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Meets and Mother Nature

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland

What are peoples experiences when a meet is arranged but Mother Nature decided to be very kind and gifts you with your crimson flow unsuspectedly. Do you cancel or let them know and obviously not let anyone go near your massacred vagina with their mouths and still do other things (protected) obviously if they say it’s ok? Asking for a friend

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By *urreyNotSoNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Depend on how the lady feels. If raring to go and not feeling urgh then try sponge tampons (gynotex from Amazon). Can be tricky to insert/remove but no one is the wiser, they work brilliantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the joy of the pill, I never have this issue. But if I did I'd cancel, not there for the chit chat.

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"Depend on how the lady feels. If raring to go and not feeling urgh then try sponge tampons (gynotex from Amazon). Can be tricky to insert/remove but no one is the wiser, they work brilliantly "

I have never heard of these! I have the coil so not sure if the threads would keep it stuck up there permanently haha

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"That's the joy of the pill, I never have this issue. But if I did I'd cancel, not there for the chit chat."

I’ve had tablets from the doctor for going away on holiday and they didn’t work just lightend the load so to speak, I won’t go too much about the plane ride home but cabin pressure was not my friend that day

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By *urreyNotSoNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Not sure about coil thread, I guess it would just block that. Have a read of the reviews on Amazon, maybe someone has mentioned x

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"Not sure about coil thread, I guess it would just block that. Have a read of the reviews on Amazon, maybe someone has mentioned x"

I will go check it out, Thankyou

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I've cancelled one meet where we were caught out unexpectedly. Didn't say anything other than I was unwell though. Try and pick dates to meet where it's not going to happen if we can. I don't even like Mr going near me when I have my period let alone anyone else.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I'd cancel and tell them why, if they got arsey with that then it's not my issue.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'd cancel and tell them why, if they got arsey with that then it's not my issue. "

The older you get the more unexpected /early or late they can be so it can't always be predicted unfortunately.

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"I've cancelled one meet where we were caught out unexpectedly. Didn't say anything other than I was unwell though. Try and pick dates to meet where it's not going to happen if we can. I don't even like Mr going near me when I have my period let alone anyone else. "

Mines are like clockwork and are 6 days late I should’ve started last Saturday. Absolute nightmare, we are booked into to a club tonight but that might be off the cards, might just go for the banter though, we always have a good one regardless.

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)"

I am close to being “that age” my mum was 43 when she was peri, I actually thought this could be my time as lasts months were a bit strange aswell. I’ll need to start looking at nursing homes shortly. To be honest I can’t wait until they are gone, Bain of every woman’s life! X

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"I'd cancel and tell them why, if they got arsey with that then it's not my issue.

The older you get the more unexpected /early or late they can be so it can't always be predicted unfortunately. "

I’ve been noticing this recently actually, absolute nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bothered me. If the lady is happy to play then game on.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"I'd cancel and tell them why, if they got arsey with that then it's not my issue.

The older you get the more unexpected /early or late they can be so it can't always be predicted unfortunately.

I’ve been noticing this recently actually, absolute nightmare "

Same problem, I had none from January to April, got well excited that was my lot but nope soon reappeared again and much worse than before

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Just wanna say if any woman wants to pull out of a meet - please just use this excuse on me.

It's natural, beautiful, and wonderful, but I'm squeamish and don't wanna join that party

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)"

The freedom!

Although I was 46 and thought I was that age but I was pregnant

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd cancel and tell them why, if they got arsey with that then it's not my issue.

The older you get the more unexpected /early or late they can be so it can't always be predicted unfortunately.

I’ve been noticing this recently actually, absolute nightmare

Same problem, I had none from January to April, got well excited that was my lot but nope soon reappeared again and much worse than before "

Yep I had a gap of two years and my reproductive organs decided to have one last party when I was about 58

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would cancel. I wouldn't tell them the real reason why as it pisses me off when they start saying we could meet anyway.

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)

The freedom!

Although I was 46 and thought I was that age but I was pregnant "

Ooh fck that but congratulations haha, I’ve more than done my bit for the world and still can’t get a full nights sleep my last one born at 31 and I’m 35 this year haha

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"Just wanna say if any woman wants to pull out of a meet - please just use this excuse on me.

It's natural, beautiful, and wonderful, but I'm squeamish and don't wanna join that party "

Texas chainsaw massacre

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I cancel and explain why.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)

The freedom!

Although I was 46 and thought I was that age but I was pregnant

Ooh fck that but congratulations haha, I’ve more than done my bit for the world and still can’t get a full nights sleep my last one born at 31 and I’m 35 this year haha "

I'm 67 next month it's ancient history lol.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd be happy to still meet just no giving oral but it's really down to what the lady wants..

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

I think most guys would understand and arranged a meet at another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)"

Know that feeling of no more menstration.

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"I let them know. If they want to meet then crack on. Doesn’t bother me.

Although I’m at “that age” now and I’ve not had a period since January (wahoooooooo!)

The freedom!

Although I was 46 and thought I was that age but I was pregnant

Haha well you look fabulous for 67!

Ooh fck that but congratulations haha, I’ve more than done my bit for the world and still can’t get a full nights sleep my last one born at 31 and I’m 35 this year haha

I'm 67 next month it's ancient history lol. "

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Depends how I feel. I’d let them know for sure and give them the option. But I may suggest coming over, feeding me ice cream and making me hot water bottles instead. Day 1/2 I need painkillers and foot rubs, day 3/4/5 I may fuck them within an inch of their life then bite their head off like a locust!

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By *weetest thingWoman
over a year ago

East Midlands

I suppose that’s the only plus side of being that age that I am but prior to that especially when approaching the menopause I had a lot of unscheduled visits from Mother Nature it’s like she knew I was trying to have fun! Generally I’d cancel as I just know I couldn’t fully relax and whilst a partner may not be too bothered I think unless it’s a regular fwb most guys would prefer to wait so I always explained why I was canx x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I cancel and explain why. "

Lol I should have said I usesd to as its not an issue any longer yay!

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By *ammygary OP   Couple
over a year ago

scotland


"Depends how I feel. I’d let them know for sure and give them the option. But I may suggest coming over, feeding me ice cream and making me hot water bottles instead. Day 1/2 I need painkillers and foot rubs, day 3/4/5 I may fuck them within an inch of their life then bite their head off like a locust! "

I’m like this without menstruating

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