FabSwingers.com forum: Body Positivity

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now for some body positivity, I'm not the most confident in my own skin I'll be the 1st to admit it, but I've braved it posted and owned my non lingered posed self, it's not glamorous but neither am I, none of us are perfect!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

I love this! Just fabbed it. It takes courage to post what you feel is those pics, but you have done it and my goodness you look gorgeous. I

A guy once said to me that men don't often notice bodyshapes, they notice confidence and if a girl is confident in her skin then that makes her the sexiest girl in the room

I am just getting to a point where I love my body, I like what I see and I own it, I own my flaws and imperfections and I am at peace with that. I love my curves, I love my lumps bumps and squishy bits. They are a testament to Motherhood.

Of course I am a work in progress, I gym and do classes, getting healthier, fitter, slimmer

Perfectly imperfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your new photo is absolutely beautiful.

I've posted a photo of me to join you in this as I feel strongly against body shaming too. Our bodies are amazing, what they go through daily, the heart constantly beating, the brain constantly working, let alone producing children and nurturing them for 9 months. So I'm naked in my photo, showing my ugly operation scars and stretch marks. I hate them but they are part of me.

We all need to learn to love ourselves how we are. We are amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the brightest of stars don't see their own light but others do see you. See yourself through those eyes and someday you'll believe it too. Let's all have less self criticism and more self love

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not much more to say

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

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"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

Your figure is stunning I would love your figure

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

I love this! Just fabbed it. It takes courage to post what you feel is those pics, but you have done it and my goodness you look gorgeous. I

A guy once said to me that men don't often notice bodyshapes, they notice confidence and if a girl is confident in her skin then that makes her the sexiest girl in the room

Of course I am a work in progress, I gym and do classes, getting healthier, fitter, slimmer

Perfectly imperfect

Thank you

your photos look beautiful we are most certainly are own worst critics, you look absolutely amazing.

I'm pleased you have found love with your curves and squishy bits that's absolutely amazing!!

Mrs

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By *0astMan
over a year ago

Discovering

You’ve a beautiful and stunning figure, lovely photos too, very arty, love Emm.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your new photo is absolutely beautiful.

We all need to learn to love ourselves how we are. We are amazing."

Thank you, your photo is beautiful I fabbed before I saw this response, thank you for joining me, it's a hard thing to be completely raw!

I'll be honest I didn't think I'd post it I said to the Mr I need to do it before I can't.

You are beautiful and I absolutely love your pics, profile and positivity & even more so your compassion and understanding

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sometimes the brightest of stars don't see their own light but others do see you. See yourself through those eyes and someday you'll believe it too. Let's all have less self criticism and more self love

Absolutely agree, I do wish I could look through the Mr's eyes at myself I'm sure I'd see myself much differently.

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd like to see more women being accepting of their bodies...without the hyperbolic bigging up of them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

Your figure is stunning I would love your figure "
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You have a beautiful figure and not at all jealous of those boobs!! You look amazing, love the lingere too!

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"You’ve a beautiful and stunning figure, lovely photos too, very arty, love Emm.

Thank you

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Media and social media are why people are body conscious its superficial stuff

The right people for everyone will love a person's exterior just as much as their interior and the grounded people want to know more of a person's interior to know that its worth sticking around

Looks can fade with time but a good heart never fades

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m big. The biggest I’ve ever been. Not confident in it. But it’s me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Media and social media are why people are body conscious its superficial stuff

The right people for everyone will love a person's exterior just as much as their interior and the grounded people want to know more of a person's interior to know that its worth sticking around

Looks can fade with time but a good heart never fades

I love this!

Mrs

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"I’m big. The biggest I’ve ever been. Not confident in it. But it’s me. "

And your fiance must love you just as you are

head always up

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m big. The biggest I’ve ever been. Not confident in it. But it’s me. "

I'm in exactly the same boat I've never been this size always an 8 it's taking some getting used to being a 14 but I'm getting there accepting my body.

Mrs

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Media and social media are why people are body conscious its superficial stuff

The right people for everyone will love a person's exterior just as much as their interior and the grounded people want to know more of a person's interior to know that its worth sticking around

Looks can fade with time but a good heart never fades

I love this!

Mrs "

Awww thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree, I do wish I could look through the Mr's eyes at myself I'm sure I'd see myself much differently.

Mrs "

Ahhh to be a man/husband for an hour so you get to see what he sees, thinks and feels. It would have an impact on the way I would see myself. Small impact but inpact nonetheless xx

(That's me in a man's mind not your hubby's lol)

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm very nearly at the point where I'm accepting of my body. It may not be the best one ever, but it's currently playing ball and letting me do what I want.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The self negativity hits us in different ways.

