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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm with you, weird ir not!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I'm with you, weird or not! "
ffs!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m just weird regardless of types

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

Look at it as what quality do you like in a partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm weird

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m the same and I’m not weird at all, at least not for that reason

I think it means that the usual ways of differentiating people with height, hair colour, body shape or whatever don’t really make a difference. There are other things that lead to attraction but they’re not on the usual list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t have a type because I find a variety of women very attractive. People who have a type are usually, in my opinion, just people who see beauty in a specific, but often narrow, way.

Also, it varies for me in terms of looks. The Black women I find attractive look nothing like the Brown women or the white women I do. Etc. Etc. That’s just me though and this is just my opinion.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If you lined up the girls I have had as GF’s or slept with them you’d know I didn’t have a type either.

Personality is high as well as that look in the eyes!! Although that’s probably more now!

K

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women have a type...men do not. No matter what's said.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two.

I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing.

Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you

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By *lay 4 your plessureMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I don't have a type, probably because everyone is individual despite similarities appearances. I just like what I like when I see them. It's easier to list the things I dislike in people than what I like.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

When you are too fearfully to express a type, it's easier to say what you don't want.

By a process of elimination you find your type.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two.

I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing.

Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you "

We approached this from opposite angles...same result.

Also, wow, you have a tongue and a half.

That's my type of tongue

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't really have a type.

well...

Slim and attractive... more or less a female version of myself.

Height is not an issue for me.

Similar interests and personality.

Fun to be with, passionate, caring... an all round good egg of a person

That's my type... I want that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a type. But I also do.

There’s something more common with those I get attracted too.

Most are Brunette. So there’s that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t have a type, I like them tall, short, large, athletic, balding or long haired. Some guys just have that “certain thing” and they are the ones I’m attracted to regardless of how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say I have a not-type rather than a type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with you, weird or not! ffs! "

Weird twins

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nope.

The onky 'type' I have is someone I'm attracted to for whatever reason. It's not down to specific physical characteristics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont have a type. But I also do.

There’s something more common with those I get attracted too.

Most are Brunette. So there’s that. "

Well glad that's cleared up, Woody

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.

The onky 'type' I have is someone I'm attracted to for whatever reason. It's not down to specific physical characteristics. "

Actually, I do fancy an onky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am with you i dont either its about attraction there and then ????

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Nope.

The onky 'type' I have is someone I'm attracted to for whatever reason. It's not down to specific physical characteristics.

Actually, I do fancy an onky "

Damn you autocarrot...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really have a type.

well...

Slim and attractive... more or less a female version of myself.

Height is not an issue for me.

Similar interests and personality.

Fun to be with, passionate, caring... an all round good egg of a person

That's my type... I want that."

. "I don't have a type" and then lists all the characteristics of your type!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m just weird regardless of types "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Look at it as what quality do you like in a partner?"

They're not a lying nob.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don't really have a type.

well...

Slim and attractive... more or less a female version of myself.

Height is not an issue for me.

Similar interests and personality.

Fun to be with, passionate, caring... an all round good egg of a person

That's my type... I want that.

. "I don't have a type" and then lists all the characteristics of your type! "

You saw right through that huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont have a type. But I also do.

There’s something more common with those I get attracted too.

Most are Brunette. So there’s that.

Well glad that's cleared up, Woody "

Haha. I keep to the facts.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

I used to think I had a "type". I used to go for similar body type girls in my dating era. More recently it's all about having a mutual connection and desire for each other regardless of looks/body type

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
over a year ago

City Centre

There's definitely a running theme with people I've been attracted to or had relationships with personality wise, I guess that would suggest I have a type. When it comes to looks they were uniquely very different. Sometimes sexual attraction comes after a close bond has been established and that's cool too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am with you i dont either its about attraction there and then ????"

Well, no. I have to be able to talk to someone. The physical attraction is dependent on the rest. Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I'm weird "

I'm not getting used to this new name. It's catching me unawares!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two.

I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing.

Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you

We approached this from opposite angles...same result.

Also, wow, you have a tongue and a half.

That's my type of tongue "

Loool thanks I guess

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a type darling wether its looks more than personality or balance of the two.

I reckon you probably just have always gone with the flow to not realise which is not a bad thing.

Find time to jot down on paper the people you have met and got along well with put the reasons why that was and after try find any similarities that may help narrow things down for you "

The only thing I've come up with is there has been a meeting of minds, I guess. A connection - values, priorities etc. not really a type.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not physically no, but I do go for men who make me laugh and who are a little bit odd/quirky in some way.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Probably as I don't have one as well not physically anyway.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Nope, I don't think I have a type either for men or women.

