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"I'm with you, weird or not! " ffs! | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " Look at it as what quality do you like in a partner? | |||
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"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two. I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing. Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you " We approached this from opposite angles...same result. Also, wow, you have a tongue and a half. That's my type of tongue | |||
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"I dont have a type. But I also do. There’s something more common with those I get attracted too. Most are Brunette. So there’s that. " Well glad that's cleared up, Woody | |||
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"Nope. The onky 'type' I have is someone I'm attracted to for whatever reason. It's not down to specific physical characteristics. " Actually, I do fancy an onky | |||
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"Nope. The onky 'type' I have is someone I'm attracted to for whatever reason. It's not down to specific physical characteristics. Actually, I do fancy an onky " Damn you autocarrot... | |||
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"I don't really have a type. well... Slim and attractive... more or less a female version of myself. Height is not an issue for me. Similar interests and personality. Fun to be with, passionate, caring... an all round good egg of a person That's my type... I want that." . "I don't have a type" and then lists all the characteristics of your type! | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Look at it as what quality do you like in a partner?" They're not a lying nob. | |||
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"I don't really have a type. well... Slim and attractive... more or less a female version of myself. Height is not an issue for me. Similar interests and personality. Fun to be with, passionate, caring... an all round good egg of a person That's my type... I want that. . "I don't have a type" and then lists all the characteristics of your type! " You saw right through that huh | |||
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"I dont have a type. But I also do. There’s something more common with those I get attracted too. Most are Brunette. So there’s that. Well glad that's cleared up, Woody " Haha. I keep to the facts. | |||
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"I am with you i dont either its about attraction there and then ????" Well, no. I have to be able to talk to someone. The physical attraction is dependent on the rest. Hmm. | |||
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"Yes I'm weird " I'm not getting used to this new name. It's catching me unawares! | |||
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"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two. I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing. Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you We approached this from opposite angles...same result. Also, wow, you have a tongue and a half. That's my type of tongue " Loool thanks I guess | |||
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"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two. I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing. Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you " The only thing I've come up with is there has been a meeting of minds, I guess. A connection - values, priorities etc. not really a type. | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " deffo not weird ... i dont have a type as such | |||
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"Not physically no, but I do go for men who make me laugh and who are a little bit odd/quirky in some way. " I’ve got a face like a Salvador Dali painting, where do I sign up? | |||
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"My type is handsome face and big cock, but Mr struggled with finding his type, it's Sluty, Sluty women like me " Hope he finds his type here! | |||
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"Yep, no idea of a 'type'. Not enough experience with women anyway to have half a clue. " I expected you to be in your 20s from that comment. Puzzling! | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types! pt | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types! pt" That app is the goat | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types! pt That app is the goat" I haven't been able to login for six months sadly. I did answer 756 questions dammit. | |||
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"I’m the same and I’m not weird at all, at least not for that reason I think it means that the usual ways of differentiating people with height, hair colour, body shape or whatever don’t really make a difference. There are other things that lead to attraction but they’re not on the usual list." I am envious though of people who are so sure about what they want. Who they want. It makes it easier. | |||
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"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t" But they need to have a cunt? | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types! pt That app is the goat I haven't been able to login for six months sadly. I did answer 756 questions dammit. " Ask for poly, she'll help you out. I may have answered around that, I did it four a straight couple of hours once. Problem is the people who answer a few obvious ones get the same stats so it doesn't particularly work that well. pt | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " Does that not mean you are pan sexual? | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Does that not mean you are pan sexual? " Not if she is straight. Pan is bisexual plus type of thing - ie all genders. pt | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " I do not have enough data to draw a conclusion. I have a hypothesis, but need to test it. Currently, I'm nowhere near the threshold of sufficient data points, so if anyone would like to help (for the purposes of science of course), please let me know! | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. Does that not mean you are pan sexual? Not if she is straight. Pan is bisexual plus type of thing - ie all genders. pt" I am definitely not pansexual | |||
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"I don't have a physical type. I tend to be more drawn to laid back, calm personalities. " Ooh. That's touched a nerve with me. I am not remotely laid back so I do like men who are. A man who can calm my exuberance a little. | |||
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"I used to have a type. Things have broadened as iv matured. Or aged which ever way you look at it. I'm now open to basically anything that gets me hard " Um. Did you want to reword? | |||
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"I didn't think I did but there appears to be a correlation with glasses LvM" Reader, he married her! | |||
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"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances. " I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess? | |||
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"I like the hot ones that turn me on." Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they? | |||
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"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances. I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess? " So, a low body count then? | |||
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"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances. I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess? So, a low body count then? " Who is that aimed at? Cos I couldn't give a fuck. | |||
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"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances. I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess? So, a low body count then? " She did say involved. pt | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " Not weird at all , we just like what we like and are attracted to what we find attractive, | |||
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"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here... " Maybe youre just overthinking it | |||
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"I think everyone has a type. For some people it's more obvious than others. There will be common factors that link a majority of meets that trigger the subconscious mind into finding that person attractive. Marc" I can sort of see where you're coming from... those common features and traits. I think the vast majority of people do have a type, whether it's a particularly personality they like. Certain things that can be found across the board. I don't think it's weird if you don't have a type though. And I think some people, just, well, don't. | |||