I generally never see myself as anything but average. I'm good with that, I'm happy with that. But now and again the self conscious worries creep in and we don't see ourselves in any kind of neutral or positive way. Even next to others that appear to be exactly the same as us. They look amazing yet we do not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your new photo is absolutely beautiful.

We all need to learn to love ourselves how we are. We are amazing.

Thank you, your photo is beautiful I fabbed before I saw this response, thank you for joining me, it's a hard thing to be completely raw!

I'll be honest I didn't think I'd post it I said to the Mr I need to do it before I can't.

You are beautiful and I absolutely love your pics, profile and positivity & even more so your compassion and understanding

Mrs "

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't think your photo could be any more majestic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go, you! Nothing to be shamed or to be ashamed of. You look great

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By *loveturfMan
over a year ago

Your bedroom

We never see our bodies as others do, building confidence takes time its a slow journey but your journey, it takes alot to post pics naked or lingerie as were all afraid to be judged at the end of the day no ones opinion matters only yours and hubbys.

The right people will always be attracted to someone positive

You look great and love your post

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Go, you! Nothing to be shamed or to be ashamed of. You look great

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,,, i second this..

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By *luefunMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Your figure is amazing too x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm very nearly at the point where I'm accepting of my body. It may not be the best one ever, but it's currently playing ball and letting me do what I want. "

Absolutely stunning body, I have to say that bum and boobs are just amazing

Mrs

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

Probably doesn't mean much from a stranger, but to everyone who has posted raw ('unflattering') pics on this profile, including OP, they are genuinely my favourite pics of yours.

I know 'what you see' is meant to have a negative connotation, but I see and like both. On a lighter note, I don't think you get what I'm looking at and attracted to in your pics if you think the angle/'imperfections' make a difference

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By *urge72Man
over a year ago

oxfordshire & Hull

Hi OP you genuinely look great

, and I have to say so many of the others I have looked at in this thread do too

But it goes further than this:

All of your personalities shine through on your profiles too. You come across as great people. It's such a shame some people just window shop looking at pics, without taking the time to read the profile.

Consequently, many of us get overlooked without a chance to demonstrate how fun and genuine we are. Well to those people I say this; Take a chance - you may be pleasantly surprised at what you discover when you engage with us

I love this thread! Thanks to everyone who has contributed x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Stuck one that shows my chub up. Your pics look lovely, OP

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Stuck one that shows my chub up. Your pics look lovely, OP

Absolutely stunning photo!!

Mrs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Stuck one that shows my chub up. Your pics look lovely, OP

Absolutely stunning photo!!

Mrs "

Thanks. In my mind, I look like a walrus or something

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By *hasingrainbowsCouple
over a year ago

Teesside

Fantastic picture.. love that you’re confident enough to show the real you

I always struggle when I look back at photos of myself and think it’s that thing you said about being our own biggest critics.

We are all made up of different sorts of shapes and sizes and it wouldn’t do for everyone to be the same.

We both love a curvy, womanly body

Mrs. x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fantastic picture.. love that you’re confident enough to show the real you

I always struggle when I look back at photos of myself and think it’s that thing you said about being our own biggest critics.

We are all made up of different sorts of shapes and sizes and it wouldn’t do for everyone to be the same.

We both love a curvy, womanly body

Mrs. x"

Your pics are great, you look amazing, we definitely are our own worst critics, we certainly don't need anyone else's criticism.

Mrs

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

You're hot potatoes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great post and I fabbed the photo because it's deserved.

I could post a pic I took recently of myself with the extra weight I've got from stopping smoking. But I can't be arsed.

And it's my face I feel the most negativity about but there's no way I'm posting that on my profile.

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By *ownandcuntry83Couple
over a year ago

Love the pictures. Natural bodies are the most beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're beautiful. We all are in our own ways and I applaud anyone willing to do this.

I know though that I couldn't at the moment. I think even I don't want to have to look at the reality, never mind share it.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

I think you have a stunning figure x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Fabbed. Nowt up with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree, I do wish I could look through the Mr's eyes at myself I'm sure I'd see myself much differently.

Mrs "

I am the same I know I am my own worst enemy and honestly wish I could see myself the way my man sees me.

Mrs

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Put a full nude as pp I hate my lumps and bumps but he adores them and raises me up about them everytime I feel down.

Tinder x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Put a full nude as pp I hate my lumps and bumps but he adores them and raises me up about them everytime I feel down.

Tinder x"

Your photo is beautiful Tinder as are you!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put a full nude as pp I hate my lumps and bumps but he adores them and raises me up about them everytime I feel down.