My past history is very varied really.

Obviously there are physical traits I find attractive as a feature but it doesn't necessarily mean I find the whole person artractive. Which is odd I suppose

MrsAbz

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I find different things in different people attractive, might be eyes or a smile, to shapely legs or they way they talk to me.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

deffo not weird ... i dont have a type as such

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Not physically no, but I do go for men who make me laugh and who are a little bit odd/quirky in some way.

"

I’ve got a face like a Salvador Dali painting, where do I sign up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, no idea of a 'type'. Not enough experience with women anyway to have half a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My type is handsome face and big cock, but Mr struggled with finding his type, it's Sluty, Sluty women like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My type is handsome face and big cock, but Mr struggled with finding his type, it's Sluty, Sluty women like me "

Hope he finds his type here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep, no idea of a 'type'. Not enough experience with women anyway to have half a clue. "

I expected you to be in your 20s from that comment. Puzzling!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

"

Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types!

pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types!

pt"

That app is the goat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types!

pt

That app is the goat"

I haven't been able to login for six months sadly. I did answer 756 questions dammit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a type. Things have broadened as iv matured. Or aged which ever way you look at it.

I'm now open to basically anything that gets me hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m the same and I’m not weird at all, at least not for that reason

I think it means that the usual ways of differentiating people with height, hair colour, body shape or whatever don’t really make a difference. There are other things that lead to attraction but they’re not on the usual list."

I am envious though of people who are so sure about what they want. Who they want. It makes it easier.

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By *he Dark SaintMan
over a year ago

hitchin

100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I didn't think I did but there appears to be a correlation with glasses

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t"

But they need to have a cunt?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Try OKCupid, you'll surely be something in their list of types!

pt

That app is the goat

I haven't been able to login for six months sadly. I did answer 756 questions dammit. "

Ask for poly, she'll help you out.

I may have answered around that, I did it four a straight couple of hours once. Problem is the people who answer a few obvious ones get the same stats so it doesn't particularly work that well. pt

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

Does that not mean you are pan sexual?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't have a physical type.

I tend to be more drawn to laid back, calm personalities.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Does that not mean you are pan sexual?

"

Not if she is straight. Pan is bisexual plus type of thing - ie all genders.

pt

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

No, I don't think that's weird. I find myself attracted to lots of different people. I probably have more of a personality type than physical type.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

I do not have enough data to draw a conclusion. I have a hypothesis, but need to test it. Currently, I'm nowhere near the threshold of sufficient data points, so if anyone would like to help (for the purposes of science of course), please let me know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird.

Does that not mean you are pan sexual?

Not if she is straight. Pan is bisexual plus type of thing - ie all genders.

pt"

I am definitely not pansexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a physical type.

I tend to be more drawn to laid back, calm personalities.

"

Ooh. That's touched a nerve with me. I am not remotely laid back so I do like men who are. A man who can calm my exuberance a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to have a type. Things have broadened as iv matured. Or aged which ever way you look at it.

I'm now open to basically anything that gets me hard "

Um. Did you want to reword?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I like the hot ones that turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't think I did but there appears to be a correlation with glasses

LvM"

Reader, he married her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type.. I believe I have a type.

Type who is honest, not up his arse, kind, respectful and most important is with a pulse and a persona to die for that makes me feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances. "

I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the hot ones that turn me on."

Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances.

I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess? "

So, a low body count then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances.

I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess?

So, a low body count then? "

Who is that aimed at? Cos I couldn't give a fuck.

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By *onkey 2023Man
over a year ago

Cross Hands

I don’t have a ‘type’...it’s all about attraction, personality, and feeling comfortable with each other. Well that’s the way I see it anyway

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If you asked had I a type, I'd say no. However if you gathered all the people I've ever been involved with there are unifying traits and appearances.

I've not been involved with that many people tbh, you'd think it would be easier! And it's important to pick the unifying traits of people who are good for you I guess?

So, a low body count then?

