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PERSONAS .. sure some people change here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In ancient Latin, persona meant "mask." In my years meet some very nice and some different people who come and go here. But for some each new name its like a different persona .. Bit like a actor thay go into some other person . ? Maybe it there cover , lol and really under cover.I like to think i am same on here as if you meet me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is your user name your mask ? And do you change ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me, what you see you get, I try to be true to myself, no point in being something youre not.

You lot would soon sus me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find i am me on here and pretty much the same in person. Sometimes though things you say in written word and face to face can come across different. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With us, what you see is what you get, We try to be true to ouurselves, no point in being or trying to be something you're not.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Nope, I can be just as much of a hard nosed, straight talking, take no prisoners bitch in person as I am on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just i new this lady and she would say in everyday life a mum a housewife . But as soon as she clicked on her sexy name and she sign in her site ... She was a real wild cat say and do things she would never normal say . And why not maybe her way to chill .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years, and across various sites (with other interests than this area) I have had many names.

If a site is 'tuned' to a specific interest, I would most probably keep my posting (if there were a forum) to that general area of interest.

I see n issue with cahnging names across sites, or indeed if returning to site. I would consider it as if I might be joining a new community with a whole range of new people. A fresh start.

However, I wouldn't have changed within myself. Still the same person.

People do change over time, and through life experience, we all do.

So when seeing a "returnee" to a site whom one may recognise, one might also notice changes in thier "percieved persona".

Whether or not these changes are a deliberate choice of the returnee, or the natural changes of 'life' would be hard to tell.

Confidence waxes and wains, choices and preferences may vary - this is life.

We never all (no matter what we think) remain the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I can be just as much of a hard nosed, straight talking, take no prisoners bitch in person as I am on here. "

oooooooooo is that today's persona then lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Apparently my username is very app for me...apparently i suit it well...lol so i guess i am a real miss cheekychops lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for 6/7 years I come and I leave but always keep same name Kittenxx I am sure if I changed it I could turn into a different person hence I keep it lol

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By *xscotMan
over a year ago

Kingston

If all you are going to do is chat her - then a fake persona works - however it is difficult to keep it up consistently.

thus I try to be true to myself - its easier that way

and life is meant to be fun - not trying to confound people

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Nope, I can be just as much of a hard nosed, straight talking, take no prisoners bitch in person as I am on here.

oooooooooo is that today's persona then lol "

It's always there, just waiting to be unleashed. All it takes is a moment where straight talking is called for and then people look at me like an alien has popped out of my chest and has got their testicles between its teeth with that 'go on, push me' look in it's eye

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm sorry luvvie I have to go rehearse my lines for today's Matinee..

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just i new this lady and she would say in everyday life a mum a housewife . But as soon as she clicked on her sexy name and she sign in her site ... She was a real wild cat say and do things she would never normal say . And why not maybe her way to chill ."

Lol maybe we're all like that. Aside from mr notts I don't display my slutty side to any family friends or colleagues. This is private.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

No, I really am an insane time-travelling savior of humanity. It's true.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

whenever i have met someone from here they are always suprised,im really chatty and i have a daft sense of humour so obviously that doesnt come across well on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live up to my name in real life too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am far more polite and diplomatic online than off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If all you are going to do is chat her - then a fake persona works - however it is difficult to keep it up consistently.

thus I try to be true to myself - its easier that way

and life is meant to be fun - not trying to confound people "
maybe why alot get let down meeting people thay chat to as not real and just a persona living out there fantasies .. you never know. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No mask here, unless it's for getting kinky

I am who I am always!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I’d have no reason to come here if I adopted the same persona everyday life…

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

All of my personalities are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of my personalities are genuine."

Abso-fook’in-lutely Muckster,,,,,

All mine are genuine too…. But that doesn’t mean they all have to be the same…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same on here as I am in person. I Don't see the point in pretending to be something you're not. Sooner or later you'll get found out

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"All of my personalities are genuine."

I can confirm that as fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is your user name your mask ? And do you change ?"

The username is just an eye catching statement, my real name is my mask...its not who i am...its what my folks named me...

