FabSwingers.com forum: Double Standards

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What gets your goat x

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By *o womenWoman
over a year ago

ayr

People ask for pics then block you a no thanks would be sufficient

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that."

I would call that the Andrew Tate effect x

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that."

That's so last century. . . Women have the power now.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

What gets my goat?

1: bad rhetoric

2: bad spelling and grammar

3: bad driving

4: cowboy builders

5: running out of money

6: Vladimir Putin

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

On FAB OP ,? Nothing anymore . Accept how it works or leave. I chose to stay and roll with it.In life outside I would say the injustice that those who have the least pay the most for many of life's essentials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way the world views men and women. Men are cold, heartless bastards and women are cherubs that always have to have a reason to do something wrong. Bizarre how much of a pass women get in life in general.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Middle lane drivers!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On fab the double standards are there for everyone to see.

Some choose to ignore or enable them for equally obvious reasons while others are apologists.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

The farmer

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What gets your goat x"

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr "

Double standards!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The accommodation one is my favourite. People who cant/won't accommodate also stipulating that they will not meet at a hotel, and if you can't accommodate then you must have something to hide...

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Folk writing "quiet" when they mean "quite",and "quite" when they mean "quiet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The accommodation one is my favourite. People who cant/won't accommodate also stipulating that they will not meet at a hotel, and if you can't accommodate then you must have something to hide..."

That's one of my favourites. Women can't accommodate? Their home is their space, their sanctuary where their children live. Why would they ever let a stranger in their safe space? Men can't accommodate? Must have a wife that doesn't know he's fucking other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Action shots as well. It seems that they're more well received on a single woman's profile than on a single male's unless the shot is 90% the woman. I think they can be tastefully by both.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr "

Look ..... No one said you SHOULD own a goat but you definitely COULD.... maybe if you just put in a little bit of effort you'd be knee deep in goat. Where can you get one ? Try Googling ....... no one here is your secretary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single male decides to cancel at the last minute? Absolute tosser, time waster, fantasist, totally not worth your time babes.

A single woman does the same? Well of course she's allowed to change her mind!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"A single male decides to cancel at the last minute? Absolute tosser, time waster, fantasist, totally not worth your time babes.

A single woman does the same? Well of course she's allowed to change her mind!"

You are so understanding Sister !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of women’s profiles

And yes I know before any bombardment, everyone has a preference blah blah blah

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

people that drive at 30 in a 50 mph zone creating a huge fuckin convoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who cheat get a free ride. Men who cheat - you heartless BEAST etc

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr

Fucking hell! Calm down, go back to bed, get out the right side and just send me a goat.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How certain posters use dog whistles to get across their racist, misogynist, transphobic agendas and yet it's the people who are passionate about their opposing views who are irrational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr

Fucking hell! Calm down, go back to bed, get out the right side and just send me a goat.

The mr "

What about an Oxfam goat? For charideee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How certain posters use dog whistles to get across their racist, misogynist, transphobic agendas and yet it's the people who are passionate about their opposing views who are irrational

And are the ones who get bans...

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By *angler 321Man
over a year ago

Hereford

People who demand pictures but have none on their profile!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Folk writing "quiet" when they mean "quite",and "quite" when they mean "quiet"

Oh be quite. I have had quiet enough of this!

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that."

Slut can be a term of endearment.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that.

I would call that the Andrew Tate effect x"

That effect has been around for centuries. Wouldn't give that twat any credit. He might enjoy it. Not that he is on Fab

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that.

Slut can be a term of endearment."

Not in that context

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"What gets my goat?

1: bad rhetoric

2: bad spelling and grammar

3: bad driving

4: cowboy builders

5: running out of money

6: Vladimir Putin "

What get's my goat is people who don't read a thread title about Double Standards and just post things that get their goat.. Oh hang on I've just done the same thing. Double Standard.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means. "

It means having two stands. One of which is hard. (The h is silent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means. "

What does it mean to you?

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Discounted rates for women. I get it, but it gets my goat

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?"

Just realised the thread isn’t about double standards

. Must read threads properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?

Just realised the thread isn’t about double standards

. Must read threads properly

It's not? Guess that makes two of us

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

What gets my goat, my pigmy Alpaca

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?

Just realised the thread isn’t about double standards

. Must read threads properly

Some weird sort of click bait shit.

Is it what gets our goat with a disconnected title? As far as click bait it's okay, but I've seen better.

Or is it what gets our goat about double standards?

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff

Guys who claim to be straight in profile, but then pm saying they are bi. For they are many!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Men with a high body count = a total lad

Woman with a high body count = a slut

And other things like that."