"

She did say involved. pt

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By *ust little old me 13Man
over a year ago

Preston

I don't have a type,it's all about eyes for me

If someone's eyes talk to me,it doesn't matter what colour hair someone has, what figure they've got or anything

I don't think I'm wierd, I think it's wierd how people do have a type and especially the ones who dismiss anyone who doesn't fit into that bracket 100%.... that is wierd,but each to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People's energy, vibe and humour can make them attractive. I usually notice those things more so than the initial look of a person that's why I wouldn't say I've got a 'type'.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

Not weird at all , we just like what we like and are attracted to what we find attractive,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think of my type as just interesting and engaging people

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't have a type either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No type at all. Look fun, then I am very interested x

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here... "

Maybe youre just overthinking it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In appearance I don't have a type I've got to get to know someone before I can say if I'm really attracted to them or not.

However I do have a thing for goth/alt type women but still if the personality doesn't match my attraction will drop

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I thought I did, in terms of men at least. When I write it down? No, I really don't. I like passionate people but how that passion is displayed varies a lot.

Is a honest person a type? I'd like that to be my type now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you OP I don’t have a type so if that’s weird I’m contend staying weird haha

You be nice to me and I’ll be nice to you Simple’s

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I think everyone has a type. For some people it's more obvious than others.

There will be common factors that link a majority of meets that trigger the subconscious mind into finding that person attractive.

Marc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I think everyone has a type. For some people it's more obvious than others.

There will be common factors that link a majority of meets that trigger the subconscious mind into finding that person attractive.

Marc"

I can sort of see where you're coming from... those common features and traits. I think the vast majority of people do have a type, whether it's a particularly personality they like. Certain things that can be found across the board.

I don't think it's weird if you don't have a type though. And I think some people, just, well, don't.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn't say I have a 'type' but I would say I have 'types'. Certain looks or personality types appeal to me more than others, but from my point of view, there are beautiful women from all over the world and there are different personality types - whether bubbly women that I instantly enjoy being around or more shy women who pull me in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have preferences, so presumably I have a type?

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

‘A type’ is such an odd thing to me - I think it pigeon holes people into little _oxes of requirements that if they don’t have one of these physical features or personality traits it’s game over before it even started.

Sure I love a silver fox and someone with a sparkle in there eye but if I were meeting I wouldn’t rule out people who don’t have these things - surely half the fun is finding something unexpected in someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A type ? , love loads of types . It's the way they respond, personality. Not the super model vision etc

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By *he Dark SaintMan
over a year ago

hitchin


"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t

But they need to have a cunt?"

Of for cure, they can 'have' one by all means as they're still useful

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't have a type, I'm just attracted to someone or I'm not. But yes op I'm weird so you must be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I have a type and I’m weird. So we’re all weird.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think of my type as just interesting and engaging people "

That's so beguilingly simple,it might just work!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a type and I’m weird. So we’re all weird. "

We shall all be weird together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"100% there's no specific requirement needed for me to ignite with someone. Other than don't be a c**t

But they need to have a cunt?

Of for cure, they can 'have' one by all means as they're still useful "

God yes, mine is SO useful. Like a Swiss Army knife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a type, I'm just attracted to someone or I'm not. But yes op I'm weird so you must be "

I didn't like to say, but now you've confirmed it

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I wouldn't call it a type, but I have preferences. Anyone can have sexiness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type?"

I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have to find them sexy in some way. Which is usually more personality driven.

Quick witted, kind- hearted, great fuck.

Sadly a rare breed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here...

Maybe youre just overthinking it"

Perhaps my threads just aren't for you, dear

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I like the hot ones that turn me on.

Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they? "

Rocking-horse shit.

I do actually know my type. It's just not one singular thing. It mostly comes in the form of a natural flowing conversation, which both contribute to and the existence of a feeling of synchronicity when we are together. A mutual emotional expressivity and receptivity. That's either there or it's not, can take time to develop. Courage and self-awareness are key to making that work. That feeling of: we get each other. Doesn't need saying.

Then there's the intellectual sphere. It's not necessarily book smarts, it's the ability to process information, a pluralist mindset able to appreciate multiple perceptions of a given subject and their interelation. Difference is the dialect that sparks creativity. The integrity to put as much effort into understanding as being understood. Sharing experiences, views, dreams and desires. Small-talk switches me off quite quickly.

Humility is greatly undervalued trait these days I find. I love passion and tenacity, but I find many people really struggle to accept fallibility or any imperfection. If someone can't take responsibility for their part in a conflict etc - that causes me to lose respect for them. If it becomes about who 'wins' a debate or discussion then my eyes roll. I admire strength but not rigidity.

I could go on, that's off the top of my head. Those things are essential to friendship. They don't necessarily lead to sexual attraction.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Breathing is a type right

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By *allsendmaleMan
over a year ago

Wallsend

Variety is the spice of life.