Is your persona really a mask? or is the mask actually who you know yourself to really be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IM sure there are people on here who will adjust to suit their needs or their desires - its human nature - but equally there will be individuals who are just themselves - I think there is a place for both on somewhere like this, for some its an escape, the chance to be someone outside of their normal life, for others this is their life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this discussion at Chams on Sunday when we all got together. Were we the same in person as we are on the forums. I think everyone agreed that we all were as mad in person as in real life so to speak.

I know there's little bits of me that I hold back from the forums and generally in my life that certain individuals get to see when I'm ready but that is the same I think in any relationship.

I have met a number of forumites and people from Fab and I can count on a few fingers the ones who have an online persona - they tend to be the ones that you will only see one verification for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is your user name your mask ? And do you change ?"

Our user name has nothing to do with our personality, we like sex and live nearly on the beach..... Sex_on the beach.....

We don't hide behind a mask either, what you see is what you get with us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No masks here

Tho I could bloody do with one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wasn't aware of any fabswingers persona for myself per se, my profile name is drearily dull, my forum contributions are uninspiring and my profile is average. I'm just normal usual average me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No masks here

Tho I could bloody do with one "

Christ! I thought you WERE wearing one!!!!

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"No, I really am an insane time-travelling savior of humanity. It's true. "

Come back and join the 19th Century Romantics. We have cookies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No masks here

Tho I could bloody do with one

Christ! I thought you WERE wearing one!!!! "

PMSL

You can go off people ya know !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No masks here

Tho I could bloody do with one

Christ! I thought you WERE wearing one!!!!

PMSL

You can go off people ya know ! "

Sorry, mate. Couldn't resist!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"No masks here

Tho I could bloody do with one "

if ya get two, pass me one

Wolf

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Call me cynical but I don't believe anyone on here. It's very easy to be a different person behind a computer screen.

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very definitely two different people. It's great, it freaketh people out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Call me cynical but I don't believe anyone on here. It's very easy to be a different person behind a computer screen.

Steve"

Yes? Oh sorry....I'm pleased to read your post though....hope for me yet!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I would say I am me and that that includes several "personas" anyway, sometimes I am serious, sometimes pensive and thoughtful, other times I love being playful, enjoy teasing and yet other times I like a healthy debate. So yes, I guess there is room for several personas without being disingenuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am very definitely two different people. It's great, it freaketh people out "

Me too. Great isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case I'd say that, to most people, my real face is actually the mask and so therefore the persona is very much the real me just in a concentrated dose - expressing myself the way I can't in the outside world because you have to edit yourself so much. Either way, I'm the real me, nobody else... wait...

This is turning into Total Recall...

YOU BLEWWW MY COVERRRR!!!

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

It's funny how this post made me think. I am pretty much the same "out there" as I am in here. My profile name was given to me by someone I was seeing three years ago and didn't consider myself to be anything like a "Sex Goddess". But as time went on, and I found out more about myself sexually, I realised he was completely right. However, in the last few months, I have wondered whether I should change it, given the passage of time, but this post had me thinking. Have I changed inside? Do I still want to explore things sexually, do I still have fun and more importantly, to my guys still want to see me? The answer to all of the above is yes, so the Scottish Sex Goddess is here to stay, for now anyway lol.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for sure, I am different in everyday life than what I am on here at times...

and thank christ for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is where I try to convince people I've never met that I'm me..

Well I have many different personas, all of them are still me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"for sure, I am different in everyday life than what I am on here at times...

and thank christ for that"
well i like you here xx what you like in person xx ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"IM sure there are people on here who will adjust to suit their needs or their desires - its human nature - but equally there will be individuals who are just themselves - I think there is a place for both on somewhere like this, for some its an escape, the chance to be someone outside of their normal life, for others this is their life.."
what a lovely post and yes i think your right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is your user name your mask ? And do you change ?"

change no

I am me, i am different tho on meets to in my every day life but thats because people i meet off here arnt people in my every day life so i dont treat them the same

There are may things i wouldnt talk about on a meet that i would with friends, so tho i wouldnt say i put a act on for meets i do act differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here as elsewhere - i was brought up proper and behave according to the company i share

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"same here as elsewhere - i was brought up proper and behave according to the company i share "
yes maybe lots do that too here xx

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