FabSwingers.com forum: Women with coils?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, if I push in deep, will it hurt her or me?

Serious question.

Because, it looks like I could be hitting a wall if I start getting a little rough.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

They insert those bad boys pretty far up, I think you're fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had coils in the past and it was said that it could be felt by the guy....a sharp ish stab feeling when they went deep or at a certain angle.

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By *ee04Man
over a year ago

Essex

My ex had one and I could feel it when fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! Sorry.

But great question, talking from experience it is possible to feel it, but depends entirely on a number of factors. My ex had one, I could feel it if I cervix bashed (not glam I know). When she had it refitted years later they cut the little cord shorter to prevent this. And that worked, but obviously makes it a little tricker to remove. Although we experienced no issues.

But in terms of feeling them, I suppose the factors would be how well endowed you are, sex positions and how long the cord was cut too.

But being honest, it was never painful to feel. But it was obvious I could feel it, never caused us any issues.

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add, no it didn't hurt either of us.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've had coils in the past and it was said that it could be felt by the guy....a sharp ish stab feeling when they went deep or at a certain angle."

Yes. This has happened before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strings are not one size fits all. Also during the month, at varying stages of a woman’s cycle, the strings sit at different positions. I’ve had partners say they feel ‘poking’ at times.

If the strings have been left too long, it is possible to always feel them. I’ve had the beef to have strings cut months after placement in the past.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think we did a thread on this not long ago.

As a guy, fucking a woman with a coil fitted, you can sometimes feel it. Sometimes your cock hits part of it.

It depends on how the two of you fit together, what position you’re in, etc. Everyone’s different.

It feels weird to hit up against a coil, especially if you’re not expecting it. Not in an unpleasant way, just a ‘huh, there’s something solid in there and I just felt it’.

It’s not going to scratch or hurt you. Or her. And it’s not going to split your condom if you’re wearing one. Just carry on. And if it feels uncomfortable, for either of you, move. Change position.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
over a year ago

Doncaster & Bembridge

The wife had one when we first met. I'm sure I felt it slightly stab me especially if I had her legs over my shoulders giving it her deep

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

When Jo had one fitted I definitely thought I was hitting something

we asked a nurse and was told ‘no chance of that’ (not with that little thing!!

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It is tucked well away we were assured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex had one and I must say I never felt or noticed anything. Certainly didn't hurt ever.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It is tucked well away we were assured.

D."

As some said up the thread - I think it’s the string, wire, whatever hanging down from the coil. That’s what us blokes find our cocks touching against.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

I think some makes have thicker or more wiery strings than others. Mine are not too pokey (they fold against the neck of the womb) but R says he can still feel them on occasion. I've felt one woman's strings once but I had my whole hand in her!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It is tucked well away we were assured.

As some said up the thread - I think it’s the string, wire, whatever hanging down from the coil. That’s what us blokes find our cocks touching against."

I didn’t want to argue with a medical professional but I frickin knew she was wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must of been hitting it deep. Had to get mine pulled down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be a little stabby, for you

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I could feel it when I first got mine so I had this concern but hubby never did and he can get pretty far up there. But I can’t feel it anymore, it’s wayyyy up there now probably conversing with my other organs but it’s eviction notice has been posted.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It hurts him

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah sometimes you can depending where on the cycle you are (cervix lower then more chance) it'll bother you more than her probably.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forgot to add, no it didn't hurt either of us.

That’s actually a relief.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It can be a little stabby, for you

Why use the word “stab by!”?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When I had one donkey's years ago my husband could feel it, so I went back to my GP and she snipped a bit off the end.

She put it in and I don't think she was particularly good at it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"It can be a little stabby, for you

Why use the word “stab by!”?

Just go slowly to start. Have a little delve around with your fingers and see if there's anything protruding.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

One of my former partners was well over 11 inches and never mentioned being able to feel the coil strings.

They're not like sharp pokey things.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm going to assume that IUDs have better designs than in the 80s/90s.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

My husband could constantly feel my first one and the strings did cause irritation on his bellend

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My coil now has no strings

as I had a procedure done and it cut the strings by mistake probably a hospital job to remove it ..

