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" Chronological age on its own is one factor, but beyond it what matters is maturity. " Absolutely! | |||
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"I seem to get blocked from quite a few couples/single ladies, being classed as to old… but, that’s fine. I’m ok with EVERYONE being allowed a preference." What age are those who block you | |||
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"Doesn't really matter for me. If we have an attraction to each other & get on well that's the main thing" How many 80 year olds have you found yourself attracted to lately ? | |||
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"I seem to get blocked from quite a few couples/single ladies, being classed as to old… but, that’s fine. I’m ok with EVERYONE being allowed a preference. What age are those who block you" Funny enough, they are around my age early 40’s they seem to want young chaps…which is fine.. | |||
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"I seem to get blocked from quite a few couples/single ladies, being classed as to old… but, that’s fine. I’m ok with EVERYONE being allowed a preference. What age are those who block you Funny enough, they are around my age early 40’s they seem to want young chaps…which is fine.." And there are no clues on their profile that they're looking to meet younger guys? | |||
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"I seem to get blocked from quite a few couples/single ladies, being classed as to old… but, that’s fine. I’m ok with EVERYONE being allowed a preference." In the same boat but agree totally that everyone has preferences | |||
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"Yes, I don't want to fuck anyone who is old enough to be my mum or young enough to be my child. " Same for me too | |||
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"Nope. its his look. I rule out all baby and santa faces" Ditto, you explained it well! | |||
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"The answer for me is that it's subjective obviously - but morally speaking (and Fab is often quite a moral place) why should age matter? pt" Because to some, there’s an association which stops attraction. Same as any preference really, this one has just been explained in a way that you don’t feel. Doesn’t make anyone wrong for liking 18-99+ but you also can’t say they’re wrong for not wanting to. | |||
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"The answer for me is that it's subjective obviously - but morally speaking (and Fab is often quite a moral place) why should age matter? pt Because to some, there’s an association which stops attraction. Same as any preference really, this one has just been explained in a way that you don’t feel. Doesn’t make anyone wrong for liking 18-99+ but you also can’t say they’re wrong for not wanting to. " .Fair enough, but you didn't need the last bit really.. I am not saying they are 'wrong' for not wanting broader age ranges, and I'm sure nobody else would say that too! (Ok apart from some desperate fabbers... but you know what I mean.) I just feel that highlighting this reason is a bit off, but a few people always do it. That is always going to feel off to some of us who don't feel that way tbh. Because of the topic or connotations I guess. It's because it just seems really irrelevant to me - but I guess I'm assuming that people really aren't into it because they just aren't into it. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe people's own family actually do put them off and they are simply explaining this fact. pt | |||
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"I don't really like reading about kids and parents in these threads. If you are just not into people being much older or younger, I think that's all most people really need to know. If you are actually attracted to older but you then think of your parents (or kids etc) and it puts you off then that's equally a bit weird to me I guess. So to people who do like a lot older (as I do with men) - or perhaps like a lot younger people if that's your thing - then for the vast majority of those people their parents and kids will have nothing to do with it of course, it just won't be on their minds. They might of course think of *themselves* being *younger* for sure - which can work very well both with being with older people (who can automatically make you feel younger) and with being with younger too of course (which takes you back). It's a huge factor in age play and dressing up etc - rekindling our youthful days is just huge in sexuality. But they won't be thinking of their parents or kids I'm sure. There is just something about the connotation that suggests a connection somehow aught to be there, and then of course it makes it wrong. The answer for me is that it's subjective obviously - but morally speaking (and Fab is often quite a moral place) why should age matter? pt" I'm a father of 3 girls in their late 20s and early 30s. It has nothing to do with thinking about them when having sex and everything to do with having zero sexual thoughts about anyone that age. I block everyone within 10 years of their age because I'm not interested in the slightest. I don't care how sexually mature or experienced anyone in their 20s or 30s are because I won't be engaging with them and certainly won't be having sex with them. It's the same reason I block all men. | |||
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"I don't really like reading about kids and parents in these threads. If you are just not into people being much older or younger, I think that's all most people really need to know. If you are actually attracted to older but you then think of your parents (or kids etc) and it puts you off then that's equally a bit weird to me I guess. So to people who do like a lot older (as I do with men) - or perhaps like a lot younger people if that's your thing - then for the vast majority of those people their parents and kids will have nothing to do with it of course, it just won't be on their minds. They might of course think of *themselves* being *younger* for sure - which can work very well both with being with older people (who can automatically make you feel younger) and with being with younger too of course (which takes you back). It's a huge factor in age play and dressing up etc - rekindling our youthful days is just huge in sexuality. But they won't be thinking of their parents or kids I'm sure. There is just something about the connotation that suggests a connection somehow aught to be there, and then of course it makes it wrong. The answer for me is that it's subjective obviously - but morally speaking (and Fab is often quite a moral place) why should age matter? pt I'm a father of 3 girls in their late 20s and early 30s. It has nothing to do with thinking about them when having sex and everything to do with having zero sexual thoughts about anyone that age. I block everyone within 10 years of their age because I'm not interested in the slightest. I don't care how sexually mature or experienced anyone in their 20s or 30s are because I won't be engaging with them and certainly won't be having sex with them. It's the same reason I block all men. " Fair enough obviously, but I need to say that I wasn't ever referring to people like you at all. I fully expect that most people are attracted to sexual partners who are 'broadly' in their own age ranges anyway (eg your 10 year max range going narrower). pt | |||
