with no butts were the most attractive. Now women get ridiculed if they don’t have much of a booty. Not sure what century but larger women/fat women were deemed as the most attractive by society. Saw recently an African tribe try to make their men as fat as possible.

I was a teen through the 80's and I remember all types of looks. Including some very wide shoulders sadly. Yes Grace Jones was thin but she did sing Pull up to the bumper baby. Didn't they always show her ass? Booty is cultural globalism in part. And fashion of course - as Jones knew as much as anyone. It's all about fashion. Fa, fa, fa, fashion as Bowie sang. Listen to the industry talk about how manipulative it is and how it is always thinking ahead! It starts with clothing which can fit well on certain bodies but which does not even necessarily sell - it's all about branding and colours though, subliminal stuff.

Is it really all how people *feel* when it comes to partners and the like?

But young people especially can be impressionable I know. Girl's magazines when I was a kid seemed only ever about how they looked, ie to each other. And how to get boys of course (which always seemed a different thing again to me and often talked about eyes, smiles and attention etc).

I don't think women are ridiculed if they don't have much of a booty. If women feel that way though that is totally fucked up. I'd look for different role models in life if I felt like that. Maybe not Andrew Tate. There are a lot of openly manipulative people around these days.

Rather like fascists, I don't think fashion models should really be role models really! ie anything to actually aspire too - they really are just clothes colour and accessory horses! Images that sell us anything really.

I think that when it comes to everyday clothes, we are seeing models more and more in normal people's sizes. Pure competition could have driven that as much as anything else.

pt"

They do get ridiculed. It is definitely a thing. I agree with the lady above, society beauty and cultural standards definitely has a big influence on what people deem as attractive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

I remember as a child in the 80’s (not sure if adults saw it the same way) that slim women with no butts were the most attractive. Now women get ridiculed if they don’t have much of a booty. Not sure what century but larger women/fat women were deemed as the most attractive by society. Saw recently an African tribe try to make their men as fat as possible.

I was a teen through the 80's and I remember all types of looks. Including some very wide shoulders sadly. Yes Grace Jones was thin but she did sing Pull up to the bumper baby. Didn't they always show her ass? Booty is cultural globalism in part. And fashion of course - as Jones knew as much as anyone. It's all about fashion. Fa, fa, fa, fashion as Bowie sang. Listen to the industry talk about how manipulative it is and how it is always thinking ahead! It starts with clothing which can fit well on certain bodies but which does not even necessarily sell - it's all about branding and colours though, subliminal stuff.

Is it really all how people *feel* when it comes to partners and the like?

But young people especially can be impressionable I know. Girl's magazines when I was a kid seemed only ever about how they looked, ie to each other. And how to get boys of course (which always seemed a different thing again to me and often talked about eyes, smiles and attention etc).

I don't think women are ridiculed if they don't have much of a booty. If women feel that way though that is totally fucked up. I'd look for different role models in life if I felt like that. Maybe not Andrew Tate. There are a lot of openly manipulative people around these days.

Rather like fascists, I don't think fashion models should really be role models really! ie anything to actually aspire too - they really are just clothes colour and accessory horses! Images that sell us anything really.

I think that when it comes to everyday clothes, we are seeing models more and more in normal people's sizes. Pure competition could have driven that as much as anything else.

pt"

What's 'normal' people's size?

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

It's all about the bum for me. As long as a woman has an ass I want to grab then nothing else matters to me. Maybe boobs though.

Ok boobs or bum.

Though I will add in there has to be an element of flexibility too

Marc

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

Slim with a massive rack! Yep, I know, shallow!!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Slim with a massive rack! Yep, I know, shallow!! "

and why not! You like what you like

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Slim women can be curvy

this.

Curvy always scores in these threads, and I personally think most men and women do really go for nice curves and indeed a nice bit of flesh too.

But being attracted to healthy fat and strong muscle (not necessarily defined muscle) is genetically hotwired into most people I think, though of course many of us can be attracted to a lot more too..

So why is 'curvy' so often used as a euphemism for extra pounds, ie slim *or* curvy? (sorry if I'm expounding euphemisms here!)

Surely a better question would be, do you prefer someone on the larger or slimmer side in terms of body shape?

pt

I don't believe for one second that it's hard wired into us. Rather it's media shoving down our throats that slim is beautiful. If it was hard wired there wouldn't be societies with different views on beauty nor even in our society views changing with the fashion.

I remember as a child in the 80’s (not sure if adults saw it the same way) that slim women with no butts were the most attractive. Now women get ridiculed if they don’t have much of a booty. Not sure what century but larger women/fat women were deemed as the most attractive by society. Saw recently an African tribe try to make their men as fat as possible.