He can still feel the actual coil but it causes more pain to me than him but he is quite above average so that probably explains it …

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I've had coils in the past and it was said that it could be felt by the guy....a sharp ish stab feeling when they went deep or at a certain angle."

Yeah i could feel the rip cord they have for being pulled out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine for years, doughnut has never said he could feel it or my ex husband (not at the same time, I know we are friends but even that is going too far!)

I'm sure if you are doing some weird and wonderful angles you might but I don't generally doing aerobatics when having sex

Danish x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

As far as I'm aware, it depends on the individual woman and also where she is on her cycle.

I can sometimes feel Alice's, or at least the 'ears' or whatever those bits are called.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"When Jo had one fitted I definitely thought I was hitting something

we asked a nurse and was told ‘no chance of that’ "

I'm not sure why a nurse would say that because it's just not true. When a coil is first fitted there is more chance of it and also when the cervix is lower at a certain point in the cycle.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I had to stop having a coil as it would hurt during sex. It also got dislodged.

My partners could feel them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"When Jo had one fitted I definitely thought I was hitting something

we asked a nurse and was told ‘no chance of that’

I'm not sure why a nurse would say that because it's just not true. When a coil is first fitted there is more chance of it and also when the cervix is lower at a certain point in the cycle."

I could definitely feel mine and it was solid.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I don't know tbh... Marc do you feel it??

Tinder

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"It is tucked well away we were assured.

As some said up the thread - I think it’s the string, wire, whatever hanging down from the coil. That’s what us blokes find our cocks touching against.

I didn’t want to argue with a medical professional but I frickin knew she was wrong!!

D."

There is no way you will touch the coil itself as it is actually in her womb. Correctly fitted the coil is passed completely through the cervix .The only thing you will feel is the strings. They are there so the coil can be removed.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"My husband could constantly feel my first one and the strings did cause irritation on his bellend

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My coil now has no strings

as I had a procedure done and it cut the strings by mistake probably a hospital job to remove it ..

He can still feel the actual coil but it causes more pain to me than him but he is quite above average so that probably explains it …"

If he can feel the actual coil then you need to get checked out. The coil itself should be in your womb and no part of it should be near the cervix entrance.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I don't know tbh... Marc do you feel it??

Tinder "

Nope but that might say more about me than anything else

Marc

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Well I have one and it doesn't hurt me however deep and hard he thrusts lol.

But he can feel the ends of the little wires sometimes, as can I with my fingers but they're not painful for him x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"But he can feel the ends of the little wires sometimes, as can I with my fingers but they're not painful for him x "

Exactly that. Yeah.

It can be a surprise the first time, is all. One of those things nobody warns you about - so this thread is probably a good thing!

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By *ts.Only.CharlieWoman
over a year ago

Wimborne

I have got the coil fitted but they tucked the strings with the coil. As in you cannot feel the strings at all. I've had a few cocks that has hurt like feels like it is in my bladder haha. But no one has said that they have felt a poking sensation.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I've had coils in the past and it was said that it could be felt by the guy....a sharp ish stab feeling when they went deep or at a certain angle."

This.

It's not too painful but, like an astronaut with a hot indercarriage, itcan make you reasses your angle of entry

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"I've had coils in the past and it was said that it could be felt by the guy....a sharp ish stab feeling when they went deep or at a certain angle."
yes this is true.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It might improve the wi fi ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It can be a little stabby, for you

Why use the word “stab by!”?

Just go slowly to start. Have a little delve around with your fingers and …...

Sounds hot….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes in the cervix, if you're hitting the cervix it isn't fun for her, coil or no coil. So, really, you shouldn't feel it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the actual coil you can feel. As mentioned above, it's pretty far in. It's likely the wire/string used to open/close when it's inserted. Had a similar experience with an Ex, she mentioned it yo her GP and that was the response

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By *oddess NailaWoman
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I have a coil and it’s been life changing but if I think about it makes my stomach feel queasy and legs go numb!

I’ve been told by quite a few guys they can feel it when things get a little rough but makes no difference to me

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