FabSwingers.com forum: Do your friends know you swing?

By *illy Idol OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Why would I want my friends knowing the details of my sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t but if they found out I wouldn’t give a hoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends do not know I use this site. Top secret.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Some do some dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope none of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi op

One sex is not dirty it is natural pleasure.

Plus we are all here for various reasons.

Do I tell anyone, I believe my private life stays private. No need to keep anything a secret people accept me as I am.

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By *otguy555Man
over a year ago

Bristol

One of our friends found out about us swinging and we ended up sleeping with him

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Some do know I am on a site but not which one and what I get up to

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was never one to talk about my sex life to my friends anyway. pt

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By *illy Idol OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I do wonder how many are open about it. I find it more exciting that nobody knows

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Hmmm... now there's a noun I may need to google.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend does, because she's the "security" contact. She knows where we're going, who we're seeing, and as much information as we can give her about the people we are meeting.

I find this extra important when I do solo meets. Another people looking out for me.

But otherwise? Not really. I don't hide it as such, but it never seems to come into general conversation!

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By *illy Idol OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"My best friend does, because she's the "security" contact. She knows where we're going, who we're seeing, and as much information as we can give her about the people we are meeting.

I find this extra important when I do solo meets. Another people looking out for me.

But otherwise? Not really. I don't hide it as such, but it never seems to come into general conversation!"

Very wise

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

All my friends know, if I didn't fell comfortable telling them about myself completely then I would not consider them friends but mere acquaintances.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’ll try this again… some of our friends know we’ve had adventures, and they know we have other friends that we get kinky with. But they don’t know we’re on this site.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My friends all know I'm poly and swing. Some don't want any more details. Some want to hear all about every dungeon and club visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any friends. Keeps it simple

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yeah my friends live vicariously through me, I’m the token single girl with a wild sex life apparently. I don’t like to tell them I spend most weekends in my Star Wars pyjamas eating pizza.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"

Dirty?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"

My close friends know but the associates don't need to know. It's none of their business and I don't ask them about their personal life either

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our closest friends know and they are quite intrigued. They often ask us questions about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most friends are people I met on kink scene

Some know am on this site but not sure would call what I do swinging

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

A considerable amount of my friends know that I'm in an ENM relationship,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most do. Not ashamed. If people ask about my sex lite I’m happy to tell them

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"

Yes my friends know I am a swinger. Its not a dirty little secret... my family and my children know too.

I don't give details... just that I choose this lifestyle

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Yeah my friends live vicariously through me, I’m the token single girl with a wild sex life apparently. I don’t like to tell them I spend most weekends in my Star Wars pyjamas eating pizza. "

That sounds kind of perfect though x

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Friends and colleagues do

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Family / friends all do yes

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Few do but funny thing is some are and attend the clubs we are grown ups

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

My (mr) friends know yeah. Had a ton of questions when they first found out but hardly ever mention it now

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Some do. Some don’t. I’ve never outright said, I wouldn’t. But I’m honest with them when they’ve asked questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends know I have meets with people on here. But they don't know about the bi side of me....and the meets with men!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Some friends know. Most don't.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Some do. Some don’t

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

A few have or believe they have some knowledge or awareness of my involvement what they’d probably be thinking are tv/movie style threesomes but that’s about it. I’d be confident in saying they wouldn’t know I’m in the scene. They’re all extremely vanilla I and wouldn’t be surprised to discover that most of them neither know a scene exists nor have even considered the concept of there being such a thing in existence lol

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By *pforfun12Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Crack on it’s all good fun

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my guy friends know but the girls don’t - they would be horrified, shocked, perplexed etc etc - and worried about my safety! I’m not ashamed of it at all but just don’t think they would understand, and can’t be bothered explaining and justifying.

Guys are more ok with it it seems. But then again I’ve made a few of my good guy friends on here hahaha, it’s how I met them in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few have or believe they have some knowledge or awareness of my involvement what they’d probably be thinking are tv/movie style threesomes but that’s about it. I’d be confident in saying they wouldn’t know I’m in the scene. They’re all extremely vanilla I and wouldn’t be surprised to discover that most of them neither know a scene exists nor have even considered the concept of there being such a thing in existence lol "

Hahaha exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Close friends, yes

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"
I haven't met anybody yet so I'm not a swinger yet,so they can say what they like. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the male friends do but they don’t know about the site. Few females do, one asked her hubby about it and he wasn’t happy, she had to leave work lol

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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago

birchington

Most of my family and friends know that I've been swinging for many years but they don't know what sites I'm on

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Most of my friends and family know, it's no biggy to me really

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

A couple of them do, but generally I wouldn't talk about my sex life with anybody anyway, even if it didn't involve more than the two of us.

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By *omptationMan
over a year ago

liverpool

A few do yeah, I was actually having a conversation with a couple about it just on Saturday.

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By *unRunFun7965Man
over a year ago

Pittsburgh

They don’t know. They would be very surprised.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Yes

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Nope, it's not their business.

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"Intrigued to know if your friends know you're a swinger or whether it's your dirty little secret?"

Nope, I’m not interested in knowing there’s unless they come to me and ask to chat about something bothering them and like wise I have no interest in publicising private stuff to any old person, which it will as they’ll then talk to others about etc and before you know it people who’ve never meet you know etc

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

A couple of close friends know, they we're very surprised but are intrigued, my dad knows too that one was an accident he tried to join a social media group aimed towards the lifestyle and he noticed we we're both admin that was slightly awkward but he's a chilled out bloke and didn't care, just the usual look after yourself speach.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not and I like having this to myself

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Some of my friends I first met in this lifestyle

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

It's a secret. Now and again when I am out with them I have to stop myself being naughty. X

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It’s our dirty little secret

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

No. It's a secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, but mostly all my friends are swingers!. When I had work colleagues that I used to go out with, they all knew but since I changed jobs a month ago, even if I become close with any of my colleagues (highly doubtful) I will not tell any of them as my old work colleagues just found me fascinating and always topic of conversation so I'd rather keep that side of my life private.

Danish x

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my friends on here

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By *illy Idol OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"A couple of close friends know, they we're very surprised but are intrigued, my dad knows too that one was an accident he tried to join a social media group aimed towards the lifestyle and he noticed we we're both admin that was slightly awkward but he's a chilled out bloke and didn't care, just the usual look after yourself speach.

Mrs "

Love this

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