And yet you are here looking to get a high body count? Or have I read your reply incorrectly?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"The way the world views men and women. Men are cold, heartless bastards and women are cherubs that always have to have a reason to do something wrong. Bizarre how much of a pass women get in life in general."

Ah I so agree with you on that. It's really the reason I have all but given up on dating and this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman has a few extra pounds on her and “she’s a big, beautiful, woman”

I have a few extra pounds on me and it’s “what the fuck are doing going through my knicker drawer you fat, sad, pathetic old man do that again and I’m calling the police”

The hypocrisy!

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"A woman has a few extra pounds on her and “she’s a big, beautiful, woman”

I have a few extra pounds on me and it’s “what the fuck are doing going through my knicker drawer you fat, sad, pathetic old man do that again and I’m calling the police”

The hypocrisy! "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?"

I see it all the time, I can’t list everything! One that particularly gets my goat is that I’m bi but I’m not really into bi men. Apparently that’s double standards. Is it fuck!

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

Thread coments i agree about double standars. When i was married i was seeing others (dont know my history and don't care about your judgement). What got my goat was guys/gals wanting to meet but slated guys for cheating. Oh and how vindictive people can be.

Women do get a free pass it is just the way it is and always will be.

Deer are related to goats ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people that drive at 30 in a 50 mph zone creating a huge fuckin convoy"

Exactly this standard.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Middle lane drivers! "

Stay in your lane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way ask a farmer about buying a goat plenty of farms.

Or adopt one.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?

I see it all the time, I can’t list everything! One that particularly gets my goat is that I’m bi but I’m not really into bi men. Apparently that’s double standards. Is it fuck! "

It's a double standard. Your preference I agree but still double standard.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?

I see it all the time, I can’t list everything! One that particularly gets my goat is that I’m bi but I’m not really into bi men. Apparently that’s double standards. Is it fuck!

It's a double standard. Your preference I agree but still double standard. "

Nope. It’s not

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women with partners fawn over actors, musicians, sportsmen quite openly without a care in the world. Some go as far as putting their favourite picture of them on the fridge or cupboard door. I have seen this quite a few times.

Men so much as glance at another women it's spare room job.

The upside is that it makes us men try harder!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I h8 peeps that use txt spk or slang and use words in the wrong contest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rock paper scissors

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think the term double standards is thrown about willy nilly on here. I don’t think a lot of people really know what it means.

What does it mean to you?

I see it all the time, I can’t list everything! One that particularly gets my goat is that I’m bi but I’m not really into bi men. Apparently that’s double standards. Is it fuck!

It's a double standard. Your preference I agree but still double standard.

Nope. It’s not "

Indeed. That is not a double standard

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr

Fucking hell! Calm down, go back to bed, get out the right side and just send me a goat.

The mr

What about an Oxfam goat? For charideee

Afraid not, just given the one in town a call, they have no goats, the lady in the phone got quite annoyed when I asked when she’d get more in, apparently they’ve never sold them and she doesn’t know where to buy one.

I think you lot are just winding me up.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys who claim to be straight in profile, but then pm saying they are bi. For they are many!

Those would be the midnight wankers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What gets your goat x

Forgive my retardedness but is this a trick question, because I don’t own a goat.

The mr

Double standards!

I’m confused

Why should I own a goat ?

Where do you even buy one, never seen one in b&m and they sell everything.

The mr

Fucking hell! Calm down, go back to bed, get out the right side and just send me a goat.

The mr

What about an Oxfam goat? For charideee

I think you lot are just winding me up.

The mr "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How people will accuse you of being an attention seeker, whinge about the ways you do fab to stop you doing so (and effectively take out the competition) while being utter attention seekers themselves and thinking they're it.

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

"Guys who claim to be straight in profile, but then pm saying they are bi. For they are many!

Those would be the midnight wankers x"

Not always. If you advertise you’re bi you get inundated with messages from single guys even if you say not to do this in your profile.

It gets wearing after a while.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys who claim to be straight in profile, but then pm saying they are bi. For they are many!

Those would be the midnight wankers x

Not always. If you advertise you’re bi you get inundated with messages from single guys even if you say not to do this in your profile.

It gets wearing after a while. "

The amount of guys that change to bi is hilarious orally bi of course x

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

Double standards don’t get my goat. I’m stoically indifferent to things I can’t control. That necessarily includes everything about other people.

That said, the double standards I see are endlessly fascinating.

For example, promiscuity in men and women is in general treated very differently. Similarly, expressing a preference for physical types and attributes is treated differently when expressed by one sex or the other.

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