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"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t But they need to have a cunt?" Of for cure, they can 'have' one by all means as they're still useful | |||
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"I think of my type as just interesting and engaging people " That's so beguilingly simple,it might just work! | |||
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"I have a type and I’m weird. So we’re all weird. " We shall all be weird together | |||
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"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t But they need to have a cunt? Of for cure, they can 'have' one by all means as they're still useful " God yes, mine is SO useful. Like a Swiss Army knife. | |||
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"I don't have a type, I'm just attracted to someone or I'm not. But yes op I'm weird so you must be " I didn't like to say, but now you've confirmed it | |||
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"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type?" I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it? | |||
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"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here... Maybe youre just overthinking it" Perhaps my threads just aren't for you, dear | |||
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"I like the hot ones that turn me on. Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they? " Rocking-horse shit. I do actually know my type. It's just not one singular thing. It mostly comes in the form of a natural flowing conversation, which both contribute to and the existence of a feeling of synchronicity when we are together. A mutual emotional expressivity and receptivity. That's either there or it's not, can take time to develop. Courage and self-awareness are key to making that work. That feeling of: we get each other. Doesn't need saying. Then there's the intellectual sphere. It's not necessarily book smarts, it's the ability to process information, a pluralist mindset able to appreciate multiple perceptions of a given subject and their interelation. Difference is the dialect that sparks creativity. The integrity to put as much effort into understanding as being understood. Sharing experiences, views, dreams and desires. Small-talk switches me off quite quickly. Humility is greatly undervalued trait these days I find. I love passion and tenacity, but I find many people really struggle to accept fallibility or any imperfection. If someone can't take responsibility for their part in a conflict etc - that causes me to lose respect for them. If it becomes about who 'wins' a debate or discussion then my eyes roll. I admire strength but not rigidity. I could go on, that's off the top of my head. Those things are essential to friendship. They don't necessarily lead to sexual attraction. | |||
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"No specific type as it's the person themselves that interests me. The brain and personality of the individual is what attracts me most and foremost but lets be honest this is a sex site not a dating app I don't think anyone is expecting a marriage proposal. " Not expecting, but I have had a couple! | |||
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"I like the hot ones that turn me on. Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they? Rocking-horse shit. I do actually know my type. It's just not one singular thing. It mostly comes in the form of a natural flowing conversation, which both contribute to and the existence of a feeling of synchronicity when we are together. A mutual emotional expressivity and receptivity. That's either there or it's not, can take time to develop. Courage and self-awareness are key to making that work. That feeling of: we get each other. Doesn't need saying. Then there's the intellectual sphere. It's not necessarily book smarts, it's the ability to process information, a pluralist mindset able to appreciate multiple perceptions of a given subject and their interelation. Difference is the dialect that sparks creativity. The integrity to put as much effort into understanding as being understood. Sharing experiences, views, dreams and desires. Small-talk switches me off quite quickly. Humility is greatly undervalued trait these days I find. I love passion and tenacity, but I find many people really struggle to accept fallibility or any imperfection. If someone can't take responsibility for their part in a conflict etc - that causes me to lose respect for them. If it becomes about who 'wins' a debate or discussion then my eyes roll. I admire strength but not rigidity. I could go on, that's off the top of my head. Those things are essential to friendship. They don't necessarily lead to sexual attraction. " "That's off the top of my head". I mean, I do know all of the words you used, I'm just not able to put them together in a way that represents how I feel. Nor do many other people. | |||
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"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites. Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. " No, you're not "weird" - I don't have a "type" either... ....over the past 30 years I've happily played with ladies ranging from sizes 8 to 22; between 4'10" and 6'2"; anywhere from 15 years younger to 30 years older; blondes and brunettes, redheads and raven-haired; with short hair, long hair, and numerous styles inbetween... ....variety is, as they say, the spice of life! | |||
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"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type? I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it? " Okay, well I have specific preferences. Does that make a type? I'm so confused.... | |||
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"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type? I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it? Okay, well I have specific preferences. Does that make a type? I'm so confused.... " If you have a lot of specific preferences - yea that does sound like a type! | |||
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"Once someone entices you to make that move to get naked that’s your type. You’ll know then what markers he hit and why. Doesn’t have to be a series of tick box in advance to know you have a type. " Yeah but we need the analysis to find the people to get naked with!! | |||
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"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here... Maybe youre just overthinking it Perhaps my threads just aren't for you, dear" That is not inconceivable honey | |||
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"I have to find them sexy in some way. Which is usually more personality driven. Quick witted, kind- hearted, great fuck. Sadly a rare breed." It sounds an excellent breed though | |||
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"‘A type’ is such an odd thing to me - I think it pigeon holes people into little _oxes of requirements that if they don’t have one of these physical features or personality traits it’s game over before it even started. Sure I love a silver fox and someone with a sparkle in there eye but if I were meeting I wouldn’t rule out people who don’t have these things - surely half the fun is finding something unexpected in someone x" I absolutely agree. It feels a little greedy - not wanting to miss out on someone great. If you know what I mean? | |||
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"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?" Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some! | |||
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"I don’t have a type Your not weird just open to a lot more than closed minded people xx Keep smiling pb ?? " I don't think people who have a type are closed minded though? They're just very sure of what they want. | |||
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"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation? Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some!" Attraction not necessary. | |||
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"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation? Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some! Attraction not necessary. " good to know | |||
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"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation? Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some! Attraction not necessary. " Cheeky | |||
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