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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

Why be diplomatic, if your first response on reciept of a face pic is some old PC tosh they are going to know what you really mean anyway

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

LMAO..!!!!..im saying nothing..

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I would say “fook me why didn’t you wear a seatbelt!”

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????

LMAO..!!!!..im saying nothing.. "

Diplomacy has never been one of my strengths im afraid..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I prefer their arses face wouldn't matter to me lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I prefer their arses face wouldn't matter to me lol!"

hoods are great if your ass raping them, but was thinking more vanilla circumstances lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

i hate it when that happens, even after 9 years of meeting people i still never know what to say

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I say that I don't think they're for us and then wish them good luck

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think thats the thing about having or sending and insisting on face pics when you first contact/reply to someone, then you can see from the offset if you are attracted to them. I would hate to have to send them a message after chatting and getting on with them then finding out they weren't my cup of tea. They would know wouldn't they no matter what you said and how tactfully and politely you put it? I would never ever want to hurt anyones feelings.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

My standard response in cases like this is...."Thanks for your message but not for me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

.

"Sorry, however, you do not tickle my fancy, take care!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

i hate it when that happens!!! but if the bod and sense of humour were appealing id shag em anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say, "Fuck me, bet you passed a lot of people when you fell out the ugly tree!"

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

just do what most do to me

... deleat n block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I thought if it is no, then its no! No explanations necessary. Thats how it is and move on. I have turned down people and been turned down myself, no hard feelings. Just have to except that no matter what we feel or think about ourselves...we may not be everyone elses cup of tea sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat to a guy/girl/couple....they has a fit bod..good sense of humour..they send you a face pic...and it isnt going to happen....How diplomatic is your reply?????"

Always very..... Ugly doesn't mean they are bad people... In fact usually quite the opposite...

Obvious exceptions mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say sorry I'm not interested, I wouldn't be rude to them or insensitive

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I would say… “OMFG! You are the spitting image of my brother and his wife. The likeness is unbelievable!... I wouldn’t have believed it possible that anyone could look so alike. I obviously won’t be able to have sex with you as it would be too much like having sex with them and that would be very wrong. In fact I feel very unsettled now at just the though of looking down between my legs and seeing… oh my god I can’t even bring myself to type it is so repulsive a thought. Please understand why I cannot even correspond with you anymore. Happy hunting.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say… “OMFG! You are the spitting image of my brother and his wife. The likeness is unbelievable!... I wouldn’t have believed it possible that anyone could look so alike. I obviously won’t be able to have sex with you as it would be too much like having sex with them and that would be very wrong. In fact I feel very unsettled now at just the though of looking down between my legs and seeing… oh my god I can’t even bring myself to type it is so repulsive a thought. Please understand why I cannot even correspond with you anymore. Happy hunting.”

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Was that you we sent it to???

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I would say… “OMFG! You are the spitting image of my brother and his wife. The likeness is unbelievable!... I wouldn’t have believed it possible that anyone could look so alike. I obviously won’t be able to have sex with you as it would be too much like having sex with them and that would be very wrong. In fact I feel very unsettled now at just the though of looking down between my legs and seeing… oh my god I can’t even bring myself to type it is so repulsive a thought. Please understand why I cannot even correspond with you anymore. Happy hunting.”

Was that you we sent it to??? "

I thought I'd sent you a similar version but replaced 'brother' with 'dad'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say I'm busy cooking beans on toast and may be some time, then suggest they contact Rapunzel.

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