I was a teen through the 80's and I remember all types of looks. Including some very wide shoulders sadly. Yes Grace Jones was thin but she did sing Pull up to the bumper baby. Didn't they always show her ass? Booty is cultural globalism in part. And fashion of course - as Jones knew as much as anyone. It's all about fashion. Fa, fa, fa, fashion as Bowie sang. Listen to the industry talk about how manipulative it is and how it is always thinking ahead! It starts with clothing which can fit well on certain bodies but which does not even necessarily sell - it's all about branding and colours though, subliminal stuff.

Is it really all how people *feel* when it comes to partners and the like?

But young people especially can be impressionable I know. Girl's magazines when I was a kid seemed only ever about how they looked, ie to each other. And how to get boys of course (which always seemed a different thing again to me and often talked about eyes, smiles and attention etc).

I don't think women are ridiculed if they don't have much of a booty. If women feel that way though that is totally fucked up. I'd look for different role models in life if I felt like that. Maybe not Andrew Tate. There are a lot of openly manipulative people around these days.

Rather like fascists, I don't think fashion models should really be role models really! ie anything to actually aspire too - they really are just clothes colour and accessory horses! Images that sell us anything really.

I think that when it comes to everyday clothes, we are seeing models more and more in normal people's sizes. Pure competition could have driven that as much as anything else.

pt

What's 'normal' people's size?

"

A cross range of everyday people, as oppose to the select shapes and sizes of traditional models!

Pt

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

^^ I understand. You mean the man/woman in the street sort of person.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Breathing is my only prerequisite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slurvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Curvy from the hips down, slim up top

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slim women can be curvy"

Agreed.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I like both, variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both also

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Definitely curvy personaly but as long as the woman is confident in her skin that is more sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy with an sexy look in her eyes.

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Fuller figure ladies for me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy or slim all women are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn ready

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By *uffin and JamCouple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would class myself as fat, but hubby seems to love my curves and I cant see why …. I hate them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy or slim all women are the same "

wet holes

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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just

I can tell some of you read the original post but still lots making too many assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a curvy fan x

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Curvy or slim all women are the same

wet holes"

Dont forget warm

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can tell some of you read the original post but still lots making too many assumptions "

People always make assumptions but based on your op we had to make the assumption from the language you used that *for the purposes of this thread*, curvier meant larger and slimmer meant something else.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t really mind. Sexy is sexy; I’m an equal opportunities perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm

Males and females all have curves whether slim or not. Besides I am not in agreeance to highlighting what shapes we are. We are all beautiful humans op

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I don’t really mind. Sexy is sexy; I’m an equal opportunities perve "

I agree, how often have you found that a spark has been triggered with someone unexpected.

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By *xtremelynaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

East Mids…just


"I don’t really mind. Sexy is sexy; I’m an equal opportunities perve

I agree, how often have you found that a spark has been triggered with someone unexpected."

Everyone has a spark, totally agree…some are more protected than others

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Mainly one for the guys but I know there’s a couple of ladies that like to comment as well…

So fabbers, do you prefer ladies that are slimmer or curvier? I’m not going to define, use your own imagination as to what differentiates. A simple answer will be plenty

For the record, I prefer curvy"

ahhhh a click bait thread i love women of any size its some of their attitudes i don't like

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A curvy slim lady who’s at least an eight would be lovely

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Well I like them big

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don’t really mind. Sexy is sexy; I’m an equal opportunities perve

I agree, how often have you found that a spark has been triggered with someone unexpected."

More often than expected and it’s SO rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice hip to waist ratio more than a straight up and down on a purely aesthetic level in general.

But, I've found some straight up and down people very sexy too.

It's more about who they are than how much weight they're carrying."

Think this is worded better than I could have. But I'd like to add the following.

I can appreciate most figures as I often feel it's more about the way a woman carries and prevents herself. That's from how they dress to how they act, I prefer a more confident lady. I find that someone who is comfortable in their own skin allows others to warm to them and see that beauty too.

If you want the "locker room" /shallow answer then...

I like curvy bodies that are healthy and fit. Ratio is key. X love a full ass and reasonable boobs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy girl are the best

Big boobs big bum big thighs absolutely gorgeous

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By *onny boy cMan
over a year ago

chorlton

Curves are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curves are sexy "

They certainly are

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By *B304Man
over a year ago

Durham

Depends on the woman, some women look fantastic with curves.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Slim with curves but can appreciate some larger ladies with curves to so on the fence a little

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Depends on the definition of curvy as it’s pretty broad what it could describe

Curvy as in kelly Brook would take over slim any day

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Curvy, size 12 upwards. Definitely no gym bunnies.

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