FabSwingers.com forum: Updated my profile

By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

What are your thoughts on my profile Update?I've put a great deal of time and effort into making it as attractive and appealing as possible, and now I'm eager to hear your honest opinions. Feel free to share your thoughts, suggestions, or even a fun icebreaker to get our conversation started.

Looking forward to hearing from you lovely lot

Mart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a bit like if Disney did fab

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yes, I like it but that last paragraph does have a certain Mary Poppins feel about it.

It’s good though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I like it but that last paragraph does have a certain Mary Poppins feel about it.

It’s good though

Has Sam sobered up yet

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Hahaha what are you both talking about haha does it really shout out Disney to you both please explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hahaha what are you both talking about haha does it really shout out Disney to you both please explain why "

It’s very lovey dovey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op.. I like the honest profile breath of fresh air.

Enjoy finding your connections and conversations as you know fab is a hard job.

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Hahaha what are you both talking about haha does it really shout out Disney to you both please explain why

It’s very lovey dovey

I have just edited it a little bit, I kinda knew what you meant after a second glance over it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It won't really change much at all.

Just set up and have your profile the way you want it, with the way you would like to see in somebody else's profile.

It is pointless trying to make a profile for the masses, it's going to attract some and turn away others. Slight wrong word here, poor phrasing there and you can cut your potential interested parties by half.

I've tried detailed, I've tried minimal. Different variations of both. Neither increased any traction to my inbox over the years. The most "success" with a profile I've had was the one I gave zero fucks about what others thought of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It won't really change much at all.

Just set up and have your profile the way you want it, with the way you would like to see in somebody else's profile.

Yeah but you got a nice willy

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Belfast for the week

"It won't really change much at all.

Just set up and have your profile the way you want it, with the way you would like to see in somebody else's profile.

Men shouldn't have to pander, but we tend to. I'm stuck in a quandry where I appeal visually to approximately 1 person per region of the country. No amount of profile tweaking will change that. (And yes, I have analysed my Fab sucesses over the years and it boils down to at best one per county, or 1 per country depending on where I am.

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Op.. I like the honest profile breath of fresh air.

Enjoy finding your connections and conversations as you know fab is a hard job.

Oh you are not wrong there

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"It won't really change much at all.

Just set up and have your profile the way you want it, with the way you would like to see in somebody else's profile.

Yeah but you got a nice willy

Haha maybe I should include something in reference to my Willy too

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I really like it. Good on you and I wish you success.

Ruby

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Only read the first paragraph and thought that's a fancy way of saying you drive a digger

Marc

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Would you like some croutons with that word salad?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t like it , but I only read a little bit, the rest might be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be in the minority but as I read it, I scratched my head and wondered if you’d written it for Fab or simply copied and pasted it from your online dating profile.

It screams, ‘this is why you should date me’ not ‘I’m here to have a good time, fancy sharing in uncomplicated fun’, which is what I reckon you’re trying to get at but perhaps missed the mark.

What does your career/ entrepreneurship have to do with making a connection on Fab? The entire first paragraph adds nothing in my opinion.

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

Can't see anything wrong with it.

Good luck with the business.

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Only read the first paragraph and thought that's a fancy way of saying you drive a digger

Marc"

Hahaha ssssjjh don’t put me too the rest

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It would appeal to me but then I like long profiles. It's positive and upbeat.

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"It would appeal to me but then I like long profiles. It's positive and upbeat."

It would appeal?? So it doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good enough.

Be wary of continually changing it according to others comments. What you end up with, is a profile that is less a reflection of you, and more a collection of what others want to see.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What does your career/ entrepreneurship have to do with making a connection on Fab? The entire first paragraph adds nothing in my opinion. "

That’s exactly what put me off reading the rest . I’m not a woman but the ones I know on here are not the slightest interested in that kinda thing. When I meet couples and the guys give it all that crap, it’s so embarrassing for the woman , she’s like I’m sorry he’s so boring

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I like it.

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I’m noticing that the lads ain’t overly keen on it, just as well it’s aimed towards the ladies

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’m surprised you say you meet swinging couples…

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Why give a fuck what others think, as long as your happy with it...

Here's my critique, at the start I feel it reads a little bit egotistical, so then I switched off and didn't read the rest....

I do hope it works for you Op and you find those fruitfull postive connections....if not I need a drop kerb doing

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I'd like to see more penis and six pack action... preferably in the same shot.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Good profile didn't look at pics but profile is good enough, good luck

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By *oldAndBoundless OP Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’m surprised you say you meet swinging couples…

Why

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I’m surprised you say you meet swinging couples…

I just read that thread too

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

On here or the dating site it reads like you originally wrote it for it'll come over too good to be true to some. pt

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’m noticing that the lads ain’t overly keen on it, just as well it’s aimed towards the ladies "

Didn't read it, so no idea. As I stated above it's not going to work for everyone anyway. I can guarantee that the ladies that have popped up so far are a small minority that like to help out. The majority will be much more brutal in their dissection of it, and that is where you would see how very little it matters.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Yes, I like it but that last paragraph does have a certain Mary Poppins feel about it.

It’s good though

Has Sam sobered up yet

Oh… you could tell!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile photo, you have a lovely genuine smile that uses all your face. Your words read a little like your are trying to impress the in-laws over that awful first 'meet the family' dinner. But if they are your words and thoughts and you are happy with them, all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads like a CV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like it and it's a reflection of you and what you want then all good. Must admit I prefer looking at the pictures tho

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