Tinder x"

Very hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole thread is packed full of amazing women and get my admiration, as a self confessed almost average guy who has the opinion that he is nothing special... keep you head high ladies and continue to radiate your beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the only pic I display these days. So sick of seeing arty unrealistic pics. We can all make ourselves look like the cover of a magazine, but it is all show. Much prefer real pics. Welcome to the other side op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the only pic I display these days. So sick of seeing arty unrealistic pics. We can all make ourselves look like the cover of a magazine, but it is all show. Much prefer real pics. Welcome to the other side op."

Fair play to you... i do like seeing real pics of people ... that shows me your genuine

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

And a very beautiful pic indeed

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

You are absolutely gorgeous. But I hear you. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says, you have to feel it yourself. I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been bar being pregnant with one of my kids. Yet I’m just about accepting myself. Sad to say it’s taken 54 yrs to get to this point. I often post pics of my squidgy bits particularly when I get a lot of nice comments on a pic, because I feel a fraud. It’s a well crafted pic and not how I see myself. I feel more confident naked than wearing lingerie. Letting it hang is way more freeing than that awful reminder of having to think to tuck your belly in your knickers

But however you look on the outside, whatever you see, whatever anyone else sees, the person on the inside is still the same and it can take a long time to realise that. Other people realise it long before we do. And well, does that don’t, really aren’t the people you want to be sharing that with anyway

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Beautiful photo, sorry I'll definitely carry on my arty pics too, they are my little kink I enjoy doing them.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful photo, sorry I'll definitely carry on my arty pics too, they are my little kink I enjoy doing them.

Mrs "

You carry on ... if your happy then that is what matters ..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"You are absolutely gorgeous. But I hear you. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says, you have to feel it yourself. I’m the heaviest I’ve ever been bar being pregnant with one of my kids. Yet I’m just about accepting myself. Sad to say it’s taken 54 yrs to get to this point. I often post pics of my squidgy bits particularly when I get a lot of nice comments on a pic, because I feel a fraud. It’s a well crafted pic and not how I see myself. I feel more confident naked than wearing lingerie. Letting it hang is way more freeing than that awful reminder of having to think to tuck your belly in your knickers

Your pics are stunning, all of them!

I totally get you though, we do need to accept ourselves more it's just hard to do when what you see isn't quite what your used too, I'm also heavier than I was pregnant it's still a little alien but I'm learning to love my new found curves & the boobs!! My god my little tea bags I hated them I've now got some

I get what you mean with showing the wobbly bits our pics in the woods I was hesitant to post but then thought no fuck it that's me and that's how I look, I don't want to catfish anyone.

Mrs

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Really good to read this, I think all of us who worry know it will take more than one thread to change, but it’s a step in the right direction on the journey.

Someone told me something that I’ll pass on which might help too - we’ve all got the body that someone else would love to have.

Whatever you see in the mirror, someone else would love to have your figure / height / face / hair. We all see the bad bits of ourselves but give equal headspace to the good bits.

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
over a year ago

North East

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

You look fantastic I personally don’t think you have anything to worry about you just keep being you x

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

" I'm learning to love my new found curves & the boobs!! My god my little tea bags I hated them I've now got some

Mrs "

It’s always great to find the positives. And no Matter what the situation there is ALWAYS something positive you can take from it.

I hated my flat arse. Now I feel it’s got more shape to it I’d be gutted to lose it.

If losing my belly means losing my arse I’d rather keep my belly and fuck those that don’t love it coz now I have something about me I DO love

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Your new photo is absolutely beautiful.

We all need to learn to love ourselves how we are. We are amazing."

You have a gorgeous body!

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Your pics in the wood are very hot, by the way

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

" I'm learning to love my new found curves & the boobs!! My god my little tea bags I hated them I've now got some

Mrs

It’s always great to find the positives. And no Matter what the situation there is ALWAYS something positive you can take from it.

I hated my flat arse. Now I feel it’s got more shape to it I’d be gutted to lose it.

If losing my belly means losing my arse I’d rather keep my belly and fuck those that don’t love it coz now I have something about me I DO love "

This is exactly me with my tits I love them and if that means keeping the belly then so be it.

You have an amazing arse by the way!! I can understand why you love it!

Mrs

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Great thread and great photos!

All of you ladies are uniquely beautiful

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Oh man I needed this. I'm very self conscious about my belly and rolls. I'm proper fat, not chubby, and it does get to me a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the bottom pic is sexier than the top one. Your boobs look amazing sitting up! Honey (f) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am super self conscious about my wobbly bits, but I have found being on FAB has improved my body confidence as I have realised that people find all body shapes attractive, and I realise myself that I am not necessarily attracted to the more ‘body perfect’ people but find people who look like me and have a similar body shape to me more sexy! (So why then do I still long to be slimmer?!?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh man I needed this. I'm very self conscious about my belly and rolls. I'm proper fat, not chubby, and it does get to me a lot x"

I see a very beautiful woman... curves are added character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP. Not many blokes will admit to it, but I'm pretty self conscious these days. Not helped by a hand Full of fabbers taking their Time to inbox me and tell me to put some clothes back on, "you're not what anybody is looking for" is a direct quote.

