FabSwingers.com forum: Why don’t people want to rip your clothes off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But they want to do other people’s clothes off if they say they’re into you?

How do you become *sexy*? Can you become *sexy*?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though. "

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace."

Don’t the have a Primark in Carlisle?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I thought someone was bringing sexy back.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace.

Don’t the have a Primark in Carlisle?"

They do. But they don't carry fishnet stockings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clothes are pricey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought someone was bringing sexy back."

I had the ladies gassed,

More time I was dressed in black,

Thinsulate hat, so like Justin Timberlake, I brought sexy back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace.

Don’t the have a Primark in Carlisle?

They do. But they don't carry fishnet stockings

I knew there was a reason I hated that shop.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing. "

Am I missing something again?

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Really depends on individual taste in sexiness do I think I am sexy? Not at all but others have told me they find me sexy. Do I believe them it's 50/50 the thing is I like being told I am and that's the main thing when I do get told its a nice surprise and boosts my mood hugely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

Am I missing something again?

If you seeing Someone and they say they find you attractive, why don’t they want to rip your clothes off? I suggest it’s because you’re perhaps not *sexy*. But we want to be *sexy* to everyone that we’re seeing, surely?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?"

I don’t like fishnets.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?

I don’t like fishnets. "

I was starting to warm up to you as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?

I don’t like fishnets.

I was starting to warm up to you as well."

no you weren’t

I don’t like lipstick or fishnets

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?

I don’t like fishnets.

I was starting to warm up to you as well.

no you weren’t

I don’t like lipstick or fishnets

Best avert your eyes next Saturday then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the fishnets I feel sorry for. Always the victims in these lusty liaisons. Torn, split and abused. Won’t somebody *please* think of the fishnets?

I don’t like fishnets.

I was starting to warm up to you as well.

no you weren’t

I don’t like lipstick or fishnets

Best avert your eyes next Saturday then

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

Am I missing something again?

Oh right.

Well, sexy to another person is a perception on their behalf I suppose. You might be able to mimic the things that trigger that perception I guess.

I find loads of people attractive but there's very few I find sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

Am I missing something again?

Oh right.

Well, sexy to another person is a perception on their behalf I suppose. You might be able to mimic the things that trigger that perception I guess.

I find loads of people attractive but there's very few I find sexy "

I think my conclusion is, only date, sleep with or whatever, people that find you sexy. We all deserve to feel sexy.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Giving off I'm not interested vibes is my main one. In my early days I flitted through I want to feel sexy to all and it feeling hollow as it's not real conflictions. Once I settled down I found my equilibrium

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

Am I missing something again?

I don't see people that don't find me sexy. If that chemistry isn't there on either side then I'd rather not bother

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It doesn't mean you're not sexy.

I think we all like to feel that clothes ripping off desire from time to time. It's hot. Fun.

If someone is into you and they don't want to rip off your clothes? I don't know. It must be tough. It's not about validation. It's about reciprocated sexual energy.

If that's not there? Put that energy elsewhere where you'll get that matching feeling.

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By *_elie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I thought someone was bringing sexy back.

I had the ladies gassed,

More time I was dressed in black,

Thinsulate hat, so like Justin Timberlake, I brought sexy back. "

I do hope you mean gasped

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing.

Am I missing something again?

Oh right.

Well, sexy to another person is a perception on their behalf I suppose. You might be able to mimic the things that trigger that perception I guess.

I find loads of people attractive but there's very few I find sexy

I think my conclusion is, only date, sleep with or whatever, people that find you sexy. We all deserve to feel sexy. "

Good lord I hope nobody has had sex with me without finding me a tiny bit sexy at some point in the proceedings

. I agree with your conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found everyone that I’m into, isnt into me.

I’ll reword it

Everyone that is my type, I have found out that I am not their type.

But what can you do op?

I rip my own clothes off nowadays, and then climb in bed.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Be a girl? They all want to rip our clothes off.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Because my fake tits would fall off and they'd realise I'm actually a man

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Nope you can't become sexy.

I think almost everyone will appear sexy to someone though.

But of course we want to be *sexy* to everyone we’re seeing. "

But are you doing this for them or you which is more important?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I look better with them on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought someone was bringing sexy back.

I had the ladies gassed,

More time I was dressed in black,

Thinsulate hat, so like Justin Timberlake, I brought sexy back.

I do hope you mean gasped"
no because then I’d have recited the wrong lyrics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they thoroughly enjoy the view of you dressed and fancy taking it all in, just as much as eventually enjoying you free of clothing too.

A man once told me he loved lingerie not because it was meant to be ripped off me but because he thoroughly enjoyed the ‘perfectly wrapped’ feel of seeing me in it. So much he enjoyed it he didn’t want to take it off me.

Having clothes ripped off me is hot but seeing it from the viewpoint of being dressed and enjoying someone’s thought put into dressing well I don’t see the lack of having clothes ripped off me as a lack of being sexy by said person.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I were seeing someone who was more interested in ripping other people's clothes off than mine I'd find someone who did want to rip mine off, and get rid of the disinterested one.

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

Probably to ugly for them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I would assume he was only keeping me around for when no one else was available.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I were seeing someone who was more interested in ripping other people's clothes off than mine I'd find someone who did want to rip mine off, and get rid of the disinterested one."

I want to rip your clothes off!

Are you wearing anything underneath?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace."

Top top. Don’t wear your good stuff to a fab meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip even

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By *_elie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I thought someone was bringing sexy back.

I had the ladies gassed,

More time I was dressed in black,

Thinsulate hat, so like Justin Timberlake, I brought sexy back.

I do hope you mean gasped no because then I’d have recited the wrong lyrics

Ok, so someone farted and gassed the ladies...

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"I thought someone was bringing sexy back.

I had the ladies gassed,

More time I was dressed in black,

Thinsulate hat, so like Justin Timberlake, I brought sexy back.

I do hope you mean gasped no because then I’d have recited the wrong lyrics

Ok, so someone farted and gassed the ladies...

In this context, I think it was supposed to mean 'very excited' https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/gassed

But your interpretation's hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll rip your clothes off pickle

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"Be a girl? They all want to rip our clothes off."

Yep this is my take. At least in my experience, explosive desire is so much about objectification and projections, not really about some innate quality I have. Many people (men) who have wanted to rip my clothes off merely because I am female bodied, and now interest dropping as I'm slowly turning from auntie to grandma. I act&present as sexy/unsexy as I ever did, the effect I have on others is not something that has anything to do with how/what I am. Besides as a straight man looking for women you won't be subjected to the same, women typically express their burning desires in less direct ways.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I dunno

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"I think it's mostly because it's not worth hearing me bitch about how expensive it is to replace.

Top top. Don’t wear your good stuff to a fab meet"

A customer once brought his shirt to be repaired... At a party an excited woman ripped it off him, all the buttons pinged off and some tears too, it was a custom-made shirt and he was very annoyed! He said, she could have asked and I would have taken it off for her!

I don't think that would have worked for her!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If I were seeing someone who was more interested in ripping other people's clothes off than mine I'd find someone who did want to rip mine off, and get rid of the disinterested one.

I want to rip your clothes off!

Are you wearing anything underneath? "

Wrinkly skin

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