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"As much as height does, sometimes, so yes and no " Can definitely understand this haha | |||
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"On a general scale, no. But from a sex point of view, yes. I find the thought of sex with people younger than me icky and the thought of sex with people old enough to be my grandad off-putting. " What about old enough to be your dad? | |||
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"Playmates, age is just a number, we still have the energy to have fun. " Speak for yourself. I can barely take my pts off without getting out of breath. Foreplay before sex? Look, it’s one or the other!… | |||
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"Age matters Height matters Weight matters Face matters Personality matters Cock size matters Matters is a funny word..." What about location? | |||
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"Age matters Height matters Weight matters Face matters Personality matters Cock size matters Matters is a funny word... What about location? " Not personally but I guess for some. | |||
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"Hey,young people.... Here's a wake up for you,one day you will see a really nice looking woman, or man.whatever your preference..and think ,they look really nice! And you'll be really attracted to them because in your mind you're still in your prime and you're brain will lie to you saying that you're still young and attractive. Look in the mirror and you see this oldie looking back at you and can't figure out why or where the years went to So, when someone old enough to be your parent, or grand parent!! messages you...don't be an arsehole,don't message back saying eeeugh! They were young like you once,and sure as night follows day you will be old too one day So be nice, time is coming for you too" Or, older people could just stop expecting someone much younger to be grateful for their advances | |||
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"Hey,young people.... Here's a wake up for you,one day you will see a really nice looking woman, or man.whatever your preference..and think ,they look really nice! And you'll be really attracted to them because in your mind you're still in your prime and you're brain will lie to you saying that you're still young and attractive. Look in the mirror and you see this oldie looking back at you and can't figure out why or where the years went to So, when someone old enough to be your parent, or grand parent!! messages you...don't be an arsehole,don't message back saying eeeugh! They were young like you once,and sure as night follows day you will be old too one day So be nice, time is coming for you too Or, older people could just stop expecting someone much younger to be grateful for their advances " That wasn't the point I was making at all..nothing about expecting gratitude. | |||
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"I'm unlikely to meet anyone under 40 - i don't know what we'd have in common, plus I'd be super aware of my body " What, you mean the body in your pics isn't yours?.... | |||
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"I'm unlikely to meet anyone under 40 - i don't know what we'd have in common, plus I'd be super aware of my body What, you mean the body in your pics isn't yours?.... " ... It's a 53 year old body.. It's defo better from a distance or in dim lighting! | |||
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"I'm unlikely to meet anyone under 40 - i don't know what we'd have in common, plus I'd be super aware of my body What, you mean the body in your pics isn't yours?.... ... It's a 53 year old body.. It's defo better from a distance or in dim lighting! " You look pretty darn good to me. I have no hesitation in taking you to bed. | |||
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"I'm unlikely to meet anyone under 40 - i don't know what we'd have in common, plus I'd be super aware of my body What, you mean the body in your pics isn't yours?.... ... It's a 53 year old body.. It's defo better from a distance or in dim lighting! You look pretty darn good to me. I have no hesitation in taking you to bed. " 'cor such a charmer | |||
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"Hey,young people.... Here's a wake up for you,one day you will see a really nice looking woman, or man.whatever your preference..and think ,they look really nice! And you'll be really attracted to them because in your mind you're still in your prime and you're brain will lie to you saying that you're still young and attractive. Look in the mirror and you see this oldie looking back at you and can't figure out why or where the years went to So, when someone old enough to be your parent, or grand parent!! messages you...don't be an arsehole,don't message back saying eeeugh! They were young like you once,and sure as night follows day you will be old too one day So be nice, time is coming for you too" Or you could read profiles and pay attention to the age range. | |||
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"When someone has not been honest about it then yes. On here it does not matter so much but on dating sites then yes. If you are 52 for example then just say so rather than state that you are 10 years younger." I'm 52! | |||
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"Not really not for me I'm happy from 20-60 we are all adults." Are you aware your profile has an age range? | |||
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"Yes 80 yr old in battle wouldnt be pretty" They would if you were in your 80's | |||
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"Age matters Height matters Weight matters Face matters Personality matters Cock size matters Matters is a funny word..." But it still matters | |||
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"Hello asked it before but back to see who else wants to comment. Does age matter to you? Less, more,similar? What's your preference" Good Morning all Yes age matters to most on fab As most filters set to 55 on upper age limit | |||
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"I will not have sex with 18 to 99. Any 99 year olds here? Just curious" 38 to 58 is my range | |||
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" Chronological age on its own is one factor, but beyond it what matters is maturity. " | |||
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"Yeah I wouldn’t feel comfortable seeing someone in their twenties in the same age bracket as my son. Just feels weird to me. " Yes I agree have to be older than my eldest child otherwise just too weird.. He's 31 | |||
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"Yeah, it matters to me. In person, it's more about attraction but there can be too big of an age gap in terms of how old I go and the idea of fucking an 18 or 19 year old gives me the ick." On the plus side they probably also say ick | |||
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"I tend to have a lower limit rather than an upper one. For me a women usually enters her sexual prime in her forties/fifties - that is the age that she becomes comfortable in her own skin, knows what she wants and doesn’t want and is less bothered by social pressure. I find that exciting. " Agree | |||
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