I'm working on me at the moment and trying to evoke some self love.

Keep at it OP. You're a sensation x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Oh man I needed this. I'm very self conscious about my belly and rolls. I'm proper fat, not chubby, and it does get to me a lot x"
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You are absolutely stunning

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Great thread OP. Not many blokes will admit to it, but I'm pretty self conscious these days. Not helped by a hand Full of fabbers taking their Time to inbox me and tell me to put some clothes back on, "you're not what anybody is looking for" is a direct quote.

I'm working on me at the moment and trying to evoke some self love.

Keep at it OP. You're a sensation x"

Oh no those type of messages are definitely not called for that's just rude.

I get this must also be a hard place for men in terms of confidence.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this day and age with social media etc it's extremely difficult for women especially to feel confident in their own bodies, but when you are confident there is literally nothing sexier! I've come to accept that there's always going to be someone with a better body, more handsome, funnier than me, I just wished most of the girls I chat to on here could see themselves as I and all if the decent people on here do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working on me at the moment and trying to evoke some self love.

Keep at it OP. You're a sensation x"

You don't need to contemplate meeting these people they're irrelevant, you look absolutely fine to me, and I'm sure there are plenty of people that are attracted to you! Keep up the good work brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm working on me at the moment and trying to evoke some self love.

Keep at it OP. You're a sensation x"

OMG. How can anyone think it’s acceptable to be so rude! I guess it’s easy to be rude sat behind a keyboard/phone… but what do people get out of bringing other people down?!!

For what it’s worth I took a peek at your pics and I think they are all very sexy (clothes on and off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh man I needed this. I'm very self conscious about my belly and rolls. I'm proper fat, not chubby, and it does get to me a lot x"

You look lovely! But I hear where you are coming from. We have to try to love ourself a bit more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely agree, I do wish I could look through the Mr's eyes at myself I'm sure I'd see myself much differently.

Mrs "

This! I have these conversations regularly with my partner. We are all so body conscious, when I separated from my ex of almost 20 years he said to me, you were happy until you started training and then you were just never happy with yourself.

It was quite a wake up call, I've always hated the inperfections in my body and tried to fix everything. Now I've matured and realised that life is too short to be constantly concerned with how I look, I still have those days of course but I now focus more on being fit and healthy.

Op your photos are all gorgeous, I've peaked quite a few times

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Oh man I needed this. I'm very self conscious about my belly and rolls. I'm proper fat, not chubby, and it does get to me a lot x"

You might see that, but the same as the other people who’ve posted here, you let your sexy shine in your pictures.

Maybe that’s the important thing we can take from Fab, it lets us show the best of ourselves, where we’re sexy and desirable. That’s not about body measurements, it’s an attitude and that attitude is attractive.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Thanks everyone for kind words xx and fuck you to everyone who's ever been mean to us!

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"So after my body shaming rant the post earlier just was too much and awful!!

Anyway now's the time to build each other up rather than shoot them down, get yourself here and compliment others on the thread.

Mrs

I love this. I am most self conscious of my inner thighs and back fat. I have taken a few photos and have posted them focusing on the bits I like the least. I have surprised myself by liking them more than I used to.

I say I like them the least because I decided a long time ago not to hate any part of my body.

I look back at the body of my 20s and 30s and think I looked great. I didn't think that at the time.

So 50, 60, 70, 80, 90 year old me. This is is 42 year old me. And I am enjoying and appreciating my body today. No longer will I look back I wish I had appreciated what I had. Today I do.

Thanks for this post OP. You are incredible and you look incredible.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

" I have taken a few photos and have posted them focusing on the bits I like the least. "

I forgot about waiting for photo approval

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

" I have taken a few photos and have posted them focusing on the bits I like the least.

I forgot about waiting for photo approval

Amber may i just say you look amazing as you are. A truly beautiful woman xx

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nowt up with anybody here. Sadly, fab has become an extension of Instagram, where everyone looks perfect.

If you get to middle age without any lumps, bumps, scars etc, then you're bloody lucky. Rejoice in the skin you have

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

" I have taken a few photos and have posted them focusing on the bits I like the least.

I forgot about waiting for photo approval

Absolutely beautiful & well done for posting it, stunning lady

Mrs

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