I love meeting people of all ages / appearances/ types as it keeps things interesting.

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By *tephanie4biandstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

No specific type as it's the person themselves that interests me. The brain and personality of the individual is what attracts me most and foremost but lets be honest this is a sex site not a dating app I don't think anyone is expecting a marriage proposal.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

A smile goes a long way with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No specific type as it's the person themselves that interests me. The brain and personality of the individual is what attracts me most and foremost but lets be honest this is a sex site not a dating app I don't think anyone is expecting a marriage proposal. "

Not expecting, but I have had a couple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like the hot ones that turn me on.

Ah, well, I mean they're like gold dust aren't they?

Rocking-horse shit.

I do actually know my type. It's just not one singular thing. It mostly comes in the form of a natural flowing conversation, which both contribute to and the existence of a feeling of synchronicity when we are together. A mutual emotional expressivity and receptivity. That's either there or it's not, can take time to develop. Courage and self-awareness are key to making that work. That feeling of: we get each other. Doesn't need saying.

Then there's the intellectual sphere. It's not necessarily book smarts, it's the ability to process information, a pluralist mindset able to appreciate multiple perceptions of a given subject and their interelation. Difference is the dialect that sparks creativity. The integrity to put as much effort into understanding as being understood. Sharing experiences, views, dreams and desires. Small-talk switches me off quite quickly.

Humility is greatly undervalued trait these days I find. I love passion and tenacity, but I find many people really struggle to accept fallibility or any imperfection. If someone can't take responsibility for their part in a conflict etc - that causes me to lose respect for them. If it becomes about who 'wins' a debate or discussion then my eyes roll. I admire strength but not rigidity.

I could go on, that's off the top of my head. Those things are essential to friendship. They don't necessarily lead to sexual attraction.

"

"That's off the top of my head". I mean, I do know all of the words you used, I'm just not able to put them together in a way that represents how I feel. Nor do many other people.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Does it mean you're weird? I don't have a type. Neither a physical type or a personality. I struggle to answer any questions about what I like or what I'm looking for on dating sites.

Is there anyone else? I'm starting to think I'm weird. "

No, you're not "weird" - I don't have a "type" either...

....over the past 30 years I've happily played with ladies ranging from sizes 8 to 22; between 4'10" and 6'2"; anywhere from 15 years younger to 30 years older; blondes and brunettes, redheads and raven-haired; with short hair, long hair, and numerous styles inbetween...

....variety is, as they say, the spice of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type?

I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it? "

Okay, well I have specific preferences. Does that make a type? I'm so confused....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once someone entices you to make that move to get naked that’s your type. You’ll know then what markers he hit and why. Doesn’t have to be a series of tick box in advance to know you have a type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have preferences, so presumably I have a type?

I personally don't see preferences as being the same as a type. A type is grouping those preferences together isn't it?

Okay, well I have specific preferences. Does that make a type? I'm so confused.... "

If you have a lot of specific preferences - yea that does sound like a type!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once someone entices you to make that move to get naked that’s your type. You’ll know then what markers he hit and why. Doesn’t have to be a series of tick box in advance to know you have a type. "

Yeah but we need the analysis to find the people to get naked with!!

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm starting to think either I'm not weird OR there are lots of weirdos here...

Maybe youre just overthinking it

Perhaps my threads just aren't for you, dear"

That is not inconceivable honey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Breathing is a type right "

Er, no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to find them sexy in some way. Which is usually more personality driven.

Quick witted, kind- hearted, great fuck.

Sadly a rare breed."

It sounds an excellent breed though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘A type’ is such an odd thing to me - I think it pigeon holes people into little _oxes of requirements that if they don’t have one of these physical features or personality traits it’s game over before it even started.

Sure I love a silver fox and someone with a sparkle in there eye but if I were meeting I wouldn’t rule out people who don’t have these things - surely half the fun is finding something unexpected in someone x"

I absolutely agree. It feels a little greedy - not wanting to miss out on someone great. If you know what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?"

Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a type

Your not weird just open to a lot more than closed minded people xx

Keep smiling pb ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t have a type

Your not weird just open to a lot more than closed minded people xx

Keep smiling pb ?? "

I don't think people who have a type are closed minded though? They're just very sure of what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?

Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some!"

Attraction not necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?

Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some!

Attraction not necessary. "

good to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don’t have a type, doesn’t that mean you would do anything with anyone? Is that a fair summation?

Obviously. Anyone who asks cos it's a sex site and men are entitled to get some!

Attraction not necessary. "

Cheeky

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