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Passing 50!

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By *heekyGent44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I am 51 fairly soon and it's dawned on me recently how many women use 50 as a maximum as it's a nice round number. Am I going to lose the opportunity the meet some wonderful people because of this ?

I put my genuine age on here, and then when I meet people think I look younger than 50. I'm an honest guy and think this is the right way to go. Or should I simply credit myself with 3 years next month and wind the clock back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely up to you, not like you need permission but I would say that not everyone stops at 50 and also, a lot may have the age thing as a guideline rather than a full stop.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

I would be honest as you will be found out in end.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I didn't join here until I was 52 and I've never missed out on anything I wasn't looking for in the first place.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Honesty is the best policy in my book. I once had a meet with someone and found out they were 10 years older, 6 inches shorter and smoked when they said they didn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think a lot of the women set their age limit at 55 - I like to think I look younger, but then I see myself in the mirror and realise I am no longer 28.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If someone literally prevents emails from people over x age, you are already in the ballpark when you get there, so no bother I say. You can't really miss out on something that isn't there.

If its just a preference and you don't feel or look your years, it's a conversation starter maybe?

No point grumbling about you age though. Im a CD and am 53 tomorrow. I can still get what I want here if i work at it though. And Im more comfortable meeting women in general out and about anyway.

Pt

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Honesty is the best policy in my book. I once had a meet with someone and found out they were 10 years older, 6 inches shorter and smoked when they said they didn’t. "

Did you stay?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Nah, be honest.

If they have an age limit that blocks over a certain age, that's their choice and should be respected. Lying to get around it isn't cool. If it's just a preference and you can still mail them when you're barely outside it, then you can still give it a go.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I am 51 fairly soon and it's dawned on me recently how many women use 50 as a maximum as it's a nice round number. Am I going to lose the opportunity the meet some wonderful people because of this ?

I put my genuine age on here, and then when I meet people think I look younger than 50. I'm an honest guy and think this is the right way to go. Or should I simply credit myself with 3 years next month and wind the clock back? "

I remember dreading turning 50 on here!

Probably because 40’s were so easy and I knew things would change. I thought it would fall of a cliff but what happens on here is you get better with age and you begin to rely more on women contacting you

I like my 50’s on here, maybe as much as 40s even, there are plenty of women & couples who prefer older more experienced men so I wouldn’t worry about opportunities.

But if you’re even asking this question maybe you are not sure about yourself - and that itself could be the bigger problem.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"Honesty is the best policy in my book. I once had a meet with someone and found out they were 10 years older, 6 inches shorter and smoked when they said they didn’t.

Did you stay? "

Nope I don’t do dishonesty

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

body wise i can get away with much younger but not head wise,, no so tell the truth

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