FabSwingers.com forum: Are you ok with how turned out

By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen had a conversation today with a really good friend we got chatting about life and families something he said never really been said before.his words were so glad we still talk and meet up because to be honest he expected me to be dead or back in jail doing a long sentence.context as a young lad I was a twat a career criminal only bothered about myself I never wanted kids just thought why would I want them been in my way life i was leading ment most i new either died or doing 15 to life it all changed at 24 when i got a visit of my ex telling me she was pretty and if i want anything to do with them I changed when i got out roll on nearly 30 yrs im a grandad good job nice house cars and money but I still have days when i think what if so i suppose im saying has life turned out like you hoped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being dead or in jail has to be a win, seems like you found your way. Im not sure I had any expectations of what would be, and things just keep rolling on in the way they will. (I did think I may have got a nicer car by now though)

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Not being dead or in jail has to be a win, seems like you found your way. Im not sure I had any expectations of what would be, and things just keep rolling on in the way they will. (I did think I may have got a nicer car by now though)

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definitely a win I was brought up by a good hard working parents I just looked and thought I ain't working like them for nothing but now I really understand it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

No it hasn't.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In a sense yes I always wanted a family of my own and I have that which I'm extremely grateful for I never thought I could have kids so it's amazing.

I was an absolute nightmare in my 20's and my friends back then probably wouldn't recognize me now probably think I'm dead or arrested but I moved away, grew up, decided to get back into education and got myself a decent career.

Overall I'm happy with my life it's quiet, calm and relatively easy which is all I could want.

Mrs

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"In a sense yes I always wanted a family of my own and I have that which I'm extremely grateful for I never thought I could have kids so it's amazing.

Overall I'm happy with my life it's quiet, calm and relatively easy which is all I could want.

Mrs "
very nice I wasn't a mare I was dangerous but polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life did not turn out as my parents expected

As I did not expect to be still here, not how I expected either

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"My life did not turn out as my parents expected

As I did not expect to be still here, not how I expected either "
I don't think many turned out like are parents wanted expected but we still live life to the full

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"No it hasn't. "
hopefully in a good way

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

No, my life hasn’t turned out at all as I’d hoped but it is what it is *shrugs*

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"No, my life hasn’t turned out at all as I’d hoped but it is what it is *shrugs*"
just keep smiling and eating cake always helps

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You story is not that dissimilar to many I know,

Boys get in a lot of trouble , girls are mean to each other , then they have kids and grow up, it’s life.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Life is a journey… not a destination

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Life is a journey… not a destination

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definitely just a few turns in-between

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"You story is not that dissimilar to many I know,

Boys get in a lot of trouble , girls are mean to each other , then they have kids and grow up, it’s life.

I think i grew up fast having my first child at 19 while my mates were still burning out XR2I’s and raving, I’m quite pleased how things turned out, not every lesson in life needs to be learned by direct experience "
yeah I was 24 totally changed my life I never really got into trouble much but I was always looking did a bit of time in Lincoln with a few lads from st annes great time and I was running cosseys then

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

I never thought I'd see 50 or even 40 for that matter

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"I never thought I'd see 50 or even 40 for that matter "
but glad you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is a journey… not a destination

^^^

This all day long.

The destination is six foot under, it’s the bit we do before that that really counts.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Yes…. With reservations… I waited round too long to go professional as a musician - I also turned down 2 band jobs that would definitely have made me cash… as one door closes - another one shuts!!

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

It didn't go to plan but its freaking AWESOME

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"It didn't go to plan but its freaking AWESOME "
great live life to the full I say

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Yes…. With reservations… I waited round too long to go professional as a musician - I also turned down 2 band jobs that would definitely have made me cash… as one door closes - another one shuts!!

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haha love it enjoy

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By *addad99 OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

"Life is a journey… not a destination

^^^

This all day long.

The destination is six foot under, it’s the bit we do before that that really counts. "
definitely

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